When do you feel like your loved ones are getting older?

When I was young, my parents and relatives were the most powerful young people, and those who could solve any problems I encountered and who could resist to the end at the same time would never grow old. Before I went to college, I lived with my parents and relatives, and because I met them every day, I always felt that they had been the same for ten years, and they had never changed.

But as I grew up and separation became the norm, every time I met, I realized that time was a sharp knife, carving the traces of time on them every day.

First of all, it is found that they are slowly aging from their appearance. I remember when I was young, I always felt that my father was as tall as a mountain, and I always had to look up to see his face, and my favorite thing to do was to compare myself with my father and see how much height difference I had between him and him. But at one point, I realized that I didn't know when I was taller than my father.

Wear a pair of high heels and you can see the top of his head.

My impression of my mom has always been very slim and always wears the smallest size of clothes. In the years when I was in high school, every time I saw her beautiful clothes, I wanted to wear them on myself, but I couldn't wear them, so I could only look at the clothes and sigh every time. But it was only four years of college, and my mother gained weight before I knew it.

I also complained that she was not **, and she just said to me helplessly, when we are old, we are easy to gain weight. After thinking about it carefully, I had to admit this cruel truth.

More important is their psychological transformation. In my impression, parents have always relied on them, and I have to ask them about every decision they make, from what kind of haircut they want to cut and what school they want to apply for. As we grew up, they began to rely on us.

Expect us to fight with them, expect us to make decisions for their lives.

Every moment when I realized that they were old, I didn't want to face it, but I had to face it. I only hope that I can quickly grow into a towering tree, shelter them from the wind and rain, and allow them to grow old calmly.

After I went to college, I sometimes felt that my parents were really getting old.

First of all, it is still manifested in the appearance. I never felt that my parents were getting old, my mother was still a young and energetic mother, and my father was still the same father who always beat me up when I was a child.

But one day when my dad was riding with me, you could suddenly see his white hair, all of which grew behind his ears in a place that he couldn't see, all white.

Also, their figures are starting to get fat. Sometimes I jokingly say, how have you eaten fat like this recently, look at this beer belly! So big!

My dad would say that he ate a little bit at noon today, and because of poor digestion, he didn't dare to eat at night, and he felt uncomfortable when he ate