At the age of 20, I am pregnant unmarried, and my boyfriend s family can t support the marriage, wha

It's not that you can't support marriage, it's that you can't support the marriage you want, if you want to get married, just go directly to get a marriage certificate, as long as you are willing to two people together, the external material two people can slowly get together.

I am twenty unmarried and pregnant, but my boyfriend has the financial conditions to be responsible for me, as long as the child is not big, I advise you not to have children, I regret that because the child is with him, marriage is a big deal, not child's play, you are not ready to advise you not to try easily.

It can be a place, but it can't be a human life.

It is not recommended that you get married, the first 20 years old, your body is not yet mature, it is easy to get hurt when you have a child, and the child is also prone to problems. Second, you don't have the basic conditions to raise children now, a girl's marriage is not the same as love, poor couples mourn everything, don't ruin your life for the sake of impulse. Third, I personally think that your male ticket does not love you as much as he imagined, otherwise why not use contraception?

Can he not know about his own situation? Are you so willing to let you suffer with him? I don't feel sorry for you at all, the person who really loves you will think about you wholeheartedly instead of making you embarrassed and miserable, please allow me to make a less moral but very realistic assumption, he really doesn't want to borrow the child to trap you?

With his family conditions, it's normal to hit a single, so now he's desperately trying to catch you. Girl, as your peer, I'm still studying, what are you doing in such a hurry, it doesn't matter how you play in love, but marriage is really different, there is nothing wrong with the concept of being the right person, and a marriage without an economic foundation is too painful and too easy to break and hurt. The so-called true love is above all else, and I really don't agree with it.

Overview of the story. The child was hospitalized and stopped for a few days, and the story comes from emotion.

The netizen is a 20-year-old girl who was pregnant before marriage, and because she was pregnant, she quit her job. It can be seen between the lines that netizens still like their boyfriend more and are willing to be with him. But the boyfriend's family background is more complicated, first of all, the first point is poor, and there is a younger brother, the boyfriend's father is serving a prison sentence, and the boyfriend's mother has committed suicide because of drinking medicine and left sequelae, but the ability to work is still relatively strong, that is, it is basically difficult to have an RV or something.

Xiao Su complained. In fact, there are only two paths in front of netizens, persistence and giving up. Although it is easy to say, it is still difficult to actually do.

There are many reasons to insist, just because love and life are actually enough, in fact, the occurrence of a marriage, in fact, love alone can be supported, of course, only love marriage is difficult to embark on the road to happiness. Of course, it's not the foundation, but it helps a lot for the happiness of the marriage, but in any case, it's not the man's fault that people are poor, and no one can choose a family after all, which has nothing to do with an excellent family.

There are actually many reasons to give up, and there are more than persistence. The economy is a very big problem, after all, poor couples mourn for a hundred days, even if the boyfriend is very capable, the two of them will have a long period of difficult time, and it may be happiness to get through the front, but if you can't get through it, the marriage will break down, and even affect the future life. Secondly, the situation of the family is not very good, the younger brother is a small aspect, the father who is serving a prison sentence and the mother who has committed suicide by drinking medicine is a big aspect, and the existence of the younger brother is to drag the financial ability, after all, it is unrealistic to say that he will not help his younger brother after marriage, and why the father is serving a prison sentence and why the mother is drinking medicine, which actually reflects some of the dark side of this family member, marriage is a matter of two people, and life after marriage is a matter of two families.

In fact, this kind of thing, it stands to reason that Xiao Su should persuade peace, after all, he has deep feelings, and he has children, the damage of ** is very big for women, and netizens want to be with their boyfriends very much. But to be reasonable, Xiao Su does not recommend that this relationship continue, 20 years old, in fact, is not a psychologically mature age, and there is still very little social experience, it has really survived a difficult period, and it is difficult to guarantee that this marriage will be 100% happy, because there are too many variables. The most rational and beneficial way for netizens is actually to induce labor after a month, break up, and start a new life.

It sounds unkind, but this is probably the most rational and correct way, in fact, Xiao Su doesn't want this in his heart, but this is society after all, if netizens choose to insist, then Xiao Su can only silently bless you, and the miracle of love will happen to you.

Summary. Dear, if your boyfriend wants it, you can get married!

I was 20 years old and I was not married and pregnant, and my family didn't know so I didn't want this child, but my boyfriend wanted it very much, what should I do now, let's give an opinion.

Dear, if your boyfriend wants it, you can get married!

Dear, I have my advice to you: 1. Marry your boyfriend, give birth to a child, and let the child have a complete home!

2. Notify your parents and discuss solutions with your parents!

Dear, in fact, being a mother is a great thing!

Dear, do you think about how your current boyfriend treats you, is it the one you will marry in the future? Think about whether you want to have a child or not!

I didn't think about separating, but I was afraid that if I didn't have children, I would break up with me.

Dear, there will be this possibility!

He'll think you're a very ruthless person, too!

And if he wants to be a father very much and wants a baby, if you insist on not wanting it, it will also affect your relationship in the future!

Then I don't plan to have a child yet, and I don't know how to face the child in the future.

Dear, since he said he wants to have children, why don't you want it? Is it something you are afraid of?

Dear, your relationship is very good now, and you haven't thought about separating, isn't it a matter of time or time to have children?

Because it was unmarried, I didn't feel good.

Dear, don't care about this, before you are born, just get married!

The child is here now, and it is also a kind of fate with you!

He's coming to you, so you'd better not want him!

Dear, now that the marriage law stipulates that you can have children without getting married, the national policies are all in place, you have to change your mind!

Dear, judging by your description, I think you should have this child!