What happened to the people around you who are still from average families and studying abroad?

If you have an average family background, don't go Now those who study abroad are about to rot on the street Many graduates from famous foreign universities return to China with pitiful low salaries If you don't believe it, go and watch "It's All About You".

My brother went to the United States to study in the top five majors in the United States, I think the most important thing to study abroad is to look at personal ability, if you just want to go to gilding, it is really boring. Without lightening the burden, my brother is ready to study hard, and after 3 years of study, he can use hundreds of thousands less after completing his undergraduate studies.

Crazy parents, driving children crazy. Each one does his best and shows his strengths, which is the most successful education. My child is a public student on public assignment.

Very good. When I was in graduate school, I met an undergraduate student who came to do instrumental analysis, his home was rural, and he entered the second college entrance examination, and he was unwilling, and his family background did not allow him to repeat his studies, so he decided to study abroad. Considering the financial conditions, he had to take the full prize.

So he himself went to college like a senior in high school, studied hard to ensure GPA, and followed the teacher to do scientific research, and when he graduated from the bachelor's degree, he already had a good sci and it was a second work.

Later, he himself went to New York University to study abroad in one of the top 50 majors in the United States, and won all the prizes.

The biggest expense in the process of studying abroad is to apply to the school, and all the application fees add up to more than 2W RMB. He told me that he applied to dozens of schools, and only one school had his alma mater on the list of schools in Chinese mainland, which impressed him.

I haven't lived abroad and don't understand the meaning of studying abroad, of course, studying abroad may not necessarily become a talent, but the change of consciousness and the impact on family and friends are not available in China.

My friends who have studied abroad have grabbed a lot of them. It is mainly divided into two categories, the first type of scumbag because he can't get into a domestic university, so he goes abroad to have a mixed experience. In the second category, most of those who go abroad through scholarships will stay in the local area to continue their studies.

Today, I will give you two examples from my side.

1. Xiao Li with a mixed diploma in the UK.

Xiao Li was my junior high school classmate, and he was admitted to a century-old high school in the high school entrance examination. The academic style of this high school is average, and the school spirit is not very good. Her grades were also average, so she was placed in a parallel class when she was assigned to a class.

As a result, in the college entrance examination, he failed in mathematics and did not pass, and his grades could only be reduced to a junior college. Her parents were very anxious, and finally helped her find a 2+2 school, which is to study in China for two years and then study abroad for two years. Take two diplomas. <>

Xiao Li later went to the UK to study an accounting undergraduate, and returned to China to find a job after graduation without any suspense. I found a job in an Internet company, and now I can get about 5k every month.

2. Xiao Zhang, who went abroad on a scholarship.

Xiao Zhang is a top student in school, and in addition to studying, he also loves to play computer games. He doesn't play games like others, who spend a lot of money on equipment. He studied the game's framework, structure, character design and much more.

Unexpectedly, this interest became the capital for him to apply to study in the UK, and he successfully applied for a scholarship to study game design in the UK.

I didn't expect that when he graduated, he caught up with VR, when the AI industry was developing rapidly, so he successfully stayed in the UK to work, with the salary we envy, and lived in the UK.

Both friends are ordinary working families, but their own paths are different. So think about your goals before you go abroad. Although studying abroad is good, it is more important to have your own life plan.

As long as you are willing to endure hardships, your achievements after further study are generally better. Forget it if you are a scumbag, now that the news spreads so fast, the aura that shrouded the returnees in the early years has long since ceased to exist, and the so-called little foreign language advantage is actually very limited. Moreover, many people have actually been abroad for a few years, and their level of foreign language practice is quite limited.

To be able to study for a few years in a place where you are not familiar with life and where you don't understand the language, and live for a few years, for the child who has been reborn after the catastrophe of life, it is not bad, and there may be only a few individuals who have achieved nothing!

My niece is from an average family, and after graduating from her bachelor's degree, she went to study in France, and she was vain.

I belong to this situation, and I have suffered a lot.

Family background is generally not the focus, grades are generally the problem.

Anyway, the top students I know generally don't come back to study abroad, and their parents generally can't touch them, and a very few parents end up going abroad; The scumbags are mixed everywhere, spending money and coming back, and I don't know when I will be able to repay my parents. Let's see what parents want and what kind of life their children want.

At the same table in elementary school, he was sent to Shanghai Jiaotong University for graduate school, and then sent to the United States for doctoral studies. And I, after finishing graduate school, became a code farmer.

I'm talking about myself, but it's okay, it's about the same as the tuition fees of the three or private schools in China. As it was said upstairs, fight against the odds and gamble everything.

Cattle are cattle wherever they are, and people who mix are mixed everywhere.

How to study abroad in general, the family background is as follows:

One. Start with the country where you want to study.

Compared with the popular study abroad areas such as the United States and the United Kingdom, the following countries are known to have good teaching quality: Japan, Malaysia, Thailand in Asia, Poland, Spain, etc., the tuition fees in these areas will be relatively lower, and the cost of living is not so high.

However, it should be noted that some minority countries speak their own Chinese language rather than English, so you must do your homework before deciding whether to go, because minority languages are not so easy to learn.

Two. Preparation for studying abroad.

Having strong willpower and the ability to learn is also a way to save money. Many students will choose to enroll in classes to improve their language scores at this stage. If the language foundation is okay, plus the individual is more self-disciplined, in fact, a lot of costs can be saved at this stage.

Of course, "not hearing anything outside the window" is not the same as turning all information out, you can go to the forums and platforms to find various learning resources and the latest study abroad policies of various countries, so as to avoid all your efforts being in vain. If you still need an intermediary after comprehensive consideration, you can find the most cost-effective institution through information collection and screening.

Three. Apply for a scholarship + choose a university with preferential policies.

When choosing a school, it is not only necessary to consider the reputation of the school, but also the amount of scholarships and tuition fees. These details can go a long way in alleviating the stress of going abroad due to various expenses. You can check the scholarship and admission policies from the official website of the intended school.