Complex interpersonal relationships, what is the most complicated in interpersonal relationships?

Troubles are necessary for growth. It doesn't matter if you're straight and fast. As long as you can find someone who matches your temper, it's good. You'll have a good friend in no time.

Treat whatever kind of people you want!

Society is not judged by right and wrong, it is really complicated, but the important point is that you have to treat others with sincerity, then you will also get a sincere return, believe me?

Treat others with your own enthusiasm, as long as you have a clear conscience! Try to be considerate of others!

Do what you want to do and don't care too much about others (but not not indifferently).

For friends, remember this sentence: friends are always quilts, and what really warms you up is your own body temperature.

Find a few real friends, even one!

In interpersonal communication, as long as you figure it out, no matter how complex things are, they will become extremely simple, so that you can be at ease in interpersonal communication.

In the relationship, people should feel that the relationship with you is worthwhile, valuable, comfortable, happy, and wants to communicate with you from the heart, without rejection. Some people always feel that when they interact with others, how can others be so unreasonable, and how others don't understand me. In fact, you should first ask yourself, what can I bring to the other person, and will the other person be happy when they receive my giving?

Only by straightening out this line of thinking, while cooperating with others, making others profitable, and doing everything naturally and pleasantly, can we grasp the core factors of interpersonal communication.

So how do you control the core elements of interpersonal communication?

In communication, when contacting people, focus on observing the other person's eyes and movements, intonation and words, clothing and accessories, and quickly find the contradictions of the other party, so as to judge the other person's personality type. For example, some people are plainly dressed but have exaggerated clothing, and through eye observation, they are roughly classified as a person who pursues serenity but is psychologically anxious; Some people are very crazy, but they are petty, and they can be divided into the categories of fledgling or not deeply involved. This quick and easy method of judgment is relatively simple and practical.

There is also a kind of time conditions permitting, you can focus on understanding or asking what kind of people the other party is interacting with, and understand each other from this side, the ancients said that "things gather like like" is this kind of truth, after understanding the character characteristics of the other party, you can do what they like, and the communication is much simpler.

In interpersonal relationships, since there are contacts and contacts, you must strive to make the people you cooperate with earn a little more, so that more and more people like to cooperate with you, so that your road can be wider and wider. In interpersonal communication, it is a kind of overall application process, after contact with people, if you have a certain good impression and feel that you can make friends with each other, you will have to carry out deep cultivation. The positioning of interpersonal relations is the relationship of interests, so after establishing a preliminary good feeling, enter the process of mutual trust between personalities, and then find ways to build a community of interests.

Only when the two sides form a community of interests can they be closely related, shield each other from the wind and rain, and reach the highest level of interpersonal relations.