Sometimes you scold your mother in law, what kind of daughter in law will be scolded by your mother

There is a real problem!! Sometimes I also say my mother-in-law, because really they sometimes don't understand a lot, and they don't do what they teach, but I also regret it after saying her, how to say that the old people's ability to accept them is really far worse than our young people, so this can't be completely blamed on them. You should be considerate, patiently teach a few more times, and give instructions a few more times!!

Yes. When in front of him certainly can't scold, but will say. If you don't like it, say it. If she's not there, it's okay to scold, but unless she's angry. My husband supports me anyway. Generally, if you can't provoke it, just hide. If you stay away, you won't be angry!

I won't scold if I don't push me to be anxious, but last time my mother-in-law treated me very excessively, I didn't leave her polite, and now I choose to stay away from her.

No, if the mother-in-law comes to take the child, there will never be a head-on conflict. It's my mother who takes the children, and sometimes she yells.

It will be yes. Very little, though. Because we rarely live together. Naturally, there will be a lot less contradictions. So, it's best not to live together.

I haven't scolded in my mouth, but I am angry and muttered in my heart, and it will be difficult to end when I scold.

No, I don't think we should have a confrontation in person.

No, we are also elders, not to mention that we only see each other once or twice a year.

No, she is Changbei, at most, she is not in him.

No, you have to honor the elderly.

First, work hard to save money for yourself, don't depend on a man to survive, consider the summer vacation You are most likely a teacher, right? Women who have a job as a teacher are still very popular even if they are divorced and have no children.

Second, think carefully about having children, because having children will not solve the conflict, but will only deepen it.

Third, look at your husband's attitude, if he agrees with your mother-in-law, then girl, go back to the first and second, and quickly solve the problem of her survival after leaving this man.

Fourth, if you don't want to divorce, and you are not too likely to be angry with your mother-in-law and husband directly, then praise your mother-in-law to your husband, and praise your mother-in-law for your good face, "Our mother is so good to me, she thinks about me in everything", "Oh, our mother is so good, I am so lucky to have a good mother-in-law", "My sisters' mother-in-law always provokes their husband and wife, I don't have this trouble, I am so happy" ......If your husband is not stupid x, he will not allow his mother to slander and hurt you again after a long time, if he listens to this and you are stupid x, then girl, do you still have to think about living with this man for the rest of your life, and you still have to give birth to this man?

Fifth, age is never the decisive factor, there are many older singles, marriage and children are to be happy with a person, even if it is not as sweet as honey, at least it is mutual respect and hand in hand. It's definitely not because you are old enough to suffer and be wronged to get married and have a baby! Thank you for your patience, I hope the answer can help you, and I wish you all the best!

Peace and joy!

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Your question has been received, your mother-in-law must be very annoying to scold you, it's my husband's mother who has something to say directly, what things will she scold people for? Can you elaborate on that?

Mother-in-law is always scolding, what should I do?

Dear, good evening, I am a psychological listener "Confidant Green", good at intimate relationships, parent-child relationships, emotional counseling, professional confusion, I am happy to serve you! Your question has been received, your mother-in-law must be very annoying to scold you, it's my husband's mother who has something to say directly, what things will she scold people for? Can you elaborate on that?

My mother-in-law has bullied her husband into drinking medicine and committed suicide for more than 10 years, scolding people day and night, especially scolding me for being very serious, do you charge.

My mother-in-law has been scolding my father-in-law for more than 10 years, so my father-in-law committed suicide by drinking medicine 10 years ago. Is my mother-in-law living with you now? In addition to scolding your father-in-law, do you still scold you or your husband?

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Dear, I don't know very well about your situation, but I assume a few situations and give you some advice, I hope it will be useful to you<>

If your mother-in-law lives with you and often scolds you and your husband, then it is recommended that you live separately and visit you every day; If she has to live with you, what problems do you encounter, you and your husband discuss it, and after the two reach an agreement, then communicate with your mother-in-law, if you encounter difficulties in communication here, ask your husband to communicate, after all, it is her son, what do you think?

First of all, when you meet such a mother-in-law, try to have as little contact as possible and stay away as much as possible, which can easily affect the atmosphere of a family and the feelings of two people.

If you encounter such a situation, you should communicate with your mother-in-law so that she can correct her bad habits.

Strong, always nostrils to the sky daughter-in-law rotten Kai.

Some women have a strong personality, say the same, and like to support their husbands to do something, which is really unbearable for many mothers-in-law. In the eyes of the mother-in-law, the son has been working for a day, and when she returns home, the woman should be serving hot tea and rice. And if the daughter-in-law is too strong, always nostrils to the sky, and doesn't pay attention to anything, the mother-in-law will naturally complain.

Article**1 2 The word lazy is the head, and the daughter-in-law who is lazy to eat.

In the traditional concept of many older generations, husband and child education is what a woman should do, and it is a woman's duty to take care of the house. But in today's society, in addition to work, women have to take care of and educate the child wheel and ruin the matter of basically falling on the shoulders of the mother, therefore, the pressure of women is not less than that of men, and the burden of life does not have to be less than that of the husband, physical overdraft, and it is inevitable that they will be lazy in action, but this will be disgusted by the mother-in-law.

According to the characteristics of the other party, it is divided into the following tricks:

1. Be reasonable but have a bad temper. If you are moved by this kind of mother-in-law, you will know it with reason, and there will be changes.

2. Speak straight and scold quickly. Most of this kind of mother-in-law is not highly educated, not of high quality, and has a straight temper, so when she is in a good mood, she talks about her difficulties and begs her to be merciful, which will make a difference.

3. Mean by nature. This kind of mother-in-law is the most difficult to deal with, so she thinks she is unlucky. But if you are really unbearable, you can fight-for-tat, how she scolds you, kill her sharp, maybe you can have a chance of winning by fighting poison with poison.

However, this method should be used sparingly, unless you are too unbearable and are ready to divorce.

You don't pay attention to a person like your mother-in-law, and you don't pay attention to anything he says. Because the more you ignore him, the more energetic you become, and if you ignore him, you will feel bored, and he will stop talking. You can tell your husband that you don't want to be like him.

Because if you quarrel with him, he will definitely quarrel with you. You can tell him that a person like your wife is like this, you don't have to worry about him, you just treat him as if he doesn't exist. If your husband is also towards you, and your mother-in-law is not very likable, you should not live with her, you can ask your husband to send your mother-in-law back to his hometown, because your husband is her son, and your husband will definitely listen to you.

Once when my husband and I came home, it was a cold winter weather, it was already very cold, and I wore a pair of very thin cotton shoes.

As soon as I entered the house and took off my shoes, my mother-in-law immediately picked up my shoes to look at them, and then scolded me very dissatisfiedly: "On such a cold day, you wear such thin shoes, looking for death, and I don't know how to wear more!" ”

Then he began to scold her husband again: "You see that she wears such thin shoes, and you don't know how to buy a pair of thick ones, how can you be a husband?" Don't come back sooner rather than later! ”

Hearing me say this, my mother-in-law's face softened a little.

My husband likes to smoke, and when he is at home, he always smokes in front of me and my in-laws, and once my mother-in-law couldn't help it, so she said angrily: "He smokes every day, and you don't know how to take care of it as a wife, why are you so good to him, you should beat it!" ”

When I heard her say this, I blurted out without thinking about it: "No matter how bad your son is, you gave birth to it, and you can take care of it." ”

As soon as my voice fell, my mother-in-law reacted, and then the whole family laughed.

My baby was born in the second year of the Sanlu incident In addition to breast milk, I drink the German origin of the Meilebao Mother-in-law said that the baby at the door to drink more than 70 bags of milk powder is also very good My husband scolded her directly It's not that I can't afford to drink Adults can save children and my family is a female treasure When the full moon is full moon, my mother-in-law's brother will let us have another one Or my super handsome husband scolded him You pay for it Super cool.

I had two quarrels with my mother-in-law, the kind of big quarrel, and finally I summed up a sentence, she just looks at people and does things, picks soft persimmons and pinchs, my husband and his sister-in-law have no quality, she doesn't roar, I quarrel to the end and say: 'You just look at people and do things, see that I am good at talking before you roar like this, why don't you dare to yell half a sentence if your sister-in-law doesn't give you a good face for half a year?' 'Angry with her!'

I haven't scolded me in person, but I often cooed behind my husband's back. Later, after my sister-in-law's marriage was dissolved, he encouraged my husband to divorce me, but my husband didn't listen to his parents.

There is a kind of person who is smart, doesn't quarrel with you directly, doesn't give you a good face, and ignores you directly, you say that you don't look up and look down, the atmosphere of the family is super embarrassing, and you are hateful to give you a look at it, and I like to play cold violence the most, and I say in the beautiful name, leave me alone, I'm like this, and then give my husband the feeling that I'm very innocent, I never quarrel, it's your daughter-in-law who wants to quarrel, I also figured it out, live your life by yourself, don't expect your daughter-in-law to dig out your heart and lungs if you look down on your daughter-in-law.

I now let my husband spare my mother-in-law and talk to my father-in-law.,Otherwise, she'll definitely mess you up with a good thing.。。 Forever!! 10 years of experience, definitely will not make you comfortable.

I didn't want to introduce my husband to me when I first started to know, after a few years, my husband was older, she wanted him to go on a blind date, my husband meant that he still wanted to find me, otherwise I would say it in a few years, when my husband was 28, I saw him again, and slowly I accepted it, and from that beginning I explained, I had a bad temper, I was lazy, I didn't do anything, and my mother-in-law never said that I was working.

I have been married for ten years, my mother-in-law has never scolded me, the most serious time is just not to talk to me, at most once or twice will be reconciled with me, my children are also very loving, and many things will be reasoned with me, so that I slowly understand how the family gets along harmoniously, I am very grateful to her, and I also learn from her.

I feel that my mother-in-law is already very good, after all, she is not someone else's daughter, so she will not be as good to you as her own, it's almost enough, two good and one good! I've been married for more than two years and I've never blushed!

I have lived with my mother-in-law for 11 years, I have not quarreled, we have gone beyond the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is a mother-son relationship, he really cares about and likes me, I really like her, that's all.

She never scolded me to her face, she would make trouble with his son, and cry with her daughter: Son, it's not easy for mother to bring you up, and in the end, my son and daughter are not mine, and they don't listen to me.

Here's a simple little example! There are too many things in life, if you talk about it here, it is estimated that the mobile phone will be **!! I found out that I was pregnant with my second child a few years ago, and this fetus reacted relatively big and had severe morning sickness!

Especially when cooking and eating, if you don't know what you smell or eat, you have to vomit quickly. Once, when I was eating, I suddenly felt like I put down my chopsticks and went to the bathroom, but I vomited before I got to the ground...I'm embarrassed myself, but I really can't hold it back! At this time, my mother-in-law came to say:

Why don't you keep your mouth shut and stick to the toilet before throwing up! How do these other people eat? ......This me off!

When I got better, I scolded her directly: I knew this, I didn't even move the ground, and spit on the table! You haven't had a baby, you haven't vomited!

If I can hold it, won't I?

My mother-in-law, a rural woman, was illiterate, but she never scolded, and neither did my father-in-law. I usually just go back during the New Year's holidays. My mother-in-law said to me, when you go back to your mother-in-law's house, you have to talk less and work more, and you will go back a few times a year to do more work.

So my mother-in-law was okay with me. But I also know that my mother-in-law is my mother-in-law, and I will never be able to become a mother. My mother-in-law is gone, and she said she wants to treat me as a girl.

When I counted down her son, she said, "Don't make a fuss about it at such an old age." I shut up. Mother-in-law can never become a mother.

Just get by on the face.

Once I really couldn't help but say: I have the ability to ask your son to divorce me, and find another one that you are satisfied with! Then, say to your husband:

I have a mother without me, and I look at it and do ...... by myself(The old man has his own house to rent to his younger son, lives in our house, and the house we bought, and the old man didn't pay a penny).

My mother-in-law doesn't scold me, but her heart is a little big, and she always likes to put up a shelf and there is nothing that makes me admire, so I don't accept all kinds of dissatisfaction, and I endured him at first, and my temper is not soft persimmon, and then it stopped, and I didn't dare to point fingers at me.