How to survive in a university dormitory?

I think it's very difficult to live a good life in a university dormitory, because there will always be conflicts with your roommates from time to time, some of which you can't bear, and some of which she can't bear, but some of the contradictions will erupt, and some of the contradictions will accumulate, that is, delay the eruption. Except in exceptional circumstances, these contradictions are not of your own inception. So I think that if you want to live well in a college dormitory, you must first learn to survive in contradictions, you have to learn to apologize if it is your fault, you have to learn to insist on yourself, not to compromise easily, and you can make some suggestions for conflicts that have nothing to do with you, but the best thing is to learn to turn a blind eye.

In university life, you may be good roommates and good friends, but you must know that you are yourself first and foremost, and you are the role in the dormitory. It's easy to feel dependent in the dormitory, but you have to get used to being independent, and dependence and independence are two different living habits, and you have to adapt to both, and you can use both freely. Be an independent individual first, and then go to your own partner.

Another useful thing is to learn to keep secrets and keep your mouth shut. Distinguish what to say and what not to say in the dormitory, the most taboo thing in the dormitory is to provoke conflicts in the dormitory, and generally the person who provokes the contradiction is not liked by everyone. Most of the causes of dormitory conflicts are because of a sentence, and even though you know some little-known secrets, no matter how much you want to say it, you must keep your mouth shut, because you don't know and won't expect what the consequences of this sentence will be.

Think carefully before you speak, even if you quarrel, don't say things that don't leave you a way out. This way people will think that you are a trustworthy person.

These two points are very useful in college dormitory life.

I think this is a question that every college student will worry about at the beginning. In fact, it is very realistic that if you really want to have a good time in the dormitory of the university, then three normal, not to mention excellent, three normal roommates must be necessary.

If you have a roommate with very low emotional intelligence and a very-stirring stick, then no matter how hard you try, your college dorm life will definitely not be good. If you encounter this situation, find a way to change it as soon as possible.

Then, regardless of external factors, from your own point of view, the first is to maintain a peaceful and friendly attitude towards other roommates with your attitude towards others, don't care too much, try to help others when you can help a little bit, you will not have a loss and can share things with others, and don't be stingy, why not take it out generously?

Sometimes, you pay so little, in the eyes of others, in the accumulation of a little bit of daily life can get a good popularity, you are willing to do this to others, then others, as long as he is a normal person who is not too narrow-minded, then he will be willing to repay you with the same sincerity.

Then there is to pay attention to the environmental sanitation conditions in the dormitory, many people will not like to clean, there are many sloppy young college students, but the environment of a dormitory can indeed affect a person's living mood.

As long as you are a little diligent, tidy up a little every day, clean once or twice a week, organize four classmates in the dormitory to mop the floor together in a month, and then tidy up the dirty places a little, even if others are not happy to mess with their own areas, it is not difficult, right? Give yourself a good living environment, then your dormitory life will be more comfortable.

Nowadays, the improvement of education has made it possible for many people to enter the university gates, and the number of people in each dormitory varies according to the situation of the school, and it is common to have four-, six-, and eight-person rooms. In college life, the dormitory is the closest place to our life, and it also has a great impact on our college life, which affects our daily mood, daily living status, and even our mental health. But because there is only one child in each family now, the pampering of parents leads to the self-centeredness of children, and the dormitory life is full of all kinds of contradictions, and even young lives disappear because of this, so how do we deal with the dormitory relationship to save our lives?

First, we must learn to be conscious.

When you do everything in the dormitory, you have to consider the feelings of other people, and you can't just look out for yourself. Put **, **, etc. to see if anyone is resting and ask for the opinions of others, try to turn off the sound or bring headphones. And don't talk and talk as you like.

When it comes to other people's privacy, we can not touch it, or ask for everyone's opinion before using it. At the same time, don't form cliques and engage in disharmony in the dormitory.

2. Fully understand the habits and personalities of your roommates.

Only when we fully understand our roommates, their personality traits and living habits, can we choose a better way to get along with them in the future, and it can also facilitate us to understand some of their behaviors and reduce the occurrence of conflicts. For example, some people have a knife mouth and a tofu heart, some people are anxious, and some people are not ruthless ......

3. Learn to be inclusive.

Everyone is a different individual, everyone living together is inevitably bumpy, at this time, we must learn to tolerate others, don't grasp the small problems in life, don't care too much, be generous, be tolerant, you will find that things are not so bad.

4. Learn to communicate and maintain feelings.

A good dormitory relationship needs to be maintained and communicated, we can choose an appropriate meeting to chat, talk our thoughts, and don't hold it in our hearts. In this way, everyone can know what you think, and correct some of their practices, so that the dormitory environment will be better.

Well, I hope that students can get along harmoniously with their roommates, create a good dormitory atmosphere, and spend their university life happily.

My bunk roommates are all very strange people, and I have never met such a scumbag! Stay in the dorm all day! It's to play games and sleep, go out and do not have one, stay up all day until more than one o'clock in the morning, sometimes you can hear the sound of the game, screaming in the bedroom every day, shouting the sound of the Shenwu game, girlfriend looking for it online, meeting and playing people will be dumped, the game is charged with money and burned, and the parents are asked when they are due, and they are privately saving their own small treasury, shouting self-improvement every day, and the takeaway is delivered every day, the clothes are piled up, the washing machine is cooked, the takeaway lunch box is stacked, and the dormitory is exuding a Chinese smell, which is not excessive, the study is not motivated, and the make-up exam is not reviewed, Drill every day, never do homework, are all copying, copying others, group tasks are all dependent on others, borrowing money with the masters, what is the end of the semester to pay back, spending money has always been big, sunshine long-distance running is a substitute run, a class is playing with mobile phones, what do you think?

I think it's better to keep the whole dormitory quiet after a student has a break. Because as a big collective, who will respect others will achieve better results, and everyone will be more united and respect each other. Therefore, it is very important to learn to communicate with others more and respect others, and you must learn more from professional teachers and master the correct communication methods.

Learning from the teacher and asking questions if you don't understand is the best way to learn knowledge. The most important point in learning is to ask more questions, so students who can often seek support from teachers and ask more questions from teachers are characterized by their tendency to like to ask questions, so their learning effect is also obvious. Because professional teachers are close to us, there are teachers who are proficient in various subjects in the daily learning classes of students, which is also the most beneficial condition and must be fully used.

Many students do not know how to actively ask questions with teachers, and always learn by themselves, in fact, this is not right, it is also very important to absorb knowledge, and their own efforts are one aspect, but if they make up for their own shortcomings by relying on the knowledge of others, it will be more effective. When some students get out of class, they will run to the teacher and ask the teacher their questions, and the teacher will explain carefully. In fact, this way is very good, students who are good at asking the teacher, they are very positive and optimistic in terms of expression ability and finch personality, and they can get along with the teacher and the school are very harmonious.

Ask each other questions, dare to ask, dare to speak, understand your own shortcomings from the questions, and acquire knowledge, but you will remember better. Secondly, ask questions to the main content, ask your own doubts, understand whether you don't understand, which knowledge point has an aspect that you don't understand, so that the teacher also knows how to help you answer the knowledge.

The dormitory relationship is very complicated, if you feel that your roommates are not easy to get along with, then don't go up, you are very relaxed and comfortable by yourself, many of the relationships in the university are superficial, and you don't know what to think in your heart.

In the university dormitory relationship, we should pay attention to hygiene, because it is not personal, so roommates should take care of each other, tolerate each other, control emotions if there are problems, and speak calmly.

First, pay attention to hygiene.

Hygiene includes personal hygiene and dormitory hygiene, the dormitory is small, He Jian usually has at least four people in a dormitory, if you change the dirty clothes, dirty socks are not cleaned in time, and the garbage of meals and snacks is not thrown away in time, Zen is easy to have a taste, and it may affect everyone's physical health for a long time, and it will leave a very sloppy impression on roommates, which is not conducive to everyone's future interactions. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to personal hygiene at all times, and dormitory hygiene should also be done by everyone in turn.

Second, don't touch other people's things at will.

The dormitory is a small collective, although everyone lives together, but everyone is still an independent individual, so don't touch other people's things at will, even if you have a good relationship, you must inform in advance when you use other people's things, otherwise it will appear that you are very disrespectful of other people's privacy, and it is easy to cause disgust among roommates.

Third, control your emotions and don't engage in isolation.

Everyone comes from all over the world, it is a great fate to live in the same dormitory, but everyone's living habits and personalities are different, in the daily process of getting along, we must control our emotions, don't lose your temper, and be more understanding and tolerant of roommates' unsatisfactory places, don't isolate and exclude any roommate, and treat everyone equally to make the dormitory relationship more harmonious.

1.College dorms are like opening a blind box, and you don't know what kind of people you're going to be with. This can be seen as a training camp before you officially go out into the world. You're going to grow up with several people and learn how to get along quickly when they're immature.

2.Focus on the weaknesses of human nature. Human nature has a lot of weaknesses, and everyone has some.

It's not that someone is bad, but human nature is **. For example, most people will be vain, jealous, and so on. You may have a good family, but if you spend lavishly, others will think you're showing off, even though you've lived that way before.

What seems normal to you may be a different situation in the eyes of others. Again, there are grades and so on, it's all the same. Actually, this is normal.

You need to pay proper attention to the feelings of the people around you so that it doesn't hurt too much.

3.If you do have roommates who are difficult to get along with, don't push yourself. To put it bluntly, everyone happens to live together.

It's fate to be able to get along. But after all, there are differences between people. If they don't deal with each other, that's it.

If you push yourself too hard, think about it every day, and be overly sensitive, you will become more and more uncomfortable. Just jump out and don't take it too seriously.

4.The human heart is a bottomless pit. This is true not only for roommates, but for anyone.

You don't want to be kind to others, and others will treat you just as well. Don't try to be honest with everyone, but stick to the bottom line. Only by having the right expectations for people can you not let yourself be disappointed by expecting too much.

5.Don't get involved in other people's emotional problems. For example, if your roommate comes to you to complain about relationship problems, and you are full of righteous indignation, the person breaks up. As a result, the next day, the person gets back together, and you are embarrassed. Sometimes people get along with each other, and the other person just needs emotional value.

6.Do you know what you want to do in college? The most important thing is, of course, learning.

Learning includes not only classroom learning, but also various practices, professional areas of interest and so on. You should focus on how to improve your true abilities. Under this premise, nothing else is too big.

If you can be inclusive, you will be inclusive. Don't take it too seriously.

7.Spend more time with students who study hard and study hard. Learning here also includes a variety of learning outside of the classroom and major.

A student who usually actively participates in various practices is also studying hard. If you have such classmates in your dormitory, study together and influence each other. Avoid negative interactions with the dorm, such as not studying.

Otherwise, only when you enter the society will you know the truth of the world, and it will be difficult for people with poor learning ability and weak ability to be competitive.

Looking back now, among my roommates in college and graduate school, there are classmates who started my own business together, classmates who are doing well in major companies now, and classmates who are about to go public. Everyone has their own growth. Each classmate, at that time, may have their own personality.

Under one roof, there will inevitably be all kinds of stumbles, but looking back after many years, everyone is actually fine.

Keep a sincere heart, and of course, protect yourself appropriately, so that you can get along well with others.

So we should cherish our university life.