Does the United States have a personal connection like China?

Of course there is, but not mainstream.

Because Chinese are everywhere.

Yes, it's called networking, but it's just to give you one more chance, but it's still not good.

For example, if HR is an alumnus, it usually passes the first round of auditions, but then there is still an interview.

I won't say that the ** child will be a civil servant directly.

Driving is already illegal, if you know a prominent police boss, it is impossible to get a ticket, but the police have their own brotherhood, if you are a good brother with the police boss, he may give you a brotherhood card, and other police officers will let you go when they see you on the road.

But herein lies the problem. Why is there such a difference? It should be said that the United States does pay more attention to interpersonal relations than China.

Because the United States is more open than China, there are more opportunities for people-to-people interactions. But is there any difference between the two? Strictly speaking, the more open a society is, the more emphasis is placed on interpersonal relationships, because an open society has more opportunities for interpersonal communication and more interpersonal needs than a closed society.

An open society is more capable of embodying the essence of human beings in a social way. The interpersonal relationships in closed societies are more embodied in the relationships between families and clans, as well as in the circle of acquaintances, which are often established with blood relations as a bond and emotions as a bridge, and many times are limited to these relationships. However, the interpersonal relationship in the open society is more based on the legal boundaries, the market, the like-minded and like-minded aspects, the open society of course also has blood relations and acquaintances, but these relationships are often subordinate to the law, the market, the first and the interests of these relationships.

Each has its own advantages, because each person's way of dealing with people is different, so I can't say exactly which side, I appreciate the Americans, because they deal with interpersonal relationships cleanly, will not take off the mud and water, say good, say separate, will not have an impact, but Chinese are different, too emotional, sometimes this is a good thing, but it will also affect life and work.

I also admire the Americans! I think that's the real friendship! Why say so much, actions speak for themselves...

One of the reasons is that the trajectory of foreigners' growth is different from that of Chinese people, for example, foreign children have been playing in primary school and middle school, and they are dealing with friends every day, and they understand the importance of interpersonal relationships better than domestic children, while Chinese children grow up under busy study pressure, have a narrow circle of friends, and are not as good as foreigners in dealing with interpersonal relationships.

Another reason is that foreigners have a different understanding of the definition of friends, they are not so guarded, even if they have only met once at the party, they are friends, even if they have not met, as long as they are friends of friends, they also accept it, and their resistance to pressure is better, even if they break up with friends, they can face it optimistically, and then make new friends, in contrast, the definition of friends of the Chinese team is more rigorous, do not make friends casually, natural interpersonal relationships are not so complicated.

However, in recent years, as Chinese people have become more and more open-minded, interpersonal relationships have become more and more complicated.

It's the same everywhere, okay.

It's just different from the thinking of Chinese people.

The most important thing is to be tolerant of people, not to contradict others because of a little thing about others, and not to dislike others because they are not used to other people's habits, and to be generous can not be careful, you can see that those who have good interpersonal relationships are very generous people, can not be awkward with others because of trivial things, and must be honest, sincere and ,..

Traditional Americans, that is, Americans who have more than three generations in the United States, excluding Chinese Americans, think of China as it is in North Korea today. The Olympics and the World Expo have changed the face a little, but most Americans who have not been to China see China as a poor, dirty country.

The main thing in the United States is to let China and Japan contain each other!

Sincere, friendly, credible, honest and hospitable, with a strong sense of humanity

I took it in the U.S. for two years.

First, why do you want to join them in the conversation, and if you can't, isn't it uncomfortable? If they don't want to talk to you, you should definitely talk to them. Isn't it uncomfortable?

The same is true in schools in China, we are together if we can talk, and we will not be together if we can't. Going abroad is quite lonely, you see Japanese, Africans, Arabs, all have fewer friends. You have to understand this first.

Otherwise, you won't be miserable.

Second, if it's purposeful, then think about what you have that they're interested in, like culture or something, but this is a three-minute heat, what is Chinese culture, the average American three-minute heat, and they won't really be interested in, you look for things that you both like, such as you play a computer game, play a ball game. Don't go to the bar to talk nonsense, don't go to the party at the beginning, you're bound to be embarrassed. A better way is to find someone who does the same thing as you, for example, you both like to play WOW and are both at the same level, for example, you both play basketball, for example, you both like to go shopping.

After a long time, you naturally have something to say, and you have something to say because you have a common hobby and like one thing.

Third, if you ask foreigners, I'm very devastated, I came here, how do I want to make friends with you, how do I want to talk to foreigners, but no one says, what should I do, just reveal my heart. Haha, they'll think about it and answer it very seriously

In short, don't join any conversation or make any foreign friends. Think about your school in China, don't you also go with the flow? If you are really lonely, then be silently lonely.

I've lived in the U.S. for 30 years, and the first few years were very hard. Here are some of the lessons I've learned over the years.

1) Have a strong desire to break into mainstream American society. there is a will, there is a way.

2) Be genuinely interested in American culture. If you are not interested, and you expect to get benefits, it is not realistic.

3) Have faith in yourself. In fact, Americans are also very interested in you. They are also making a China fever now.

4) Generally speaking, church people are more loving and patient in making friends with you. Attending a church's high school youth fellowship or Bible study is a good place to start.

5) Have the opportunity to participate in more social activities. Although there is nothing to say at first, don't be discouraged, keep participating, and it will be fine later. You can start without expressing your thoughts, but you can ask many simple questions, and people who love to talk will be happy to tell you the answers.

You can also ask the school to help you arrange a host familyUsually those enthusiastic volunteers will help you a lot.

6) Participate in some team sports. In sports, people have a natural interaction with each other. It is a pity that domestic compatriots who like to express themselves in activities (especially playing the piano) have lost many opportunities to contact others.

You are a person with a heart, as long as you keep trying, you will definitely succeed.

Hello, there are definitely cultural differences, so there must be a lot of discomfort when you come to the United States, which is very normal.

It is recommended that you pay attention to the conversations of American students, listen to what topics they are interested in, listen to how they communicate with others, and for topics that you don't understand, or new things mentioned by others, including new stars, you can go to the Internet to inquire about them, so that you can join them in the conversation next time. Maybe one day you will find that you and they will start to have common topics, and maybe you can make good friends in the United States.

Also, no matter what country you are friends with, treat your friends with sincerity so that you can make good friends.

It's also a process, don't rush, trust you to adapt.

Your teacher is right, make friends in China, and make friends in the United States. First of all, we must abandon the concept of "discrimination", Americans do not discriminate, you may think that it is "discrimination", don't be too sensitive; To be easy-going, generosity is the most important; Also, participate in their activities and develop hobbies, such as baseball, football and other sports activities. Are you in the U.S.**?

I often get along with people of different races, including American badminton, and make friends with each other.

Don't think of him as a foreigner, as a native, be free, be bold, just do it, foreigners look at you, don't you become a foreigner?

It's a good idea to meet a godly old lady and ask her questions about the Bible. She will have the patience to explain to you slowly.

This is inevitable, cultural differences, sometimes they tell jokes because of cultural differences can not understand their jokes, but to exchange ideas with them more. First of all, it's better not to live in a school dormitory, but to live with a host family (which is important!). It is best that the children of the host family are also studying in your school, so that there are many topics to talk about every day, get along well, she He will bring you to their circle, you can join them, take note**, ask them out more on weekends, invite them more, and your relationship will be very good after a long time.

Secondly, you can participate in more sports activities in order to mingle with them, show your strengths, and make them admire you; Participate in more clubs, and it is better to fight for a position, so that there are more opportunities. Hope this helps you.

I made friends through a lot of school and club activities, some white, and more black. Friends of Korea.

I think it's fun and crazy to be friends with black people, and I don't know what kind of personality you are.

Lao Mei doesn't recognize life, there is a lot of nonsense, you open your mouth with him, and he usually talks to you more. You don't think it's easy to join them, maybe it's because you're new to the city, and you're still not comfortable with foreigners. Don't worry, after a long time, especially when you have the habit of fitness and exercise, it will be easy to communicate with them.

You don't have to make foreign friends as a task, just talk about it when you have a topic.

Facebook is a good medium, spread more Chinese characteristics** they are very interested, take away and trample on them. At the same time, participate in various parties such as birthdays, drink well, play games, and get ready soon, it's nothing, they are all people! I don't know how to ask, they like to talk about what they like, what bands, creative markets, and invite them to their homes for Chinese food, sugar-coated cannonballs!

It's good to take it slowly, you have to learn more about American culture and living habits, take your time.

You have to make friends with them first, and Americans basically think you are very enthusiastic, but if you don't take the initiative to socialize, people will never take the initiative