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I think the problem lies with the so-called boys. Actually, this is also an unintentional move, but those vain girls always want the boys to pay attention to them, and your presence is in the way of them, so they think that you are doing it on purpose, and then attract the boys. But, in fact, you don't even think about it, do you?
So, you don't have to pay too much attention to what they say, you are distressed on the side, and their mouths will not stop talking about you because of your distress.
The best way is to ignore the rumors for the time being, but show your sincerity to each of your classmates, whether it is male or female, so that others will think that you are actually a very good person, they will be willing to be friends with you, and of course they will not pay attention to the slander of individual girls, on the contrary, they will think that those girls are crazy. You try to be cheerful and slowly become friends with your classmates, which may be better, you know, friends are not lovers, there is no love at first sight, and they will treat you as friends all of a sudden. It depends on the proof of time
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It's a matter of time, don't worry, it was the same when I was in high school.
Don't care what others say.
It's good to be happy.
Also be careful of things being stolen...
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Show yourself more in front of the teacher, let the teacher trust you, and slowly let you take up some positions, and after a long time, you will also make some reputation in school, and then you will not be afraid that others will ignore you.
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Go find your own group! I've just entered my freshman year of high school, and I'm just like you. You can ignore interpersonal relationships and exchange your grades for what you deserve. We're both freshmen in high school, and if we can, we'll make friends. I.
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Nothing! I remember when I first started talking to people! Haha
Remember! Be generous and don't be unhappy because of some small things.
People have no ill intentions!
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Are you too good to attract jealousy?
Just live your own life.
Why do you do so much?
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Ay. Relationships are always hard to get.
Being laughed at, it doesn't matter how it pulls. You should take the initiative to make good friends, don't be afraid of failure, but always remember not to be too good to others, otherwise others will not be the same good to you, to grasp the scale, everything to do according to your own heart, no friends are sad, what you like to fight for yourself. It doesn't matter if no one cares about you, you can live well alone, the most important thing is that you have to be yourself, and you can study hard if you have nothing to do.
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You go to the Anime City on the sixth floor of the soshow in the third phase of New World to shake a talisman gacha! There's a call"Beauty in all directions"Symbols! Bring you and you'll be invincible!
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But make friends with the kind of person you want to become. I believe that it will be much easier to get in touch with the same type of people.
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Children, I haven't seen much of the world. Don't care what they say, do what you want.
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I think you're a very introverted person! I think it's a good time on campus, and you have to take good care of your relationships. It's easier to have relationships on campus than outside. Start with your personality on campus, you are cheerful and optimistic, willing to help others, and joke with your classmates.
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It's boring to be a girl like this. It's clearly jealousy, ignore them.
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It's about the same as when I first entered high school. I was very inactive at that time, the kind that didn't say anything, and I actually admired your initiative! This is very good, as long as you keep doing it, after all, it has just begun, and everyone will naturally get along well after a long time.
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Living in the words of others, you can never find your true self.
Be generous and don't let people think you're weak.
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They say that you are jealous of you, and those who are jealous will not succeed, so you don't have to pay attention to it, go your own way, and let others say it...
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What are you doing with them Now there are more cheerful girls like you 8 They are jealous of you like old ladies You know no.
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Leave them alone with chic!
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It's also better to learn a little more and change yourself to see what people say.
You can't show your dissatisfaction with others, it's very bad for yourself.
Of course, from now on, you should also make more friends and expand your circle of friends, so that you don't have to worry about losing friends.
Note that interpersonal communication is very important in junior high school and beyond, so you can't show your dissatisfaction with others, which is very bad for yourself.
My best friend from elementary school is not like this, but he is super snobbish, he will stick to you when he has something, and he won't even look at you when he has nothing to do.
Now that I'm in junior high school, I have a grudge against her, but I should still act like we're still good friends.
Because, it is better to have one more friend than one more enemy, and maybe friends will still be useful to you in the future.
In this society, good interpersonal relations are the most important drops.
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This is very demanding for the whole class! But it's not impossible.
There are many kinds of friends, so you have to classify them first.
1. Some friends are the same interests.
2 friends are the same interests.
3. Some friends are the same as enemies.
4. Some friends are the same aspirations.
Therefore, the key to making friends is to seek common ground while reserving differences. As long as you work hard in public places, you can make friends.
The difficulty of making friends is to maintain this relationship, so the way of speaking is the key.
1. Be generous. 2. Be humble.
3. Be good at praise and praise.
4. Be good at hiding people's shortcomings and shortcomings.
5. Be generous and dare to suffer.
6. Be helpful.
Speak. 1. Listen carefully to what the other party is saying, and analyze what kind of person the other party is.
2. What kind of feelings are the other party expressing when they speak, whether they are happy, angry, complaining, or complacent. Wait a minute. Then, if you follow the other person's thinking, if you have something in common, you should say words of admiration if you boast, if you are angry, you should say words of hatred and hatred, if you complain, you should say words of sympathy, and if you are happy, you should say words of envy.
3. When the other party is in high spirits and has a good interest in talking to me, I will throw out my point of view, and so on and so on, back and forth. With a humble attitude to meet the approval of the other party, even if you sometimes can't get along, you also leave a good impression on the people around you.
In this way, you can basically become a panacea and lubricant in relationships!
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Oh, lz, when I was just about to go to high school, I also had the same feeling as you, it seemed a little looking forward and a little scared, looking forward to making good friends in high school, afraid of not finding friends, in fact, we think like this are too worried, I remember when I was just about to go to high school, I was really looking forward to and afraid was always around me, but when the school really started, I saw some people I knew in junior high school, and I also saw new classmates, so I was not so nervous, you can try to communicate with them, don't be afraid, I'm going to college this year, and I don't feel scared after my high school experience.
In fact, as long as you open your heart, to communicate with friends sincerely, it is not difficult to find a new friend, slowly through high school you will also learn some ways to behave in the world, you will have conflicts with friends and so on, you will slowly mature the relationship with friends after these, know what friends should be in-depth communication, hehe, this is the words after going to college.
So when you go to high school, don't always think about your junior high school popularity, because this is high school, not junior high school, for example, when you go to class, your seat problem, you go and say to a new classmate, "Hello, can I do it here?" Isn't this great? In fact, you don't have to make friends with the whole class at first, you first get acquainted with the people around your seat, and then slowly you can joke with the whole class, and slowly you can get acquainted.
lzWhen you make friends, you must not feel that you are higher than others, for example, you have good grades, you can't always show that you look down on others with good grades, and the family environment is not good to perform too much, for example, when you go to the school supermarket with your friends, you can pay for a small amount of money within the range you can afford, and don't rush to pay when it doesn't match your range, you can also go and tell your friends that today's dress is good, buy it in ** or something, I'm a girl, So the female gray discusses this kind of problem, but you don't act too flattering, just make others look more sincere and complimentary.
In fact, as long as you treat people sincerely, you can make friends at this point, but remember, you should treat people sincerely and don't let others think that you are cheating, but there should be fewer such people in high school.
Hehe, in the end, I wish LZ can make true friends in high school life
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If you want the whole class to recognize you and be your friend, you have to be just right in every way, there must be a degree.
Some places can be highlighted, while others need to converge.
You have to have a good temper, preferably a very generous kind, and you have to show friendliness on your face, just smile innocently. Don't do things too high-profile, which will cause some students to be disgusted, and you can't help talking, so many people can't communicate with you.
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I think it's better to communicate with the flow of fate is naturally a friend Don't be too deliberate Otherwise you will be very tired And no one can have the ability to do a good job in the relationship of the whole class Unless the leader I don't know what kind of situation you are communicating But if you feel that you are not good Reflect on what you say and what you do to your friends To have a clear conscience and the attitude of changing when you know your mistakes is actually enough to be generous and humorous Naturally there will be more friends Remember to learn to tolerate This is the most critical last point in communication I think you should focus more on your studies It's not up to you to talk about communication It's important to talk about communication But people still have to rely on themselves in the end Especially when you go to high school, you will find that you don't have enough time to think about it, what do you say? Don't be mediocre and think about your duties.
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Be honest with each other and don't be careful. Needless to say, if you do this, you won't be afraid of having no friends. However, there is no perfect person in the world, that is, there is no perfect person in the world, and you don't have to care too much about what some people think of you, you are living for yourself instead of looking at other people's faces!
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Wanting to be friends with everyone at your current level and your junior high school experience is impossible.
My advice is to make a few good friends first and become friends with friends with friends.
In this way, you can constantly expand your circle of friends and strengthen your communication skills.
It's unrealistic to eat a fat man in one bite.
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Treat everyone with sincerity and enthusiasm, in my opinion, high school friends will be the best relationship in the future!
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A smile is a passport to the world, and the first feeling is very important, and it is best to dress up a little bit for students, and it is best to give people a sense of intimacy. The most important thing is to be honest with people.
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Low-key, be modest, humorous, and informal. It's hard for the whole class to turn it in!
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Cheerful and generous.
It's hard to do. Try to talk to others.
If people don't bully you, they're friends who bully you.
It's true. I'm a senior in high school now, believe me.
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Actually, it's about the same as junior high school, and I want to hand over the whole class, and this goal is so ambitious, but I have to be natural, and I believe that you can do it!!
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You can teach your friends and build friendly relationships with others.
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In fact, it is very simple, treat everyone sincerely.
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You can get acquainted with each other in military training.
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About Learning:
1. First of all, I have confidence in myself, "the grades are average, and one book should be about the same" - such a good result, can it be said that it is average? Be confident, girl! You have to follow the teacher's revision rhythm and revise well. Being good at summarizing, reviewing in time, and cleaning up in time are just misunderstandings.
2. Secondly, you should master your own biological clock and develop a study plan that meets your needs.
3. Finally, you have to find your own knowledge blind spots, and make breakthroughs in your knowledge blind spots on the premise of following the teacher's general direction of review.
About the choice of major:
1. Understand the major: you can buy relevant guidance books. Take a look at what you learn in each major at the university, what your current employment situation is, and how the industry will develop in the future.
2. Know yourself: Think about what you can do best and what you want to do. The field of vision must be broad.
You can ask people around you about your abilities, your hobbies, and what your personality is suitable for. Don't lose sight of what your own heart desires the most.
3. Although you are a science student, you can also choose a liberal arts major in college. Therefore, studying literature and science will not affect the choice of major very much, and you don't have to think too much about this. Finally, I hope you will seize the opportunity of the college entrance examination and the opportunity to apply for a major, so that what you do every day can get closer to your dreams little by little.
Finally, I hope you have a bright future, a bright future. come on. confident girl!
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