Does money ruin relationships between people?

Now we are in this society, is a money supremacy society, no matter what relationship between people, family, friendship, love, etc., money is a point that can not be bypassed, in these emotional world, there will always be a point connected to money, but will money destroy the relationship between people? The answer is yes, definitely. Don't talk about anything else, just say that everyone can see it on the news, between sons and parents, between husband and wife, between brothers, between sisters, between friends, between girlfriends, between colleagues, etc., there are many things that make trouble because of money.

Quarrels, severance of relations is small, and even lawsuits occur, so the landlord asked if money would affect the relationship between people, and my answer was yes.

Yes. For some people: it is possible to live without friends, not without money; You can have no face, you can't have no money; You can't have no marriage, you can't live without money; You can have nothing, that is, you can't have no money, your salary is 10,000, and your friend's salary is always five or six thousand, if it is an accountant, then your friendship will definitely die soon.

Not to mention money, even honor and fame will also be, and it will be very destructive! A person's light is too dazzling and will stab those around him.

I'm not sure it's going to ruin the relationship, but it can hurt the relationship to a certain extent. I had a particularly good friend before, when she bought a mobile phone and some things had no money, I lent her two thousand, for me, not much, but after all, I am a student, I need to buy a lot of daily necessities, girls love to dress up to buy skin care products, cosmetics, clothes and shoes, etc., after a few months, she did not return to me, I did not urge, I believe that she just wants to pay back, but there is nothing I can do, I am not in a hurry, and after a while, my hands became tight, urging her to pay back, the two had a big dispute, I haven't spoken for a long time, this should be considered money destruction, if you hadn't borrowed it from me, so many things wouldn't have happened. Later, no matter what I do, I will never borrow money.

There are many such things in the people, even if it is just because of a few dozen yuan or a stone, even if there is a little property left after the death of the old man! will cause enmity, even if it is a brother! There was an old man in my hometown who had cancer!

I need to see a doctor! The old man has three sons and two daughters! The eldest son said:

I'm not in my hometown, the old people take little care of me, and I can't go back! I don't contribute money or effort! The two daughters said

We're married, and we just don't have to pay for it! The second son said: The eldest and the two sisters don't care, and it's not my turn, and the third son said

I pay for it, but I can't scout my work and can't leave! There is no way for the village committee to take care of this matter! Give the eldest son a good talk, the eldest son just doesn't care!

The second and third sons agreed to pay for the two daughters scout! After the death of the old man, the property was inherited by the second child, and later the old man died, and the eldest son, daughter-in-law and grandson did not come to the funeral! I haven't been back to my hometown for two years!

First of all, money is an indispensable existence in human society. He is an equivalent exchange, and as long as there is a place for trading, money and things that have a money function are indispensable. Then money is an incomparable contribution to the progress of human society.

If money is the root of all evil, then why not outlaw? Because the pros outweigh the disadvantages, because it can't be separated from.

My cousin, married, doesn't work, eats and drinks at home, has no money, and then asks my sister to borrow, saying that she wants to repay the credit card, my sister borrowed 1000, and it didn't take long to pay it back, and then it didn't take long to borrow from my sister, borrow 500, and let my sister make up 1000 for her, my sister came to me, I didn't borrow, so I ignored her, I told my sister that you borrow money to see people, whether it is a relative or not, from the tone of her voice, you can conclude that this kind of person can't borrow money, my sister doesn't believe it, as a result, my sister has no money to eat now, I didn't reply to a message three times, and my sister was angry and blocked directly, and I didn't want the money, so, to be honest, borrowing money, unless it can be trusted, I'd better refuse it politely, and you will know what it means to be an uncle when you collect debts.

16 years outside the village there is a person to buy a lottery ticket won 30,000 yuan, at that time the lottery was just popular in our county, generally the New Year out of the work, home business is a little better, buy lottery tickets few people. Money is not much, the fault is in the greedy heart, 16 years is engaged in the development of families are building houses and buying houses, I heard that people in the same village bought lottery tickets and won the lottery how many tens of thousands of more and more outrageous, door-to-door borrowing money appeared, first friends and then relatives, children in school were blocked by classmates to ask for money, so that a family has not been out of the door except for the 60-year-old people have gone to the field.

Because people attach too much importance to interests, between interests and friendship, people will choose interests, so talking about money will destroy feelings.

Friends originally had a very deep relationship, but when it comes to money, their relationship will be damaged and will be different from before. It is said that brothers settle accounts, let alone just friends, and money is beneficial and necessary for all aspects of life and oneself.

Because everyone will have a certain bias in their hearts, so in the end, when it comes to money, once it is unevenly divided, it is indeed easy to destroy the relationship between two people.

Because brothers have to settle accounts, if there are financial interests between friends, it will be easy to quarrel, so that the relationship between two people is not good, and it is best not to involve financial interests if the relationship between friends wants to last for a long time.

Because most people value interests, and friends are no exception, once it comes to the issue of interests, there will be problems in feelings.

Favors and money are very important in different occasions or fields. In the world of money, human favor is very pale and slim, and where money can't buy things, human favor is more precious than gold.

Therefore, money and favors are important in a person's life. Family, friendship, and love are all human affections, and these basic human feelings are needed by everyone, but they cannot be bought by money.

However, in real life, the intervention of money can often impact family, friendship, and love, and people who can't grasp their original intentions are easily confused, and eventually lose these basic friendships because of money.

That's why I think money and relationships are important.

This issue should be treated differently. In fact, money is only a kind of material, and the emotions between people are priceless and precious, money can be earned, but it is difficult to get back the feelings when they are gone. Of course, money is also important, but compared with the two, the relationship between people is more important.

Relatively speaking, the emotions between people are still more important, because we have the knowledge we want in part of the emotional needs.

Such emotions between people are relatively related to money, but they are not the most important, and the two complement each other.

It depends on whether your feelings refer to love or the feelings of ordinary friends, if it is the feelings of ordinary friends, I think feelings are an important point. "Those who get more help" have feelings, it doesn't matter if you don't have money, "there are more friends, the road is easy to walk", everyone will help you. But if it's love.

Of course, you have to choose feelings, but the merger of the two is the best.

You should have also heard that the night is beautiful because of the stars, life is wonderful because of you, wealth is not your lifelong friend, but friends are your lifelong wealth. If a person has sincere love, then he has real wealth.

It is not denied that there are favors that are not based on money, and it is undeniable that many favors are based on money.

The affection between people is important.

Text: Meet Jun.

Make a difference in life, let change happen on day 30.

Zhou Xinyue, the author of the book "The Psychology of Money Around You", is a professor at the School of Management of Zhejiang University and the director of the Department of Marketing.

The book inspired me to:

The relationship between people and "money": Money is a powerful and vigilant evaluation system!

Evaluation system": How much you love me, it depends on how much you are willing to spend on me!

Powerful "money can solve a lot of puzzles.

It's worth being vigilant": but not everything is solved with money! How do we manage the utility that money brings to us?

1.Is your money spent?

2.Don't blindly compare your earnings with others.

3.We can't think of money as the end of life, but as a means to realize the value of life.

What is money? Money itself is a form of energy.

We often say that wealth needs to seize the opportunity and seize the outlet, how can we seize it? When people's energy is low, when they are not brave, they can't catch it.

When a person's energy is high, it matches the energy of money, and money will naturally come to the old age.

When a person is in a low energy state, the money will slip away. Investment failure, illness, scammer......Money will slip away in ways you can't imagine.

The energy of money is very high, and if we want money to be with us continuously, we must also maintain a state of high energy.

What are the signs that indicate that we are going to be rich?

When we forget about getting rich, find a state of flow, and immerse ourselves in the things we love, wealth comes naturally.

How do you find your flow state, find your natural passion, and find that wealth code?

That wealth code is actually your birth, your talent, passion, mission, those passwords that will bring you a steady stream of wealth, are all in you, but you haven't seen it yet.

When we live in a state of mission, wealth, joy, and high-energy state come naturally.

To talk about the relationship between people and people.

Perhaps most of them choose money relationships.

But. Think about it emotionally and you'll be frank or present.

It turns out love. Family and friendship are the most extensive relationships between people in the depths of the heart.

A heinous person, at the moment of his death, will realize that money is not sold and it is so important.

Friendship, family affection and love are what he needs most, and there is a sentence to say"When a man is about to die, his words are good. "It fully shows that the relationship between people needs to be tested.

Suppose, you have an incurable disease, your family.

Will your friends give up on you?

No. Therefore, at the critical moment, the most touching relationship between people can be reflected.

Exceptions are made for some extreme people, but it is believed that their personality differences are also due to external factors. I hope you can think of the painstaking efforts of your parents.