My boyfriend left me for his ex girlfriend.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You don't care what happens to him now, what do you really want? It's all his business if he's indecisive, you can't control an independent individual, what you have to do is to cut off contact with him as soon as possible, don't have any more contact, because grinding and chirping, wasting your time, and there will be no result, even if he chooses you in the end, he will not break off contact with the other party, but will be more troublesome. You are decisive, hope.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How to put it.

    You shouldn't wait for him, a person has no right to make others wait, and the minute he wastes on you is reducing the time to get you close to the grave by one minute.

    And love is just a feeling of people seduced by it, and after many years, it will be converted into other feelings, such as friendship, family affection and the like.

    And you are waiting for him to hope that he will break up, and hoping that he will break up also shows that you do not love him so much, and loving someone is the most beautiful thing, not waiting.

    And he is not single-minded, when he gets tired of that woman, he will come back to you, and after he gets married, he is tired of you? Looking for a junior? Looking for a lover? There are many such cases. To borrow a very non-mainstream phrase: you told me to get out, I got out, you told me to come back, sorry I got away. Hope.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I advise you not to wait for him, he is not with you, it is fruitless for you to wait like this, since he loves her ex-girlfriend so much, you just let it go. Fulfill them, let him be your brother or just be an ordinary friend, you go in search of someone who is worthy of your love, and he loves you, and you will definitely find it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's best not to wait for him, he is not dedicated to you, what you have to do is to get rid of him, don't let him tie up your life, live happier than him, find a better person who suits you, and be worthy of yourself, otherwise it will be too late to regret it later.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Give it up! Maybe you love him very much, but he doesn't belong to you, maybe you think he is perfect, but it really belongs to you, and that is happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You are sincere to him, he actually treats you like this, you want him to love you only, just cut off his little jj.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Preserve self-esteem. Women, be haughty, this kind of man, you should look down.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then you will abandon him as another man.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's a long article, and I read it before the reader finishes it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My boyfriend abandoned me for his ex-girlfriend, and this is the time to separate. In fact, there are cases where a boy goes to find an ex-girlfriend, and many boys can't let go of his ex-girlfriend. So at this time, if the woman is still entangled in this boy, it is actually very unworthy.

    Such a boy is not worth saving, and choosing to leave is the best way. may still have strong feelings for this boy, but from a rational point of view, he will definitely not be able to continue this relationship. From a woman's point of view, what a man needs to do is to always be dedicated to this relationship, and women don't have many other requirements, and a boy can't forget his ex-girlfriend so far, and even abandoned himself for his ex-girlfriend, such a situation is difficult to understand.

    So there is no need to do some stupid things for your boyfriend, the most important thing to do at this time is to stop the loss in time, don't put too much emotion on this boy, you should find more beautiful things in life. <>

    There are a lot of good boys and girls in the world, and there is no need to be entangled in one all the time. After something like this happens, it is obvious that this boy is not trustworthy, so the best way for girls is to abandon this boy and live their own lives, and at the same time not to be affected by this boy too much, because after such a thing happens, it is not that they are at fault, but that the other party is at fault, so there is no need to bear too much psychological pressure at this time.

    So after something like this happens, the best way is to abandon your boyfriend and find a better boy, or just settle down and love lifeIt is very unworthwhile to do something meaningful and not to put all your energy on him, and it should be analyzed from a rational point of view.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think the best thing to do is to forget about the other person, because this kind of man is not worth your nostalgia at all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Although many guys have broken up with their ex-girlfriends, they will still love each other and be with you in their hearts, just to comfort the pain of the breakup. If so, you should leave him decisively.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should choose to let go, which means that your boyfriend doesn't love you at all and doesn't take you to heart, that's why he will abandon you so easily, and you should let yourself live a better life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think he liked you. It's just that his love for you is not firm enough, loving someone has to go through many hardships, if you can still persevere, this is true love, but for the sake of his ex-girlfriend, he abandoned you on the eve of marriage, in his heart, the ex-girlfriend is more important than you. If you could, I would like you to ask him and his ex-girlfriend to go to the amusement park, which would be cruel to you, but after that day, I think you'll understand, and that's when you should let it go.

    Actually, perfection is also a kind of love, I know you can't treat him with a normal heart, after all, you have loved him, so it is best to cut off all contact, this can be regarded as an escape, but no one will want to sprinkle a handful of salt in the already scarred heart, he is never yours, I wish you happiness in the future, I can only do these ......

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If that's the case, why bother if it's true or not? It's better to remember a person's good than to remember a person's bad, at least your mood is pleasant. If the man is gone, he can find it again, and it is rare to find it back when the mood is gone!

    In fact, the root cause is that you are just unwilling, and you feel that it is difficult to accept being compared to others. People are all the same! Do not suffer from few, but suffer from unevenness. This is human nature, which means that you are a normal woman. Don't be sad, it'll be fine slowly......

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't say anything else, you will divide it, it's already like this, just treat him as a passerby in your life, don't be sad for such a person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, this world is very fair, seeing your words, I can feel that he is not the prince charming in your heart, you just met in an empty heart, you have not loved during this time, in your psychological side, you have already had the image of the most beloved, and he is the same, so you can be best friends between you, and you can listen to Lin Feng's --- love is not enough.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Well, many people above have said a lot, but although the result of the matter is not satisfactory, you still have to face and accept it, I hope you can find another boyfriend you like, find a better one.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Use your own efforts to tell her that giving up on you is the biggest failure in her life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The sense of security that a woman needs is not that a man will bring her any danger, but as a kind of considerate love that a man gives to a woman, she can trust and rely on, so that a woman feels that no matter what happens, as long as there is this man by her side, she does not have to worry, because I believe that this man will definitely protect her. Emotionally, it is important to be able to give your lover this sense of security, which is a kind of loyalty to your lover in marriage.

    A man with a sense of responsibility is worthy of a woman's life, can bravely take up the responsibility of the family, and can love his wife and children; Be filial and respectful to both parents; Bear all or most of the family's finances. Boys themselves should have a sense of family responsibility. It is also important to ask the boy what he thinks of you as good as a way to make him feel that he is with you.

    Because I like you and treat you well, it is all temporarily pretended, that is not reliable, and it is the most reliable to have a good quality.

    Therefore, the good quality is inherited from the previous generation and is the result of family education. A man who knows how to praise a woman's advantages and tolerate a woman's shortcomings is worthy of a woman's life, there is no perfect person in the world, it is not easy to find a person who understands yourself, and it is even more difficult to find a person who will appreciate you and understand you. Besides, I think that no matter who it is, as long as you choose him, you don't want to pick on other people's thorns.

    Like a person, not only like the advantages of others, but also to accept the shortcomings of others, if you can't even do this, then I think there is no need to be together at all, and continue to encourage him, praise him, so that people will have the motivation to do things, this kind of man really has to cherish.

    A warm-hearted and considerate man is worthy of a woman's life, such a man is very concerned about the details, although he is already very familiar, and the other party does not have the heartbeat of love, but he does care about you more than anyone else, when you are distressed, he will always stand on your side, patiently listen to you pour bitter water; When you're thirsty, he gently hands you tea.

    These are the people who silently convey his concern for you. Men, do you remember the days of the month when your lover did? It is said that women are made of water, very gentle, and very fragile.

    A man who knows how to take care of a woman will definitely have a very sweet and harmonious relationship between husband and wife. So such a man would be worth having.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    From your narrative, you know that your boyfriend is a man who sees things differently. Don't want such a man, no matter how deep your feelings are for him, he will not appreciate it, as long as he sees a good one, he will like the new and hate the old. So you have to leave him alone, abandon him, and let him taste the abandonment.

    Such a man is unreliable, and you must not get rid of him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend rekindled and rekindled you, his ex-girlfriend had a boyfriend before he rekindled, this is their European business, don't pay attention to them to be so irresponsible and tired to leave you, I think it's a good string, this is a scumbag, I always give up, I suggest that you stay away from him, don't contact him again, let him abandon you once, don't give up again, second, you must retain your dignity, cut off all contact with him, this is a scumbag.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This is the retribution for this kind of man who is abusive, he is not attentive, so she will have this phenomenon, so you don't want such a boyfriend, she will continue to abandon you.

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