How to make my girlfriend feel safe with me

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Look at her with sincere eyes. Then hold her. Stroke her head ... Say, "No matter what happens, I won't leave you alone!" ”

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Be practical, get married! She should feel at home that way! Offered to propose to her!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Some men behave, considerate and generous, and do not provoke other women.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Sleek? Upstairs, it's Mongolian friends, I heard that Mongolian friends are very straightforward, in fact, it's too sleek and boring, just a little slick, you say.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You want to make her feel safe! Then you can make him feel safe! Sissy

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Single-mindedness, time will tell.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Men should be a little manly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Prove it with your heart!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Like a lyric, do what she doesn't say but wants

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I've talked about 17 girlfriends -- I'm going to sum up the experience of these 17 times.

    Be tactful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think the security needed in a relationship is absolute trust, understanding and respect. As long as both parties can make each other feel grounded, there will be no doubts, and trust each other 100%, so that they can bring the best experience and happiness to each other.

    1. Absolute Liang slips to trust each other.

    The sense of security in love is to trust each other absolutely after being with each other, rather than being with each other with questioning thoughts, so that you will definitely lose your sense of security. Many times when you are in love, you will not have enough security, you will suffer from gains and losses, if you trust the other person, you will not think that the other party does not love you, or you have no confidence in this relationship.

    2. Understand and respect each other.

    The sense of security in love is to be able to respect and understand each other in the process of falling in love with each other, you can see the other party's dedication and love for you, and don't keep asking the other party to say it. The sense of security is reflected in the process of getting along with the other person, not in the words that are spoken, and the lies that are told are often just a form of self-comfort. The sense of security in love lies in the time spent with the other person, being able to respect the relationship, being able to respect the other person's person, and not acting recklessly, which will definitely bring you a bad experience.

    3. Firm belief in happiness.

    Since two people are together, they must have firm beliefs, work hard and struggle together for the future, so that they can get a happy ending. For me, since I have chosen to be with each other, I should be determined to be together, not to be defeated by things in life, and to have a strong determination to be in this relationship and work hard for the future.

    A sense of security is particularly important in a relationship, and many times determines the happiness of two people, as long as two people can see the original intention and future of this relationship, I believe that a sense of security will be suggested, and two people will not be easily lost.

    Therefore, love is a thing of enjoyment, and if we want to feel secure, we need to work ourselves, have confidence in ourselves and each other, and don't just think about our feelings.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, the sense of security between couples is mutual trust, which is the most basic requirement. Of course, there are many aspects, such as the following:

    Clause.

    1. Introduce your family and friends to each other, which can enhance mutual trust and let them know which people you play with and which colleagues you work with.

    Clause. Second, tell your mobile phone password, WeChat password, QQ password to the other party, if the other party wants to check, you will consciously check the other party, it is best that there is no problem, if you hide and hide, then she will definitely find that you have something to hide from her, the so-called: did not do a bad thing, in the middle of the night is not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door, this is the truth.

    Clause.

    3. You must learn to protect each other when you go out, and the strong arms of men will hold your hand when crossing the street, and protect you as soon as you encounter danger.

    Clause. Fourth, the sense of security also includes: suspicion, which refers to the possibility of discovering the suspicious points of the other party, and thinking about things in the bad way through their own imagination.

    So don't start questioning the other party at the slightest fuss, or make a big noise, ask the other party as soon as you encounter a problem, don't be aggressive, as long as the problem is not serious, you can choose to forgive, or let him take the initiative to apologize and admit his mistake.

    Clause.

    Fifth, learn to understand each other, couples will inevitably not be born after a long time together, sometimes a little thing can be taken care of, which will make both parties feel tired, so when encountering small contradictions, don't rush to blame each other, suspicious let the other party correct, or pay attention next time.

    Clause. Sixth, refuse to send a message will not, do not answer the situation, encounter such a situation should be told to the other party in advance, there will be something, a meeting or driving, come back later, learn to prepare in advance.

    Clause.

    Seventh, to enhance the sense of security, not only to learn to understand the other party's hardship, but also to know how to grasp the proportion of their own speech, not any joke can be messed with, to estimate the other party's feelings, not nonsense, otherwise the other party will think you are unreliable, hippie smile.

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If you really can't give up, try to give him a chance to change But sometimes it's not the age distance One year is not too big It's mainly the gap in inner maturity Personality is difficult to change in the world My suggestion is to find someone who is more mature than yourself So that you won't be tired And what aspect of insecurity are you talking about? If the boy doesn't even have the most basic sense of security, it's better to break up, but sometimes love is not easy to say, if the man is single-minded to you, and has a sense of responsibility, and is just immature in some aspects, you won't be disgusted with him, or keep it, because it's hard to find a boy in this world who makes you completely satisfied, maybe other boys are mature in the world, and other aspects are insufficient, this is the so-called house flower can never be compared to wild flowers, and look at other people's husbands are always better than their own husbands So if you think he has a lot of things that you appreciate, ignore the small mistakes, and if the big ones are insecure, it's better to divide it, youth can't afford to squander, and when it is broken, it will be broken.