There are more and more older leftover women, does it mean that the cost of marriage for leftover me

Although there are more and more older leftover women, it does not mean that the cost of marriage for leftover men will be reduced in the future, because these women regard marriage as very dull and do not want to get married at all.

The fact that there are more and more older leftover women does not mean that the cost of marriage for leftover men will be reduced in the future, because leftover women may not plan to get married.

I don't think so. Although there are more and more older leftover women, the criteria for choosing a mate for older leftover women have not been lowered at all.

There are more and more older leftover women, which does not mean that the cost of marriage for leftover men will be reduced in the future. The reason why leftover women do not get married is because of the high conditions, and many boys cannot meet their own requirements, so the cost of marriage for boys will be higher and higher.

Of course not. As a result, on the contrary, the cost of marriage for the remaining men will increase. Because these older leftover women are generally very good people, their marriage requirements are very high.

Of course not, in today's world, when the issue of buying a house, buying a car and bride price has become an inescapable problem, the cost of marriage will become higher and higher, and it is unlikely to be reduced.

No, older leftover women don't want to get married, and they don't want to marry those leftover men.

Don't want to get married without more than a million.

What are you thinking about in the early morning?

1. Fear of losing your freedom from now on.

In reality, there are many older leftover men who are like this, they feel carefree and free before they get married, but they are afraid that after they get married, they will be managed by their wives, children, and some trivial things in life. Therefore, when they want to do their own things, they do not have enough personal freedom, and they need to report to their wives to do anything, which will make their original life change greatly in the social circle of friends, so this is not the life they want.

2. No emotional experience.

A man's motivation for love is not love but sex. Driven by sex, men's understanding of love is often very different from that of girls. Especially when that person has good financial conditions, they will have more opportunities to squander the low-quality love provided by the girl, and enjoy it instead of investing in it.

After all, this is the innate nature of men, so men who are overly addicted to sex are more likely to lose themselves than women who are addicted to love, and some older young people do not have a little love experience, so they don't know what love is. Once a man is very slow and shy about love, he will turn his attention to other aspects, and over time, women and life will become a blank in his life.

3. Have a strong defensive mentality.

Human beings are very strange creatures, and the richer their experiences, they tend to want the other person to be more innocent. But, in fact, there are very few very simple women now. If you have money, you feel that girls are coming for your money, and if you don't have money, you are afraid that girls will mock you when you don't have money.

Therefore, little by little, he was repelled by his own defensive psychology, so that he would always get used to living without a woman, especially when his parents took care of his diet and daily life, this feeling would be magnified.

There are many factors for older men and women not to get married, such as the cost of marriage is too high, many people can't afford the RV bride price, followed by weak feelings and weak family concepts. There are also many cases of infidelity to feelings and families, which leads many people to dare not get married. There is also a lot of pressure in work and life, and there is no chance to fall in love and get married.

It's possible. None of them have been encountered. So that's all there is left. More and more. It's getting harder and harder.

I always feel that I will meet a better partnerSome people have not chosen marriage because they can't meet a partner who suits them, but because they always feel that they can meet a better partner. Sometimes, I met a person who was very good in all aspects, but I felt that I could be better, so I simply kept consuming it, which led to my old age. Men want women to be good enough, preferably white and rich, while women are more willing to fall in love with Gao Fushuai, and also ask the other party to pay sincere emotions and love only themselves.

The idea is very beautiful, but the reality is skinny and cruel, the more you are eager to meet a good partner, the easier it is to miss the moment that suits you, immersed in your dreams every day, and naturally can only fall into the stage of "older" leftover men and women. And once you enter the older stage, it will be even more difficult to meet the same person as before, and so on, it is likely that you will not be able to meet the person you like in this life. Their own conditions are very good, and there is a situation that is particularly realistic when they can't find a match, that is, their own conditions are too good, although they also want to find a suitable person, but most people feel that they are too good, so they can't come together, or they don't want to find a person worse than themselves, so they can't meet the right person.

This situation is still very common, or some people say that the more excellent people are, the more lonely and lonely, if life is the process of climbing mountains, the higher you stand, the fewer people around you, and then find the right one for yourself from these people, it is naturally more difficult.

One. Introducer's question.

1.This problem is also the problem of the elders, and it is very direct that most of the elders do not have a clear understanding of the real interests of the younger generations when they introduce them to the younger generations, but only match them according to the very superficial one, family conditions and personal income, in fact, most people lack understanding of the two parties he wants to introduce.

2.In addition, many elders are not seriously introduced, but spontaneously, and when they talk about gossip with relatives, neighbors and even colleagues, they arrange blind dates as they wish. You must know that even professional matchmakers may not do a good job in blind date introduction, and they are introduced at will, of course, the success rate is not high.

3.There is another point, sometimes the blind date introduced by the elders may be deliberately arranged to fail. In order to get married to their children, many elders have also put a lot of thought into the blind date.

In the conventional practice, I will deliberately find a few people who are not suitable or have lower conditions than the child's vision, let the child feel a round of frustration first, and then arrange them.

2.The introduce's question.

The young men and women who are introduced to the blind date actually have some problems themselves.

Many people are singled because they have problems, or even problems with the opposite sex.

Of course, there are many people whose own conditions are not very good, and they do not recognize their own situation, and they have too high requirements for others, and they can't look down on them everywhere.

In addition to the above two points, it is also very important that many young people are more exclusive to blind dates, and many still have expectations for themselves to find a partner, of course, there are also people who do not want to get off the list, and they will not succeed if they are forcibly arranged.

"Leftover women" refers to modern urban women, and most of them have high education, high income, and high IQ (referred to as "three highs"), and their appearance is impeccable.

It's not that hunger is very common.

In fact, the more backward the city is, the fewer people who are single