My husband has a very ambiguous relationship with his friends.

Compare yourself to your friend, what are her strengths? For example, appearance, temperament, education. Analyze again, what advantages your husband has compared with men of the same age, such as financial resources, charm, etc.

What is the reason to see them together? Is there some kind of interest connection between them?

Women are sensitive and understandable in this regard, but don't speculate, don't separate at every turn, and let the mistress have a chance. Maybe it's nothing, but when you make a fuss, there's really something.

You first have to figure out how ambiguous they are. Your friend, you should know something, you can talk to her, "Say that I have a conflict with my husband recently, because he tells you everything and doesn't tell me, I am her wife, I want to care more about him, I want to know everything about him, you help me, contact him less, let him have something to say to me". You have said so clearly, if your friends have nothing to do with your husband, they will alienate your husband.

But if something happens, your words will stir up her arrogance, and it will be a showdown between you.

Next, talk to your husband and ask him what he wants, you are jealous, you are worried that there is a problem in the relationship between the two of them, see how to solve it, either you will also appear when they meet in the future, or let them not meet alone in the future, talk less**. You have to put forward your concerns, ideas, and requirements, depending on how your husband is, if he says that you are vexatious, you say, "I just ask questions and discuss solutions, if you are vexatious, I don't bother to listen to your explanation, crying, making trouble, and hanging myself." You're a family, so there's nothing to talk about.

If the problem is with your husband, even if the other party is not your friend, it will be another woman, so treat the symptoms and the root cause.

Let go when it's time to let go, the twisted melon is not sweet, otherwise you can find one that can be ambiguous.

You need to have a proper understanding of such dreams.

Is it lonely and unbearable? Or do you have the desire to "red apricots out of the wall"?

In my opinion, this is not the case, it has something to do with your perception.

I hope to have the opportunity to talk to you in detail.

It's all you who pull the strings, and you can't blame anyone.

Summary. First, through the circle of friends, WeChat chat records, and Douyin and the like, whether they are very frequent with each other, and whether there are ambiguous chat records or the like. Second, does your husband go out frequently, and then carry you on his back, and he smells of perfume or something.

Well, the third one turned out to be your friend, so you and your friend can make an appointment, and you will know if your husband and colleagues are not together after it's over.

First, through the circle of friends, WeChat chat records, and Douyin and the like, whether they are very frequent, and whether there are ambiguous chat records or the like. Second, does your husband go out frequently, and then carry you on his back, and he smells of perfume or something. Well, the third one is your friend, so you and your friend can make an appointment, and after you end the rent, you will know if your husband and colleagues are not together.

My friend has been avoiding me lately.

My husband's mobile phone can't get close to me, and I hold my phone very tightly for whatever I do. I went out the other night and saw my husband standing with my two girlfriends, and I glared at each other. I didn't talk to them, I just asked one of the women.

From the first day, my girlfriend avoided me, and of course it was just my thoughts.

My husband never posts on Moments.

The woman feels that it is very accurate, then you can make sure that you can't follow it.

I followed my husband once and I was sitting in the car and I didn't see anybody. Just tell me not to do this to him, not to make him hate me, let me be myself, let me not check him, don't suspect him, don't block him. But I'm just skeptical.

He must have been chatting with another woman. I feel like this woman is my friend. I don't feel like it's this friend of mine.

One night, my husband was standing with a friend of mine. Among them, this woman is also there. I glared at them and didn't speak, and the next day, this fierce Yanchang girl began to avoid me, and I couldn't understand why I was avoiding me, because of a weak heart, or because of something else.

Oh, and did you know that your friend lives in **? Ah, you might as well go and wait for the rabbit.

1. Calm yourself down first.

If your husband has an affair with someone else, the first thing to do is to calm yourself down, and don't make a big fuss with your husband outside to embarrass him. A man has a strong self-esteem, and once you embarrass him, once you make him feel faceless, he will hate you more and more, and when the time comes, divorce is a matter of time.

2. Analyze your own problems.

If your husband is having an affair with someone else, he has more or less his own problems, think about whether he has been cold to him recently, whether he can't meet his requirements when he sleeps, or whether you have had a conflict recently, he is just doing this to anger you, or whether you have done something recently that makes him dissatisfied and makes him hate you.

3. Talk to him.

You can ask him to go to some romantic cafes for afternoon tea together, don't talk at home, and talk about your heart in a romantic place. Because in a romantic environment, the human heart is relaxed. Talk to him about your recent situation, and then ask him if he is dissatisfied with himself as you chat, and tell him that he doesn't like him to have an affair with another woman, and that he is very jealous.

Be sure to show in the conversation that you are very jealous and love him very much, so that you succeed.

Ways to keep things fresh as a couple.

1. Do something together that you've never done before.

Husband and wife are a team, it can also be said to be a combination, if the life between husband and wife feels monotonous, it is that there is no freshness to the things around them, so if you can do something together that has never been done before, the relationship between the two people will naturally heat up.

2. Flirting can add interest to life.

When it comes to marriage and love, everyone thinks that they are the most serious, but in the process of intimacy between the two, being too serious will cause unnecessary pressure. Love with a sense of humor is evocative. In addition, flirting in moderation and saying sweet words from time to time can also help to sublimate emotions.

3. Moderate meat jokes.

Everyone knows that shopping around is not a loss, and if you don't have any beauty, at least you should familiarize yourself with the weekly current affairs and jokes, and show your treasure at the most appropriate time, give your husband some meat jokes, and moderate the spice of your life, which will deepen the relationship between you.

Should. Your friend has the right to know. Doing so will make your friends wake up in time to make a reasonable choice.

You should tell your friend that, as a good friend, you should help him and get his family or on track.

My husband has an ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex, so he must deal with this matter publicly, if his husband has no repentance, then divorce him, this is the best solution.

Give him a direct warning, and divorce if you ignore it.

You can let him feel the same way and see what he thinks!

Take the initiative to find the opposite sex and give a direct warning.

You can have a good talk with your husband and tell him that you have discovered the relationship between him and his colleagues, and if he feels that this marriage is no longer necessary, then go his separate ways.

You have to pay attention, because men want to conquer more women, so pay more attention to yourself, let him spend more time with the children, take more care of the elderly, go out to play more, sometimes you can go on a trip, so that men can devote more energy to the family, and you should also pay more attention to your image.

Men like their women to be better than others, you pay more attention to your image, decent, it is also a good performance for yourself.

Personally, I think that if you find that the relationship between your husband and his colleagues is ambiguous, you must talk to your husband at this time and let him keep a safe distance.

At this time, you should communicate and exchange with your husband in a timely manner, hoping that your husband can stop this behavior and maintain the current relationship, after all, it is not easy for two people to be together.