What should I do if I can t let go of the breakup, I think about every day, and my heart hurts

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
87 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When you have a next one, you'll feel ridiculous! In fact, for your current situation, you may really like her (I don't think it's love), you can't leave her temporarily, or you don't want to leave her at all in your heart! You put your posture too low, the more you do that, the more disdainful she will be, in fact, there is no need to be nostalgic at this point now.

    It's better for you to let go early if you're so annoyed all day long, if you want to open it, the best way to forget about her is to appear next, anyway, if you want to open it, there's nothing you can't get by!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Do something else to divert your attention There was always that uncomfortable at the beginning It's good to think about it It's good to open it Without her, life has to go on Since it's irreparable Only redouble your efforts It must be that you are not good enough That's why she wants to work hard to improve herself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's a process that slowly comes to rest. It's good to calm down for a while and find a girlfriend to start over. If you still can't put it down, then go to.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Time can dilute everything. Divert your attention. After a few months, you'll find that your heart doesn't hurt so much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Live happily, there will be 20,000 people in the world who can't let go. Go out for a walk, blow the wind, and trust to meet better people. ps: Watching anime and ** is also a good way to adjust.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let's go out for a walk, travel alone, see the world outside, and you will find that this little thing is nothing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Death can't solve the problem, time can dissolve all pain, endure it for a few days and don't think about her, it will pass. Good luck!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The best way to forget a person is to start a new relationship all over again, believing that it is sunny after the storm and not giving up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hehe, don't be obsessed, it seems that I was not so obsessed with the breakup at the time, and I was entangled for a few days at the beginning, but then I found out that he had a new love immediately, and I didn't look for him, but he often came to my space, people! It's hard to understand, but this relationship has made me miserable for two months, and now it's okay, I still have to start again and set sail!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Well, it's normal, find a busy life to break down your attention, and it's okay for a long time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are no hurdles in the past, look at the open point, and there are more important things in life than feelings.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should think of it this way, your breakup is for each other's future happiness! Don't just care about what you feel!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People are forced out, since they broke up, let's be friends, don't force yourself too much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Time will take everything, take it slowly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Go out with friends and make your life more fulfilling!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Listen to more healing songs and find ways to control your emotions.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Watch cartoons, TV, or eat something to eat, and you'll feel comfortable.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Slowly forget about her. Just get used to it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's easy to die Think about your parents and friends who are sad because of your death It's okay, don't keep talking about death Why is your life worthless.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Find a girlfriend who is better than before and her off.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Find a girlfriend again as soon as possible, forget about your ex-girlfriend...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then find a better one, love it well, cherish it well.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Think about how you might find someone to follow in the future, he or she is just a landscape.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you break up, just put her down, it's her who doesn't want you, it's her loss

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Get away for a while to travel.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's better to put it down, if it's the woman's proposal to break up.

    Time is the best medicine, it will slowly fade away the pain, it will be uncomfortable at first, but when you meet the real right person in the future, you will find that these are not a problem.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't know why you broke up, you are in love and can't extricate yourself, maybe this is true love, calm down for a while, if the other party has a good impression of you, there is still room for the party, you don't torture yourself, so that the other party will look down on you more, your only way is to work harder and stronger than now, man, crying, crying is not a sin, what I want to say to you, I won't be able to finish it for two hours, think about it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Breaking up means missing out, some things, missed is missed, there is fate but no part,

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What you have to think about now is whether she still loves you or not, if you don't love it, you are torturing yourself, some things should be let go, some things should be let go, don't put your mind on this, you still have your own life, do something to distract yourself and keep yourself busy.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I want to analyze your situation If you want to get the other party back, I can help you my vivip152

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Men, just pick up what you should take, put it down, and quickly make a mess of the knife for a while, and give yourself a little advice. Or.

    Go and change, you change, and she may come to you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You can transfer your energy to other areas appropriately!! Why bother yourself!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After a long time, two people have feelings, and what they do every day seems to have become a habit, and one day when that person is gone, you will feel that something is missing. The love is so deep that it hurts very much. Since you have chosen to break up, I believe you have also made a deliberate decision, and living a good life in the future is what you have to consider.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You know best in your heart whether you can save her, but you don't want to face this problem, there is nothing that can't be passed, especially these love things, you shouldn't let these things fill your brain, do something meaningful, so that you not only forget her, but also achieve yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Big brother, tell you, after a long time, it will be fine, no matter how sad you are now, how it is, after a long time, everything is empty, and in the end, only a memory remains.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Filling yourself up more can reduce the amount of time you spend thinking about her. Whether it can be redeemed or not depends mainly on her, not on you. If a man doesn't have to get back together, because a woman won't give up easily, if he decides to break up, it's impossible to turn back, it's better to find someone who likes you more.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's good to find a new girlfriend!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I feel that since the other party already has a girlfriend, it is to choose to forget him, if we are together again, it is not suitable, and I will be called a junior by others.

    Divert your love for him and think more about other things

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Socrates once persuaded a lovelorn man, and it was very useful. Remember, it's your power to fall in love with whom, and you won't like everyone who likes you. In the same way, not loving you is also someone else's right.

    That being the case, there is no need for us to be upset about someone else's exercise of power. Don't just think about loving others, love yourself a little more, and start by not making yourself sad!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    There's nothing you can do about this, and after a long time, maybe you can forget about it, but this scar will never get better, in fact, I'm just like you.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The best way to forget someone is to start a new relationship.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You can't let go of anything, you obviously hate him in your heart, you dislike him very much, don't lie to yourself.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The past is the past, some things have to be let go, if you really miss him, then find something to do, strive to forget him, and the end hurt is yourself who can't let go.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I have a girlfriend so soon, it seems that he has forgotten about you too, you don't shed tears for such people, wipe away your tears, and love yourself well.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    When they all break up, don't think too much about it. Take good care of yourself and you will meet better ones in the future....

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If you can't let it go, go back to him.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Let go, otherwise it is yourself who suffers.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Time will make you feel better.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    You're still young, and when you're older, you'll feel so stupid and naïve.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Find me, I think I can bring you joy!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    I'm here to rescue you, and we're not far away.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I just walked over. Some time ago, I thought about it every day, and it hurt to think about it. Comfort yourself every day, you can't do it anymore, look forward, don't look back.

    We've tried, we've bowed our heads, but he's still indifferent. It's not just him who has to be self-respecting. I also have self-esteem.

    Others don't cherish me anymore, why bother yourself, why not change me and cherish myself. If I don't say to myself, the two of us are destined to have no part, and he gave up at this time, which shows that he is not the end of my happiness, just a passerby, and it also shows that he will not be able to bear the more violent changes in his life in the future. He doesn't deserve me.

    After about 3 months, you're letting go. Also, you can avoid him for the first month. But be brave in the back and treat him like a stranger.

    You don't know, I still have to pass through my ex-boyfriend's house every day, and I would rather take a detour than pass by his door, but then even though I pass by his door, I am worried that he will see me, or I will see him, and my heart is very uncomfortable. But now I don't have that much to worry about. From there, when they pass by, they see all as if they do not see it.

    Maybe, but maybe we'll say hello or something when we meet in the future. Time will give you the best**.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    First of all, if you figure out this relationship, if you can't figure it out, the mind is always guessing and wondering, then it will be difficult for you to get out. To figure out why you are separated, you can use reason to convince feelings, right?

    Then, knowing that there is an irreconcilable contradiction between you, slowly tell yourself that you are obviously not suitable, he is not the person you are looking for, the person who really loves you is not like this, if you don't break up now, it will be more troublesome to get married in the future.

    Time will let you out.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    There's no way, it's useless to say anything, you can't think about it yourself, everything is in vain, accept the reality by yourself, make up your mind, and let it go.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Time can heal everything! Looking for things to enrich yourself, a month, two months and then look back, everything is so indifferent.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Time is the best medicine, and after a long time, it will naturally fade away,,。

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Time will let you go.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Change the environment, try to accept the man who likes you, come out of the past, dress anew, start a new day,

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Time can make you forget the past, only to forget it little by little, or start a new relationship.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    You don't want to let go, if you really love her, keep chasing it, support you!

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Just broke up like that, it's good after a long time, time can erase all trauma.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    You're emotional, and since you can't, then distract yourself and do something else, and don't be left alone, because so am I.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Let's travel, or go to deliver couriers,,, be idle, get busy, ;; That's it;

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    It's the same, no one can comfort you, only adjust yourself, I still can't forget it, I understand this feeling.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    What you need is time and a new love.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    I've tried it before, but I can't forget it, I can't forget it, think about it carefully, if I still love her, I can talk to her well, because I'm not together, I can still care.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    I'm a brother like you, it's all about time!

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    To give you a word, there are so many beauties in the world, why do you only love her.

  69. Anonymous users2023-12-04

    How long has she been divorced, how long have you been together, and how long have you been apart.

  70. Anonymous users2023-12-03

    We've been living for two years, but she goes to her ex-husband every day

  71. Anonymous users2023-12-02

    Maybe it's because you indulge yourself in missing her, maybe it's really love you can't extricate yourself, but the choice lies with you, and if you are willing to squander your youth, then you will wait for the day she lets go.

  72. Anonymous users2023-12-01

    For people who step on two boats, you have to let go without hesitation, life is short, at most only a hundred years, why bother with yourself, if the heart is not empty, how to find a beautiful life.

  73. Anonymous users2023-11-30

    To learn to love excessively, is to find a goal to put your energy in, you can choose one person, or one thing, so that you can forget her, get out of the shadow of his grace, and start a new life.

  74. Anonymous users2023-11-29

    That's because you weren't hurt deep enough. Since she still loves her ex-husband, it means that you don't need to be too sad without you in your heart.

  75. Anonymous users2023-11-28

    Since it's an ex-husband, you don't have to worry about it.

  76. Anonymous users2023-11-27

    Thank you (she Sakura source he) for giving you this extraordinary day Song Hongzi, everything is good, maybe it hurts, but you have a valuable experience, fate will let you meet your true love. Let go of the book of knowledge, and discard all the past about her and him.

  77. Anonymous users2023-11-26

    The heartache is because you haven't let go of it yet, and time is the only thing in the world to laugh at an invincible** Nothing can survive his scrubbing It's the same Right.

  78. Anonymous users2023-11-25

    Q stay, I just came out of lovelorn, I'm here to help you.

  79. Anonymous users2023-11-24

    Then let you forget in pain.

  80. Anonymous users2023-11-23

    It's going to pass....I want to open it....

  81. Anonymous users2023-11-22

    I've been breaking up for a year, in fact, my ex and I are in a relationship for 6 years, in fact, when I first broke up, I was the same as you thought, but I figured it out, breaking up is not not knowing how to cherish but not knowing how to love, not understanding each other, can only be said to be not enough to love each other.

  82. Anonymous users2023-11-21

    Let go when it's time to let go and give yourself a chance to find happiness at the next stop.

  83. Anonymous users2023-11-20

    Looks like he was dumped. It's obvious that he's a scumbag.

  84. Anonymous users2023-11-19

    Think about the other party, he can bear to let go, why are you like this.

  85. Anonymous users2023-11-18

    It's so easy to put down, it's going to be a bar, a bar that hurts from time to time, until you find the goba, haha.

  86. Anonymous users2023-11-17

    Just looking for a place to relax.

  87. Anonymous users2023-11-16

    Find another one, do you want to fall in love vigorously.

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