I think it s painful to be together, isn t it better to be single?

Of course, why be together if you're not happy together? A life is so long, why should I be wronged, in my opinion, life habits are not the same, and I am a woman, I should feel the most distressed in this life is myself, never wronged myself, a life is very short, how can there be time to waste.

There is such a person around me, looking for a man, this man was also excellent in the 60s, but he loves to drink, and drinking will make mistakes, and the later days are drinking every day, sleeping every day, and not asking about the family, if it is now I believe that I would have divorced a long time ago, divorce in that era is still a very shameful thing, the woman was wronged and followed the man, gave birth to three children, the youngest family could not afford to raise it, and gave it away at a very young age, the woman raised a family alone, including the husband who loved to drink, I don't know how she persevered in her life in this situation, with children, raising her husband, and living like this. That's it, she also lived her life with this man. I'd rather not live like this.

I don't think it's a rare thing anymore, it used to be like this, but now? Bad habits, bad life, do we still have to insist, don't want it, unhappy marriage, unhappy love, we are young, even if I am not young, I want to age gracefully alone, and don't follow a person who makes me cry and makes me miserable every day.

It's good to be single, the marriage of marriage to love is happy, if not, I am willing to be single, I am willing to find a suitable partner for the rest of my life, if not, I would like to age gracefully, even if there is only myself to accompany myself, I am also willing, just because I don't want to regret it for a lifetime, a lifetime of grievances.

Be. If it's painful to be together, why do you want to be together reluctantly. Perhaps at this time, separation is the best option for you.

Like is the premise of being together, and happiness is an important support for being together. I have a friend, when he was chasing girls, he thought that this girl was good everywhere, personality, figure, and appearance were perfect in all aspects, that is, what people said in their mouths, "Xi Shi in the eyes of lovers", but after chasing him, he found that it was not suitable to run in with him, and the girl was the kind of arrogant type, looking down on the people around her, of course, including him. Later, I slowly discovered the difference between the two people in getting along, but the freshness has not passed, although I am unhappy, I am reluctant to get along together, and then I am getting weaker and weaker to girls, which leads to a breakup.

I would say that it doesn't matter if it's friendship or love. When two people get along, the most important thing is to be happy. Including making friends and falling in love, these are all to make the body and mind happy, or you can be alone, why get along?

If, after dating, you find that it is not suitable, or even very painful to be together, then separate. Live your life the way you like and get along with the people you think are right, after all, there are not a few years in life, and if you can be happy for a day, don't let yourself live a miserable life.

The good-looking skins are the same, and the interesting souls are one in a thousand. "I hope you can meet the person who gets along with you happily, you have no pain together, full of sweetness, don't care too much about whether the other party is angry, don't care too much about whether he will leave me, I hope your life is pink, this is the right way to open a relationship.

So the pain is better than separation, and a happy single life is always better than a painful one.

Yes, if you're not happy in a relationship, you might as well be a single dog again. What is the purpose of falling in love, I think it should be to make myself no longer lonely and make myself happier. But you don't realize this, so why do you still insist.

It's better to break up as soon as possible, in case you meet a man who can make you happy. <>

In fact, this kind of love is the most tiring, you like him but he treats you badly. For girls, this is enough to show that your boyfriend is not very good to you, otherwise how can it make you feel painful. It's really sad that your love has developed to this point.

But it doesn't matter, the long pain is better than the short pain, and you will break up with him quickly.

How good it is to return to a single life, live without heart and lungs every day, and will not feel sad or painful because of any problems. Even if you fall out of love, time will help you recover. You should think about yourself, and you can't hold on to a love that obviously doesn't work out.

I feel that this will make you feel very hard, and you will be very embarrassed by love.

Everyone is born to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, to be happy and to stay away from pain, this is nature, and there is nothing wrong with it.

Face up to human nature, but also need to face up to the truth in life. If you don't endure hardship, you won't have the sweetness of the harvest after sweating.

It's painful to be together, isn't it better to be single? Before this question, you need to think about these questions: Are you worth it together? Value, why? It's not worth it, and why? If you think clearly, you don't regret it.

If it's not the right person, quit in time. **There is a sentence that you have to quit after cutting the meat after judging that it is big**. This phrase is sung in the Chicken Soup for the Soul, and stopping in time in the wrong direction is moving forward.

Please refer to it.