What does it feel like to have someone you can work for?

If there really is such a person for whom you can work tirelessly, then I believe that both of them are very happy. A person is willing to work tirelessly for the other, which means that this person must be very responsible and responsible. At the same time, there is another person who inspires you, then this person will have a purpose in life.

In order to become stronger and better, make unremitting efforts. It's also a great way to motivate yourself.

I have a person who can make me work hard, he is my boyfriend, we met in high school, we were together in the third year of high school, and after going to college, I was more relaxed than high school, but every time I think of him, I think of our future, I will continue to calm down and work hard, that feeling is very good, although I am busy every day but I will be very happy.

I feel like life is still very motivating. Since the birth of my daughter, the family has a lot of expenses, a lot of things to buy, and sometimes it feels stressful, but she is also a source of constant hard work for me. There is someone who makes me think about it all the time, and it fills my heart with hope.

Positive, I want him to be the happiest, I feel like I see the sun every day and he is very beautiful and look forward to happiness.

There was once such a person! Anyway, my world is like a ship sailing in the dark night sea, drifting aimlessly, and at that moment I finally saw the lighthouse.

I'm very lucky, I feel that way, and I am very lucky that if I meet me, I will feel that this is the precious person in my life.

Maybe you will feel this way after having a baby! I have a friend who said this, and it is true later, that she gave birth to a baby boy and she was willing to give anything for her son.

How terrible is the effort of man!

In these old stories, I see that there are many young people who are actually very busy, working very hard to do the things at hand, even sacrificing their rest and physical health. Just like me before me, I think the harder you work, the better. The motto is what you love to fight to win, and what you work harder the luckier.

But actually, during that period of hard work, I really rarely calmed down, or took a leisure, let my brain go and look at other paths, to evaluate whether other paths would be more suitable for me. Getting two or three thousand a month was already good at that time, and it was worth your efforts. But if you have the opportunity to get 40,000 or 50,000 yuan a month, or even take a path you like more easily with your ability, why don't you move a little energy and try it at that time?

Growing up, I have always been taught that when you do something, you have to devote yourself to it, so that you can do your best and be the best. Doing something short-term, as it should be. But to do something for the long term, do you also have to devote yourself to it, and focus so much that you don't have time to take care of it?

Actually, that kind of effort with all your strength and no distractions is really a terrible thing.

All your attention, energy, and thinking are like being welded to that thing, and you don't look up, you don't think, you don't make trade-offs, but you let the word "effort" keep you going.

Because countless people are telling you that as long as you "work hard", it is enough, and the rest of the results are not for us to consider.

"Go for it, boy! ”

We are moved by "hard work", as long as we "work hard", we will definitely make progress, so we try our best to trek forward on this road, not afraid of wind and rain and fatigue. But a few years, more than ten years have passed, and you look up and suddenly find that your "hard work" has not brought enough returns.

Just because the real world has many paths in itself. And what is really right for you is not necessarily the path you are taking now, even if it is the path that most people in the world take. In the same way, this kind of road may not be the path taken by your familiar classmates and envied friends, let alone the path that your parents teach and want you to take.

Sometimes, the harder you work on this road, the more you struggle, and you just go a little further on that road. In fact, in most people's eyes, it is a small path, but if that path suits you and you choose it, you can get twice the result with half the effort, and you can achieve greater results.

It's just that our "efforts" often pull us and don't let us leave, so that we miss opportunities again and again.

People who work hard are usually very self-disciplined, and they have a very clear goal, and in order to achieve this goal, they are not afraid of any difficulties, it is very scary.

The efforts of those people must be very terrible, and even they can be moved, which shows that even they don't believe that they can do such a hard work.

It is very scary, but the labor and hard work that human beings have to put in to do something is very unimaginable, and it is very explosive.

Hard work is very important in a person's life, but some people seem to work hard but give people the feeling that they are not working very hard, this is because there are some people who work hard, but the effect is not high, and the gains are also gained. Not much, so in the eyes of others is not hard enough, just like two people who work hard, one is more efficient and the other is low, and the person who is low will be called to work harder. Only hard work will lead to results, but sometimes hard work does not necessarily lead to results.

Because of efficiency and method, it will lead to different results, or it may be because of rejection, just like an employee who goes to run customers, efforts may or may not get the desired gains, have worked hard but have no way, incompetent, to others feel like they are not working so hard, because they have not completed the task. It can also be said that a student who studies in school, usually works hard to write exercises and endorsements, even if he works hard to write, he will have a different feeling, although the glasses have always been reading, but the thinking is not in front of him, sometimes I hear others talking and reply, or I may think crankily in my own mind, or I will not remember mistakes and knowledge points after writing exercises, and I will not have much effect on writing all the time, so it seems to be working hard, but it doesn't feel like this. Therefore, real effort is to have results and results, which in the eyes of others will have a feeling of effort, sometimes it is a comparison, it is to make people feel that they will not work hard, so the effort will have different effects.

There are some things that are really hard work, and some things are temporary cramming, and there are some opinions, but some efforts are not rewarded, so the effort you feel will feel like you are not working hard in the eyes of others.

In the first case, if your efforts may not be very hard in the eyes of those who are result-oriented, then you need to analyze how the results you have caused appear to you to be proportional to your efforts, whether they are proportional or inverse. In this way, you will understand that your shortcomings are not enough. You feel that it is proportional, you think that you can create such a result is already very good, you have tried your best, for example, in the exam, every time you take the test around 60 points, but with your efforts during this time, you get 80 points, this thing is already very good in your opinion, but the result is not very good, in some people's minds, your result, that is, 80 points, the score is not high at all, because they will look at those who have good grades and good results.

It will be someone with a score of 95 or more. will not see your efforts. You will only see your grades, a result that you are very satisfied with, but the other party is not satisfied with.

So if you meet such a person, you don't have to worry about them because they don't feel your efforts, because everyone is an independent individual, you can't change some things about him, you just feel that you are very good, don't take it too seriously, but you also have to face their doubts correctly, their attitude may be the motivation for you to work harder, their attitude will let you know that you are not very good at the time, you should do better, better and better, in order for them to see your efforts, you have to work harder than othersand let them see the results you presented to them. At the same time, let them see your efforts.

In the second case, if your efforts, in the eyes of those who are process-oriented, may be very hard, because they will see the time you have put in, the effort, and some of the homework you have done during this time, just take the above example as an example, your previous test score was about 60 points, and through this period of effort, your current test score is 80 points, so that the people who follow you will know your changes and will know the efforts you have made to achieve today's results, just like when you were in school, you had a parent-teacher conference, The teacher will say that so-and-so is the first in the class, such a thing, but the teacher will also say that so-and-so is the hardest working in the class, so that the students can learn the spirit of your efforts like him, and the teacher will also praise you and praise you.

Therefore, these two kinds of people will appear in your life, and their different attitudes will make you know yourself better, one is an affirmation of you, and the other is an encouragement to you. Both are indispensable on your path to success.

Most of these people appeared when they were students, and I don't have much of a good opinion of this kind of person anyway.

When I was in high school, I was particularly disgusted with a boy in my class, who was really good at pretending. He's not very smart, but he's working very hard, so his grades in our class are okay. It's just that our class is very poor, so his grades can't be ranked in the grade at all.

You say that he works hard, just work hard, and hard work is obviously a good thing. But he didn't have to work hard to get such a good score in the exam. Every time I asked him if he had anything to do his homework, he said that I was not in a hurry, and there was nothing to do about the homework.

When he came back from a big vacation, he said that he had played the whole vacation and had never touched a book. Whether he touched our or not, and only he knows if he saw it.

After going to college, this kind of person also exists, but I'm no longer surprised, he can do whatever he likes, anyway, he's happy. It's just that I can't get used to seeing them like this, I just stay away from them, and there is no need to be a good friend. So what good grades he worked hard for, and he had a scholarship, I don't envy it.

Everyone has their own destiny, and I'm like this, and I can't give others the feeling of working hard, because I obviously haven't worked hard.

If I read a book one day and see that it was twelve o'clock in the evening, I would like to tell the good ones around me and let them praise me. It's not like him, who works hard, but pretends to be nothing, giving us the feeling that we haven't worked that hard.

Because everyone has a different definition of effort, some people will think that he is not working hard.

Efforts are for the sake of a good home in the heart, in order to realize the good wishes of the heart, no matter what kind of effort is to achieve the creative behavior of the heart that is not satisfied with the natural status quo. The birth of man is not only the need of nature, but also the need of man's own consciousness, he is not only an innovation in thinking, but also a desire to provide transformation of the material world. Why do people work hard?

The birth of human beings is tortuous and difficult, human beings are not accidental, he was born in a special environment must make full efforts for his own survival, let himself adapt to the environment and transform the environment, so that the environment meets the needs of his own survival, and a comfortable environment is the beautiful goal pursued by human beings. Hard work is the belief of human nature, and it is the perfection of life itself, so that the life process leaves traces worthy of pride.

There is a saying that when we come to this world, we cannot determine our own length, we can only increase our own width. People live in the world for decades, and it is twenty or thirty thousand days for short, and when you come to this world, you must always leave traces, even if it is a meteor, you can also hope to have a moment to light up the sky for a short time. Life is just tens of thousands of days, we work hard to live, hoping that every day is wonderful, not wasted, but only one day, and then repeated tens of thousands of times.

There is no casual success in this world, and there is no pie falling from the sky, and beautiful things need us to work hard. We work so hard to live a better life, see more beautiful scenery, feel a richer life, we work so hard to prove that we have been here, and we have worked hard, and we will not regret it when we leave.

This problem is not a static, but a dynamic result. This is for me. From the time I was in school, I studied hard in order to be admitted to university, to be a more useful person in the future, to create my own world, and to realize my ideals.

After graduating from college and entering the society, hard work has several more meanings, first of all, in order to live, in order to have the opportunity to realize their ideals, no matter how many times they fall, they will always get up and continue to work hard, because the hope in their hearts has never been shattered, and the ideals in their hearts have never disappeared. I'm still working hard, although I've gone through so much, I haven't succeeded, but I'm still working hard, and it has another layer of meaning, because of that responsibility and the tenacity in my heart that can't be defeated. That's why I say that hard work is a dynamic form, from purely for ideals, to for not living a life in vain, and then to now, not being an irresponsible person.