What if you have such a husband?

Husband? Parted? Is it a divorce?

It's hard to say anything, only a true story! A friend's husband of mine originally had a very easy job, but the salary was very low, but then they had a baby, and her husband quit his job to run takeaways, earning more than 10,000 yuan a month!

Can work to earn money and still do housework, cooking, and taking care of children, what else do you want him to do? Be content, hasn't he done enough? What do you do after work? What if you get divorced, you can find a better one? Live a good life with your husband.

This person is not bad, but he is relatively mediocre, and it would be a pity if he divorced because of this.

Such a husband is a very normal husband, and compared with a husband who does not take care of children and does not do housework, he is a very good husband. There are more husbands who not only have average salaries, but also don't do anything at home. There are also many husbands who are very self-motivated, but they have not made any progress because of their wishes, and they are grumpy and go home to see nothing unpleasant.

There are also many husbands who have average careers or even unemployed, rely on their wives and mothers' families to make up for their small lives, and engage in all kinds of ambiguous things outside.

Judging whether a husband is good or bad, whether it is worth entrusting or needing to give up, is completely a judgment of the individual's heart, which is not defined by a standard like the law. If you keep staring at your husband's shortcomings, such as self-motivation and the ability to make money, then you will always feel unhappy in your heart, and you will even look down on him and want to leave him. But since the two have come together because of their relationship, have a family and have children, it proves that he must have (or had) something that attracts you and something that is good for you, so you are also worth supporting each other with him for these two points.

On the other hand, putting aside all the above situations and asking yourself what you want is also a way to judge the problem. Do you want a self-motivated, successful career development, even if you have nothing to do, at least have future hopes and prospects, and then go home to cook, do housework and take care of the children, or don't care about housework, as long as the children can have a good salary? Or there are some other standards and ideas in your heart, so you broke up with your current husband, can you find such a person?

After finding it, will he be kind to you and your ex-husband's children? If you can determine these two problems, you can also consider breaking up.

You still have to communicate well about this, don't break up, there's nothing wrong with it, it's just not very motivated, you can communicate and talk about it to see what he thinks.

Plain is true.

He's not just about everything, is he?

It's just that there is no competitive heart.

It's pretty peaceful. You can keep it.

The condition for divorce is the breakdown of the relationship, not whether or not you can make money. You're going to do it first!

There are many people around me who are worse than him, and if he doesn't make a big mistake, find a way to guide him, and do what you can.

In today's society, it's not okay for men to be unmotivated. Going to be laid off. If you love him very much, then spend time with him! If you don't love it, choose another one, that's the only way.

Husbands and wives are originally birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes, right?

Hurry up and find a rich person to remarry.

If you have a pick-up, break up as soon as possible, it's too much to delay yourself.

In this case, you need to communicate with your husband, after all, this is the best magic weapon to solve the conflict between husband and wife! In my opinion. In the process of two couples' married life, many boys like to preach to their wives, which is actually very undesirable.

Hello, friend, this is your husband after all, and it's not time to break up. Two people manage their lives and love together, there is no need to break up, it doesn't matter if you really have more money or less money, you can live happily.

I think it's not terrible to be poor, it's terrible to be lazy, in fact, in this case, you can discuss that you do some small business, anyway, you don't earn much at work, once you do it, it depends on how much you pay, maybe you can save your husband, if you are still so lazy, you can't help, you should get a divorce, because there is no hope in living with a lazy and unmotivated person.

Can't break up. Is it not self-motivated because you can't make a lot of money? It's okay to be able to do housework at home.

Relatively stable. You should care more about loving and accompanying your wife.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.