I m a high school student and I m used to being lonely, what if my interpersonal relationships fail?

I think the key to the problem is not that you break off friendship with your friends, but that you don't solve problems when you encounter them!

When it comes to a trivial matter, if one of the parties is willing to admit its mistake, or it is normal as if it didn't happen.

If you talk, the problem will not be a problem!

Sometimes it only takes one person to say a word first, and the friendship returns, and there will be no final severance.

I want to ask, did you ever want to salvage your friendship after your argument?

If you always feel that it is the other person's fault, and that it doesn't matter if that person is lost, of course you will not have friendship again.

But if you're starting to worry about the possibility of getting back together, be proactive! Sometimes a single sentence can solve the problem! The key is whether you are willing to let go of your pride and take the first step!

Do you say you want to be your unique self, or do you want to perfect yourself?

We are civilized human beings, and we can't survive without the group, do you want to make friends?

There is a saying that when you go out and rely on friends, when you go to society, what is your knowledge and your ability? Without the care and guidance of friends, how can you go alone?

What is it like to be besieged or something, your family is far away, no one cares, no one cares, no one cares for you?

I'm out to school now, if I want to be alone forever, I'll cry, I'll break down, I can't be left uncared for, when I'm sick, someone will pour you hot water, someone will call you when you're in bed, someone will give you during exams.

Pass the answer, and when you are bored, someone will accompany you and help you come up with ideas.

There are many scenes in life that are the most beautiful when you look at them with your friends.

You are similar to me.

I'll say a few words first, QQ for you, I have been studying psychology 369281537 for a few years, remember to write down the notes.

Loneliness is caused by the feeling that you are not understood and that it is difficult to integrate into society.

Actually, your temperament is very good, but you say: piercing people, it may be a problem with your speech.

I once felt the same way: that is, if I think it is very ordinary, how can people distort my meaning, try to speak as gently as possible, just read the book.

Enemy: Don't just say it. That's just the feeling of a child, I think you are very good, keep a childlike heart, but friends, if you get too close, you will find flaws, and distance produces beauty.

Interact with anyone, you have to have shallow interactions, so that your temperament will have a sense of mystery, so that everyone respects and loves, overall, you just have a little problem with speaking, don't be afraid. However, don't do the "small report" of the past in the future, it's all history, and what you depress, please forget!!

I just graduated from high school, I used to be in a similar situation to you, I'm sure I'm more insidious than you are more lonely than you, and I'm more troubled than you, not to mention in detail, my school is a new junk high school in the name of a famous school, called Kirin Middle School (famous school!) But I am a Nansha cottage school grade F class! I also had no intention of backing up on my brother and almost caught him in a lawsuit, of course, I also failed the college entrance examination, thinking back to high school, to be honest, what troubles you will forget after graduation.

Now I regret that I took care of all the trivial things in high school... Moreover, the friendship and love between high school and before are difficult to grasp. It's okay if it's broken.,Not to mention those senseless loneliness.。。。

It can be eaten as a meal at all).

Believe me, study hard until you reach university, you will find that you are more free, and your friends will be broad and humane, and they will not bother with you at all, because they may become your future career partners.

A word to you. What kind of feelings you dare not treat, you must be sincere.

There will always be small quarrels among friends, but the important thing is that everyone's feelings are still there.

Let's talk about making small reports. Will there be any classmates who will believe you?

Interpersonal communication is important! It will have an impact on your future work and life!

It depends on your emotional intelligence.

A person's success depends not on IQ, but more on emotional intelligence.

I suggest you buy some books on [emotional intelligence] to read, it will be very helpful.

It will teach you how to deal with yourself and others, how to interact with your friends, lovers, family, subordinates, and superiors. There are many ways to deal with success and failure. I think it will be very helpful for you.

How happy to do it.

It's good to get used to loneliness, at least it doesn't have to be painful.

I feel uncomfortable walking on campus by myself.

It's simply impossible to eat or anything by yourself.

Should I say I was envious or admired?

It's simple, this, that... I got the wrong book.

First of all, think about why loneliness occurs. Some students may be caused by their own character, many students will find that when they first enter high school, the relationship between each classmate is very good, showing a cordial and friendly relationship, but as the time together is getting longer and longer, there are various small assignments, these classmates are very good, every day together, those classmates are very good, every day together, over time, you will find that you and every small group are not very suitable, then at this time you have to think about it, is it your character, It's not a little habit of yours. Each of us is different, but we are in the big family of society, so we have to adapt to society, not let society adapt to you.

If the cause is in ourselves, then we have to find a way to correct it, <>

Second, you need to understand your goal in high school: to be able to get into the university you want. This is the purpose of your schooling, isn't it, although making friends is essential for our study career, but everything is to have a better learning environment and learning mood.

Once we have this goal in mind, we need to make our lives as comfortable as possible.

You can learn to chat with others appropriately, tolerate people you don't like, maybe you think it's a bit hypocritical, but this is the cultivation that people should have. In high school, you should not scruple too much, but also think about whether you can live in harmony with the people around you in the past three years. On the premise of living in harmony with the people around you, you can choose to be independent, and you are not alone at this time, but enjoy the world alone.

There will always be loneliness in life for a long time, just like being in every period of life, we still have to grow up, even if there are people around you to accompany you and help you, but there are some things you always have to do by yourself. And in the ordinary days, when you don't do anything, you will feel bored, and maybe there will be a sudden confusion, all because there is very little content to fill in your life every day, so you feel that you are not interested in anything.

It's not normal. If you feel lonely, tell your parents what is on your mind. Ask your parents to enlighten you or make more friends.

I think this situation is normal, and when you are lonely, you can force yourself to study, so that you can eliminate loneliness.

I think it's normal, after all, high school students need to do a lot of questions, and they are tired every day. You can listen to some soothing ** or go to the playground to play.

High school life is always boring, boring, and boring. After many students enter high school, they feel that they have few friends and no one to share their sufferings and joys with, forming a closed psychological state, and they often feel lonely in their hearts. As a high school student,We should correctly understand our loneliness, adjust our mentality, divert our attention, learn to confide in our teachers, parents, and friends, and try to break our loneliness

When I was in high school, it was normal to make fewer friends. Because in high school, most children only focus their thoughts and energy on their studies, and have no time to take care of other leisure activities. We need to have a correct understanding of the current situation and be able to understand this imagination.

When all the students were studying, I was embarrassed to play.

Find your own goals and motivation, set your own plan, and when you have a sense of direction, you will enjoy this feeling of hard work, and you will also enjoy your study and life, and you will no longer have other thoughts to think that you are too lonely.

Loneliness always sneaks into our brains in the middle of the night, and many times we have these negative emotions because we are idle and panicked. When we are free, we must learn to find things to do for ourselves and make ourselves more fulfilling. If we have other time outside of studying, we can do our favorite sports, read our favorite books, etc.

When you are busy, you can't have the mind to think about whether you are lonely. Whether we feel lonely or moved by sadness, as long as we have these negative emotions in our brain, we must eliminate them in time, overcome our emotions, control our thoughts, promote our physical and mental development, and improve our sense of fulfillment and happiness.

Loneliness is a part of human feelings, and we must face it. When we feel lonely, we can record our feelings and thoughts at the moment, as well as think about why we feel lonely. We can go to the Internet to look up or look through relevant books to find out the real reason why we feel lonely, learn to accept loneliness, and make psychological adjustments for ourselves.

When we are alone, we can carry a book or word book with us, so that we have something to do, and we will not feel lonely.

When our loneliness is uncontrollable, there are ways we can vent our loneliness. You can also take the initiative to talk to your friend, tell him about your feelings, ask him if he will feel similarly, and how he will solve the problem when he encounters it. Through communication and exchange with others, not only break the relationship with a person, but also find some answers from it, so that you no longer think cranky.

Loneliness is a feeling in the human body. As a high school student, we must correctly recognize our loneliness, learn to control our loneliness, learn to accept loneliness, and understand loneliness.

Students who can be admitted to key high schools have been in a good situation in the past, and are used to being praised and honored, but their psychological ability to withstand setbacks is very fragile.

Nowadays, the good times have reversed, coupled with the repeated decline in exam scores, many students have gradually lost confidence in learning, accompanied by an increasing sense of shame and loss, and eventually lead to low self-esteem, falling into disappointment, pain and self-blame.

The key for teachers to unlock the inferiority complex is:

Give warm respect and understanding. Teachers should reduce excessive care for outstanding students, treat students who have suffered setbacks and learning difficulties equally, and feel their distress and confusion more in their shoes.

With the principle of "not judging heroes by success or failure, as long as we have worked hard", open their hearts, make them rebuild their confidence, dare to face life, have the courage to overcome difficulties, and strive to "create brilliance again".

First of all, it is likely that he was under a lot of pressure after entering high school. Also, he's in the excitement right now, so he might be distracted by something.

You should make more friends, don't focus all your mind on studying, and hanging out with friends is also a kind of relaxation. If you want to break your loneliness, you have to go outside and play with friends and make more friends.

High school students are often isolated, and they must put all their minds on studying. Everyone wants to have their own friendships and not be isolated. If this really happens to you, since you don't want to, then don't play with others.

You should devote yourself wholeheartedly to learning, and only by improving yourself can others recognize you more. One person can't fight so many people, and only by choosing to escape can he really learn. <>

If you are particularly isolated, you may choose to discuss with your parents about changing schools. High school is the most critical moment, if you don't have the heart to study at this time, then you will definitely have an impact in the future. Parents should also be positive about their children's opinions, and they should not let their children be isolated.

When parents change schools, children may find their own friends. Everyone wants to be with their favorite classmates, study hard and encourage each other. If you really can't do it, you have to choose to deal with it in this way, which can help you improve a lot.

Students should not choose to carry everything by themselves, but must choose to tell their parents. Parents have been through so much and they will also tell you how to get along with your classmates. Some children are pampered at home and tend to be self-centered when they go to school.

Such children are not willing to play with you, and will think that you are very selfish. In the relationship, you must make yourself more generous, and don't always worry about others. Help others more so that others can have good friends, no matter what you meet, your parents will always be your dependence.

In general, if you don't choose to take on everything alone, you will become very miserable. During the study period, we must focus on learning, and believe that after experiencing wind and rain, we will eventually see a rainbow. When you get along with others, you should let others do more, and don't fight with others for everything.