The small intention of self discipline mentality, the small story of self discipline mentality

Self-disciplined mindset. A famous writer once said that if you want to conquer the world, you must first learn to control yourself. The most difficult thing in the world to conquer is ourselves, and only by overcoming ourselves and overcoming our own shortcomings in human nature can we achieve great things.

If we want to be successful, we must first be self-disciplined, because he is a big factor in success. Being strict with oneself and being lenient with others is the standard of conduct for successful people. Among them, self-discipline is the internal factor, and the internal factor determines the main direction of development.

Self-discipline is self-restraint and self-control. Only if we manage and control ourselves well, can we set a good example for the employees below and play a leading role, so that we can better manage them. If we can't do self-discipline ourselves, then how can we serve the public?

If we want to do well, first, we must be strict with ourselves. Strict, that is, strict: law, is measurement, requirements:

If a person wants to be excellent, he must be strict with himself when choosing a successful life. Because, thought is the precursor of action, and thinking guides behavior. To be strict with oneself is to root a kind of ideological quality in people's minds and use it to know people's correct words and deeds.

Second, we must be lenient with others, and if we are lenient with others, we can be an easy person. Because, the more strict you are with others, the higher your expectations, and the greater the disappointment you will reap.

So how do we do self-discipline? In my personal opinion, there are the following points:

1. Self-knowledge. First, you have to identify your goals and values. This requires you to do a sober self-analysis and write it down with a pen.

Write down your goals, dreams, and ambitions with a pen. It's best to write a way to implement it yourself. I found that this program allowed me to better understand who I am, who I am and what my value is.

2. Sober awareness. Self-discipline depends on being able to be aware of what you're doing and what you're not doing.

3. Implementation. It's not enough to write down goals and values. If we are determined to do it, we must spare no effort to implement it, and we cannot fish for three days and dry the nets for two days.

To do a good job of self-discipline, we not only gain a good habit, but more importantly, enable him to show our success!

Four. Guts. Self-discipline is often extremely difficult.

Moods, desires, and emotions can all be fierce enemies that undermine self-discipline. Therefore, self-discipline is extremely dependent on courage. If in fact something is very difficult or painful for you, then don't pretend it's easy, but find the courage to face the pain and difficulty.

When you start to get a little bit of victory, your self-confidence grows and when self-discipline requires courage, courage comes naturally.

All successful people know how to be self-disciplined. Self-discipline is the ability and condition that self-cultivation and determination to achieve great things must have, each of us can develop the habit of self-discipline, pay attention to self-discipline in life, pay attention to self-discipline!

He does not teach in the Three Character Sutra, he is diligent and hardworking, he has no books, and he knows encouragement.

The philosopher Immanuel Kant said: The so-called freedom is not to do as you like, but to be self-mastered.

I still remember reading a little story before, which is about the great thinker Xu Heng once went out, and because of the hot weather, he felt unbearably thirsty. It happened that there was a pear tree on the side of the road, full of pears, and the people accompanying him were scrambling to pick pears to quench their thirst, but Xu Heng was unmoved. They persuaded him to pick pears as well, but he said:

It's not my own pear, so how can I pick it casually? The others said, "During the war, people fled in all directions, and I am afraid that this pear has no owner for a long time."

Xu Heng said sharply: "If the pear tree has no owner, does my heart have no master?" When the man heard this, he was ashamed of himself.

Xu Heng never picked pears, and was indifferent to the ownerless pear tree, and the "master" in Xu Heng's heart is what we often call self-discipline. Only with self-discipline can people firmly grasp themselves and successfully dominate themselves.

The Italian writer Calvi said: I have no confidence in anything that is at my fingertips, fast, instinctive, improvised, ambiguous. I believe in the power of slowness, peace, elaboration, steadfastness, and calmness.

I do not believe that it is possible to achieve individual or collective liberation without self-spirit and without self-construction and effort.

There is a well-known ballet company in San Francisco, USA, and a reporter interviewed the principal ballet dancer of this troupe. When the reporter asked her, "What is your favorite food?"

The beautiful ballerina happily replied, "Ice cream sundae!" What surprised the reporter was that this kind of food contains a lot of calories, and eating more will cause weight gain and affect women's beautiful lines.

I haven't tasted that in at least 15 years. Hearing this, I turned from surprise to admiration and praise.

The story of lying down and tasting guts.

In 496 B.C., King Wu sent troops to attack the Yue Kingdom, but was defeated by the Yue Kingdom, and He Lu was also seriously wounded and died. Two years later, Fu Cha, the son of Helu, led his troops to defeat the Yue Kingdom, and the Yue King Gou Jian was escorted to the Wu Kingdom as a slave, and Gou Jian endured humiliation and served the King of Wu for three years, and the Fu Cha discouraged him and sent him back to the Yue Kingdom.

In fact, Gou Jian did not give up his desire for revenge, he was obedient to King Wu on the surface, but secretly trained elite soldiers, strengthened the government and waited for the opportunity to counterattack Wu. Hardship can temper the will, but comfort will wear out the will. Gou Jian is afraid that he will covet the comfort in front of him.

Grinding the will to take revenge, so he arranged a difficult living environment for himself. He slept at night without a mattress, but laid out some firewood and grass (called wages in ancient times), and hung a bitter gall in the house, which he would taste from time to time, in order not to forget the shame of the past.

In order to encourage the people, Gou Jian and the queen participated in the labor with the people, and under the concerted efforts of the Yue people, he made the Yue Kingdom strong, and finally found the opportunity to destroy the Wu State.

One PR guru gave an example when talking about building good relationships. He said that no matter how beautiful a young lady is, if the beautician looks at her beautiful face with a 500x magnifying glass, what she sees must be a potholed, uneven face, which is a big disappointment. And when we take the telescope to look at the green hills, we are full of picturesque scenery and charming mountain scenery, which is refreshing.

This shows that if you always look at others with a magnifying glass, you will make them look useless, and you will not be able to trust others and make friends. On the contrary, if you hold a telescope, you can always appreciate the good side of others, and it is this informal characteristic that makes the guests and hosts happy and invincible.

At the same time, it also tells us that if the magnifying glass is focused on oneself and not on others, if we can humbly ask others to criticize ourselves in the harshest way, then the magnifying glass and the telescope can be most effective at the same time.

Strict self-discipline and leniency towards others are the best interpretations of magnifying glasses and telescopes.

[Self] feels great, but [law] people are lenient with themselves, [heart] and mind are not broad enough, and [state] is not repaired.

Self-discipline is about restraining yourself from doing things you shouldn't do. For example, you have to queue up to buy a ticket, and you can't cut the line; Follow the traffic rules when walking on the road;

Upstairs, how to say that self-discipline is a service attitude, self-discipline should be self-discipline, should be to the clarity of financial expenditure, the quality of products, and the fairness of cooperation between customers (businessmen, buyers) These three aspects should begin. In three paragraphs, the three main points should be fine.

Self-discipline is about restraining yourself from doing things you shouldn't do. For example, you have to queue up to buy a ticket, and you can't cut the line; Follow the traffic rules when walking on the road;

Write according to your actual situation.

Extended information: Discipline and rules are indispensable in our daily work, study and life. Many facts can illustrate this truth, such as the queue to buy a ticket; Follow the traffic rules when walking on the road; Even our usual actions are subject to certain requirements and constraints, otherwise there is no order in anything. As students in school, we are in a period of transition to society, and there are countless disciplines and rules that require us to do what to do and what not to do.

However, it is difficult for us to make progress if we are always in a demanding environment to study and live, so we should learn to restrain ourselves, demand ourselves, change from passive to active, consciously abide by the daily behavior norms of middle school students, and use it to restrain our words and deeds. Pythagoras said: He who cannot restrain himself cannot be called a free man.

Our self-discipline is not to let a large number of rules and regulations bind us layer by layer, but to use self-discipline to create an orderly order to strive for greater freedom in our study and life.

Self-discipline is one's own strict requirements for oneself.

Make demands on your own life, study, and demand.

Self-discipline is to return to self-restraint and self-control.

Self-discipline is a kind of cultivation and a state of mind.

Self-discipline is the foundation of success in each of our lives. Be strict with yourself, don't take the good as small, don't take the evil as small.

May it help you.

Self-discipline is very important, as the so-called state has national laws, the family has family rules, if the country has no laws, the country will certainly not exist for a long time, if there are no rules at home, then the family will not be harmonious. We need a regulation to do anything, just like the laws of the country, the law tells us what not to do, if we violate these, we will be punished accordingly, the same way, in our industry there are corresponding rules and regulations, if we do things contrary to it, then we will be punished, serious will no longer be able to develop in the industry. So we must abide by the rules and regulations of the industry.

There are no rules, there is no circle, this sentence can also be simply understood as self-discipline is not done well, and it is difficult to succeed in life. A person's self-discipline is not good, then he not only causes trouble to others, but also brings trouble to himself, the trouble can be big or small, take the red light as an example, when the red light, you don't wait, go straight over, when there is no car, it's okay, if there are many cars, the other party has no time to brake, you are hit, this time it affects the traffic, in addition to the accident, there will definitely be police cars and the like parked at the intersection, it will also attract a lot of people to see the excitement, at this time it will cause serious traffic jams, to the passing pedestrians to bring trouble. As for himself, he will be hospitalized at least or die at worst, so the consequences are unimaginable, just this small red light will cause such a big trouble, not to mention violating other rules and regulations.

I remember when I was in elementary school, my teacher said that there were many places that were not accessible, such as playrooms, ice rinks and other entertainment venues. These are the rules and regulations of the school, I violated, at that time I liked to go to the game room to play games, as long as I had money, I ran to the game room, the pocket money given by adults was used to play games, sometimes early in the morning the game room was not open, I went to knock on the door and ask the boss to open the door. Because the game room is open on the road near the school, there are a lot of classmates coming and going, I will always be seen when I enter the game room, they tell the teacher, so I also got the teacher's punishment, the teacher also told my parents, I got the punishment of my parents, once I went to the game room after school, when I was playing, suddenly someone grabbed my ear and pulled me out, I screamed in pain, and finally I saw that it was my mother, I was very impressed by that incident, and I didn't go to the game room since then, Of course, I was also punished a lot that time.

In the industry must do a good job of self-discipline, self-discipline is not good, then it is difficult to develop in the industry, one of the purposes of our industry is to cultivate a group of quality people, if there is no self-discipline, it is impossible to become a quality person, in the industry we must manage themselves, always have a self-discipline mentality, so as to better develop in the industry.

Self-discipline is about restraining yourself from doing things you shouldn't do. For example, you have to queue up to buy a ticket, and you can't cut the line; Follow the traffic rules when walking on the road;