Would you not marry your girlfriend because she didn t have a dowry?

No, as far as my own conditions are concerned, I think it's enough to have a marriage partner, and the dowry or anything is trivial and unimportant.

Of course not, because these things are not very important in the face of love, after all, it is he who will live with you for the rest of his life, not some of his material conditions.

This one won't. If it's true love, you won't care. The two love each other and can work together to earn money. ‍‍

This, people who don't get married because the other party doesn't have a dowry or a bride price, they don't want to take responsibility, they just feel that they are too stressed or something, and I won't anyway. ‍‍

Yes, because the woman often says that the bride price is her sincerity, and the dowry is not the woman's sincerity. If the cost of one party is too low, she will not care about the marriage and can leave at any time.

It doesn't matter if you don't have a dowry. But if you don't have a dowry and swallow the bride price, you think that the man should give her family, then you definitely don't want it. However, we are looking for the right person, and there is a consensus on marriage customs, and there is no such problem.

It doesn't matter if you don't have a dowry, but it doesn't matter if you don't have a dowry after receiving a dowry.

Not at all, I never thought about the dowry. If you are good, you can do it. ‍

It depends on the situation, in fact, I don't understand this matter, if you want to say that the woman's family is very poor, but the parents are very reasonable, then they definitely don't care about the dowry. If you want to say that the family has conditions and refuses to give, it is a bit disrespectful, your daughter is not respectful, and she may not have a good impression of the woman's family, but for the woman, I think she should be more pityful, indicating that her family is not very good to her. In fact, I don't care about the dowry, even if it's a dollar, it's good to take a favor.

If you marry, you are willing to marry, I don't care how much the dowry is, the meaning of giving a few dollars is the same as giving hundreds of thousands, and the relationship is good. ‍‍

The right door is true, who wants to help the poor, think about it yourself, what I said is right. ‍‍

Yes, marriage should be sacred. You're looking for money to get married, you're not married. Are you on par with the money!!

I think I will, even if your family is poor, you won't bring anything with you, right? Am I an almshouse or a welfare agency?

As long as the woman doesn't ask the man to have a house, I don't care. ‍‍

I think the family situation is slightly better, the family quality is a little higher, and what I care about is the ability and character of my children's marriage partners. ‍‍

Do you care if the man doesn't have a bride price and doesn't marry him? This is the answer, although I will be fair, but marriage is the man marrying and the woman leaving, so it is easy to say that there is no bride price, but the man must have a marriage house.

I took a fancy to it, I chose it, I had a result, she didn't dislike me, and I had no reason to veto.

If I'm particularly poor, I'll care. If I didn't love you that much, I would care too. ‍‍

My boyfriend said it didn't matter, life wouldn't be better with this money, and it wouldn't be worse without it, that is, it would be used as an emergency reserve, and it would be the same in anyone's hands.

If you care about so many external objects, how can you move forward hand in hand? I don't care! ‍‍

If you give a dowry, you will not have children, one thing for another, and the equivalent transaction will be made.

They all want to take advantage of marriage to make a profit, and men are more realistic and powerful.

It's easy to say if you don't subsidize your younger brother.

In a word, love to marry or not, don't pull down.

Unless she doesn't give me any trouble!

1. The dowry bride price should be mentioned by you and your girlfriend to talk privately and convey the opinions of both parents to each other, so that there is a step down.

2. About the house. Actually, this kind of is okay, you can write an IOU and borrow 150,000. Then the down payment of 1.15 million is not trembling when you are all out, which is also your premarital property, but the woman does not add her name.

You can also take the initiative to add your name and ask your girlfriend to contribute some money, as for 150,000 to 10,000, it depends on what your family thinks.

3. The house problem is solved, let's talk about the dowry issue. According to the customs of the countryside, the bride price (60,008 is not high in the countryside) can be returned in the past, but in this way, the woman does not have to bear anything for the elderly in the future, at most she can make a little effort; If you observe this fruit according to the customs of the city, it is generally double the return (the bride price of 60,008 will be 130,006), you are out of the house and there is not a down payment to make a decoration or marry a car or something, and the woman bears the same responsibility for the elderly.

4. If your girlfriend has two daughters at home, I guess you still have a few questions to think about. Whose house to go to for the New Year, whether to have a child with her family name, can be solved together.

5. It is recommended that the subject find a girlfriend to talk about it in detail, starting with the issue of the woman's parents' pension, and then slowly lead to the issue of marriage. Explain to her that after you get married, the two of you are a small family, and how you marry is how much support you have for your small family. If the woman's family does not give in as you described, the New Year's problem, the child's surname problem, the house name problem, the financial power after marriage, the problem of pension and grandchildren, etc., must take the initiative to grasp their own hands, because her family is not very good, as for your girlfriend, I think you know it yourself.

And some issues can also be compromised in another way, be flexible, and don't be too stiff.

6. Resolutely reverse the notion that it is not easy for her parents to raise her and get married to give you children. The former tells her that it is not easy for your parents to raise you, and the latter tells her that the child is born by two people's joint decision.

7. I have always believed that money is used to solve problems, not to create problems, so it would be best if you could suffer a small loss (this degree varies from person to person) in exchange for a consensus between the two parties, after all, if you want to get married, there are still decades to live, and everyone will be very tired when getting married is the same as talking about business, good luck.

Then first of all, I have to ask you, do you have a bride price, in fact, don't worry too much about some small things if you love someone, otherwise two people really won't live long.

The woman's family doesn't give a dowry, I think it may really be because the family conditions are not good, and for the woman, the family will give it if it has it, and if it doesn't, it won't be given, which is different from the son marrying a daughter-in-law, if the daughter-in-law doesn't give anything, then it can't be said, but if you marry a daughter-in-law,If you don't give a dowry, you can also repent and marry back.

There is also a situation, is it that your girlfriend has a younger brother or brother at home, and the family keeps money to marry a daughter-in-law? It is recommended to communicate more with the family, and it is true that the woman will not be able to get over the face if she does not give a dowry. As a parent, you may think that you will receive the bride price first and then talk about the dowry, so do you have a balance in the bride price?

Then, if the daughter-in-law's previous work income was not given to the family, my parents may think that I have raised me for so many years in vain, and I have no children, and then I don't even have any filial piety, so why should I be embarrassed to ask for a dowry.

If you really love her, it doesn't matter if you don't give a dowry, after all, the daughters are given to you, and each family's situation is different, and some things are still considerateIf you really have feelings, don't care about these, you should care about heart-to-heartIf the mother-in-law is really for your good, she will definitely compensate for it in the future, maybe she didn't have the financial ability back then.

Many people talk about love and look happy, but when it comes to talking about marriage, they have to face some realistic things, what bride price, dowry, these are unavoidable topics. Everyone's opinion is different, the key is to look at the relationship between the two people, butIf you don't have a marriage blessed by your parents, I think most of them are unhappy. But if both of your parents agree, but the woman's parents are temporarily in financial difficulties and cannot afford the dowry, then it is understandable.