At that moment, I suddenly felt that I was old

The first time I felt older was when I was about to graduate from college, I took the bus back to school and gave up my seat to a child, and his mother said to him, "Thank you, Auntie", and he was stunned, oh, he actually called me Auntie, is there any mistake. At that time, I didn't take it to heart, but I just thought it was like a joke and just listened to it. Last year, my baby was born, and I was diagnosed with brain damage before I was 100 days old, and since then I have started to run to various hospitals, all kinds of **, not only the baby is tortured, but I am also physically and mentally exhausted, and I almost divorced my husband.

After seeing all the hot and cold life in the world, I feel that life is really not easy, and it is the first time that I feel that it is so difficult to live well. Pray every day that this day will pass quickly, and every day I will calculate when this course of treatment will end, when the next course of treatment will begin, and when will such a day be the end. At the beginning of one session, my husband came back to see us and said at first sight that I felt like I was 10 years older.

When I heard this, I suddenly cried, and the tears that I had endured for a long time gushed out, and I couldn't hold back all the pain and grievances at once, and I squatted on the ground like a child and cried.

Last year, on National Day, the daughter of a friend of mine from high school got married, and at the door of the hotel, I suddenly saw a man about my age with white hair and a burly body. As soon as I met, I was stunned, such a familiar face, I guess it is not only a classmate of my friend, but also my classmate. But for a while, I couldn't remember who he was, his hair was all white, almost a black hair was invisible, even his eyebrows and beard were white, his face was full of wrinkles, the two of them looked at each other for more than a minute, and the people who went to the side thought that Fa Xiao had relieved me.

A person who was so high-spirited and handsome at that time suddenly grew old like this, it is really unforgiving. Suddenly, I felt that we were really old.

While attending one classmate's wedding after another, I found myself getting older; When I saw my buddies with children, I found myself getting older; When I found it difficult to call my married friends out for dinner, I found that I was getting old; When I saw my younger siblings grow taller and fall in love, I found myself getting older! ‍‍

Start running your family, think about the cost of everything in your life, and plan your living expenses for the next month in advance. Begin to endure all kinds of nonsensical demands at work, and face the work arrangement of the boss. Be able to accept it with a smile.

Begin to teach juniors in the workplace as seniors. I forgive the small mistakes of my juniors, and I thought to myself, who hasn't been younger, but I'm obviously only 26 years old, 3 years older than 23, 6 years older than 20, and 8 years older than 18. But in the moments of these trivial things of life, I did feel that I was old.

Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, I'm in my thirties. It's as if yesterday he was a young guy, and today he has become a middle-aged uncle. With a beer belly, wrinkles on the forehead, gray hair on the sideburns, a lot of hair loss on the top of the head, weight is only increasing, and memory is also beginning to decline.

The characteristics of a middle-aged greasy uncle began to happen to me.

After graduating from college, I thought I was still an ignorant teenager, but I was called by an unknown child's uncle and uncle. The post-00s are all adults, and their friends have also begun to talk about marriage, and they are planning to get married and have children. "How old are you, and you're still alone".

It seems to be an understatement, but it is also the most hurtful sentence. I no longer want my birthday to come early, but I hope that this day never comes. Count your age with your fingers, and you'll be almost thirty in a few years.

When I was shopping at the supermarket, a child who looked like he was seven or eight years old called me Auntie, and when I thought about my age, I was really old.

The first sign: not going out, not wanting to party.

When we were young, no matter what the weather was outside, we wanted to leave our rooms and go outside to play.

Eating, singing, shopping, and watching movies were once essential items for us, but now, maybe because we are busy, we don't have so much time for ourselves, but despite the time, we still like to stay at home and have a good rest.

Friends always find all kinds of reasons to decline, watching TV quietly, surfing the Internet, when we start to like to be alone, maybe it is the beginning of our gradual maturity.

5 signs of early aging: Is there a moment when you suddenly feel old?

The second sign: pay attention to maintenance and start to maintain your health.

Once, we were teenage boys and girls with collagen faces, relying on our youth to sneer at those who apply grease and powder all day long, and slowly when we began to deteriorate and look less energetic, we began to pay attention to self-care.

**Worse, maybe it's just that the years are not forgiving, in the same way, in the passage of time, our bodies are also fighting with themselves, used to sing, jumping until dawn, now just want to soak feet, drink tea.

Maybe it's not something we like to do, but unfortunately, we've reached an age where we can't ignore it.

5 signs of early aging: Is there a moment when you suddenly feel old?

In the past, we always liked to share our lives, what we did every day, who we were with and who you could see, but now, if you want to post but don't know what to post, you don't need the attention of others so much, and you start to live your life quietly.

In the past, we may have added some messy groups for eating, drinking, and having fun, but now, I really don't want to add any group, and even if we do, it is to block message reminders, and then continue to dive without saying a word.

Nowadays, we just know whether we are doing well or not, we know ourselves whether we are warm and cold, we don't need to be recognized by others, and we know more and more what kind of life we want.

5 signs of early aging: Is there a moment when you suddenly feel old?

The fourth sign: live a regular life and spend money reasonably.

In the past, staying up late to surf the Internet, staying up late to jump, staying up late to chase dramas were handy, and I was full of vitality when I slept immediately, but now, staying up late is like fighting a losing battle, I have no spirit at all, I used to eat when I was hungry, no matter when, but now, looking at the gradually bulging belly, I will consciously adjust my work and rest diet, and make my life more regular.

Recently, I found a sad thing, I thought I was younger, but I found that I was old in the eyes of others.

It turns out that a pair of autumn pants can survive the whole winter, but now I find that I can still feel a little chill on my legs when I take off my autumn pants near May.

I used to drink until I got home in the middle of the night and fell asleep, but now I find that eating a little later and eating a little more will make you sleepless at night.

I used to play every week without feeling tired, but now I find that after playing, my arm hurts or my leg hurts, and there is always a place that makes you uncomfortable.

Originally, when playing ball, if there were not enough people at other venues, "brothers will play together" would always say this, but now when this kind of thing happens, it is said "young people come to play?" "In a pleading tone, I'm afraid that people won't take us to play.

It turned out that when it came to the Internet café, what game is not familiar at least it will not be unfamiliar. Recently, I went to an Internet café but found that I had been looking for a go-kart for a long time when I turned on the computer to find it.

When I just graduated from Lu Yun, there were married people in the unit, and we sat together, and the dishes were all made by us as soon as they came up, and now there are married people, and we can have two-thirds of the dishes left on the table.

Originally, in the summer, ice cream and iced drinks were drunk casually, but now I find that eating a little cold food will make me uncomfortable for a long time. Wax this.

Originally, when I played basketball, I had to buy shoes with good performance, and I wanted to buy Spalding's basketball, but now I found that now I can have a pair of shoes, but I must buy a good morning beam for knee pads. As for basketball rubbing against other people's, it's fine. I don't know if getting old happens the moment you give up on what you love most.