What are some things in life that go against the grain?

When I was a child, I was worried that I couldn't do anything because of adults, and I wanted to grow up at that time. After I went to school, I was always asked to study hard, and I couldn't escape if I wanted to, so I didn't want to go to school at that time. When I went to college, I found that there were more troubles in life, and I used to only study in my studies, but now I find that life and study are incomprehensible things together.

I want to take the exam, but I don't work hard, I finally want to work hard, I find that the time is not enough, and the troubles in life also come to join in the fun at this time, so I can only go to the exam in a mess, and comfort myself after the exam next time. The status quo may be that you want to work hard but can't do it, and you will be infinitely annoyed after the matter has passed. But we can't go on like this forever, it's never too late to work hard from now on.

Sometimes it's very tiring, but when I think about my parents who are still working hard, no matter how tired I am, I have to find a way to solve these things, and some things will be messed up by me, so take it as an experience, and I can always grow a little bit after experiencing this.

There are too many things in life that I can't understand and can't get used to. My sister once said to me that if there is a person or an event that can make you angry, it means that you are not cultivated enough. In this world, everyone is a separate individual, and in the world, there has never been a single thing about empathy, and there has never been a feeling of others, you can't perceive it, even if it is the same thing, everyone's feelings are different.

Whether it's joy or sorrow, you can't perceive other people's feelings, and everyone feels the same sadness or joy to different degrees. Not to mention everyone's perception of a thing, coupled with the fact that each person's personality is different, and all kinds of different factors, add up, resulting in differences.

In my life, I think things are good or bad, good or bad, right or wrong, right or wrong, right or wrong, etc., I think it's understandable. In the past, the crowd had left, center and right. There is no love without a reason in the world, and there is no hate without a reason.

All things exist and have their opposites, and human beings are originally living in contradictions, but people's concepts and cognitions are changing and divorced. Therefore, there are many problems such as unclear concepts, confused thinking, and shallow understanding.

Every night when I grind until 12 o'clock, I say to myself: I must go to bed early tomorrow! Every morning between 8 a.m. and 8:50 a.m., when the alarm goes off three times and still can't get out of bed, say to yourself:

Be sure to go to bed early at night! But it didn't work. Every day, I just don't want to sleep, I don't want to get out of bed, and I want to go to bed early.

It's obviously the same group of people, but they like to set up several groups, the purpose of which is to discuss class A things in group A and group B to discuss class B things. However, because in most cases people only pay attention to one chat window, it will not be long before everyone talks about everything in group A when group A is more active, and everyone talks everything in group B when group B is active. The classification function has basically become a decoration.

If you know that you want to know and can't figure it out, you will continue to think about it, and people will end up in a dead end. It's better to relax, go to music, go shopping, find friends to party, and think about it again when you are calm, or think from a different perspective. If you still can't figure it out, then don't want to, just let it be.

This story tells us that when we do anything, we must first look at the direction before we can give full play to the favorable conditions. If the direction is wrong, then the favorable conditions will only work in the opposite direction.

Idiom allusions:

South and North is an idiom, which means to want to go south but go north. The metaphor and the contradiction of . Out of "Warring States Policy: Wei Ce IV": "Juchu Beiye." "Legend has it that the King of Wei wanted to attack Zhao.

Ji Liang persuaded him: "On the way, I met a man who was driving north, and told me, 'I am going to Chu.

I asked him, 'Why are you going north if you want to go to Chu?' He said:

My horse is good. I said, "Although your horse is good, this is not the way to Chu!"

He said, "My travel expenses are very rich." I said:

Although your travel expenses are a lot, this is not the way to Chu! He said, "I have a lot of skills in driving."

He didn't know that the direction was wrong, and the better the conditions for the journey, the farther away from the Chu State would be. Now Wang Dong.

If you don't move, you want to dominate the princes, you want to win the trust of the world in everything, you rely on the strength of the country and the elite army, to attack Handan, and you want to expand your territory and raise your prestige. ＂

How to avoid the opposite in life and work:

In order to avoid such a thing from happening, first of all, we must understand what our strengths are before doing things, which are suitable for us, and it will become very simple to use our advantages to do what we are good at. But if you use your strengths to do things that you are not good at, then you will be further and further away from success, which is absolutely undesirable. The second is to clarify your own Fang Sen oak and determine your own direction, so that you can formulate your own correct course of action at this age, don't act blindly, this may only consume your own advantages, but you yourself will not get anything.

In fact, as long as a person determines his own strengths, his own direction, and then he only needs to adhere to and execute, it will not be long before you will be able to succeed.

The story tells us that no matter what we do, we must first look at the direction of the pin, so that we can play our advantage, and if the direction is wrong, then the advantage will only play the opposite role.

No matter what you do, you must look at the direction in order to have your own satisfactory ending.

The story tells us that no matter what we do, we must first look at the direction in order to give full play to our favorable conditions; If the direction is wrong, then favorable conditions will only work in the opposite direction. It shows that doing things should not go the opposite way, and should be realistic and realistic. If the action is the opposite of the goal, the result will be further and further away from the goal.

Tell us not to be smart.

The truth of the opposite is that we must choose the right direction to be a person and do things, so that we can achieve success only by rolling out our own efforts, otherwise we will only get farther and farther away from the goal we want to achieve.

The Opposite Divergence is an idiom evolved from a fable, from "Warring States Policy: Wei Ce IV". The original meaning of the opposite is to go south while the car is going north, which is a metaphor for the opposite of action and purpose. The "other" referred to by "going in the opposite direction" is limited to actions (measures) and goals (aspirations), while the "other" referred to by "going in opposite directions" is much broader than "going in the opposite direction".

In other words, "opposite to each other" is said to be about two sides of the same thing; "Opposite" is said in relation to two different things.

Synonyms of the opposite of each other

1. Parting ways: A metaphor for trembling and going their separate ways due to different aspirations or goals. Argument.

2. Far from each other: there are great differences and distances between them.

3. Abandon the original and chase the end: give up, give up. Ben, fundamental, primary.

Chasing, pursuing. The last, the subtle, the secondary. Originally, it referred to abandoning agriculture and doing business in business.

The latter generally refers to the abandonment of the fundamental and major parts and the pursuit of the secondary and subtle ones. It is a metaphor for doing things without grasping the fundamentals, but working on the details.

4. Fighting fires with salary: The metaphor is that because of the wrong method, although there is a intention to solve the problem, the result makes the problem more serious.

5. Running in the opposite direction: figuratively acting in the opposite direction.