Please come in if you have been married, what should I do if my family is not satisfied with my part

...Is marriage based on good looks or is it good to be virtuous and filial to the elderly?No matter how good-looking a woman is, there are people who are old and yellow one day, but the filial elders can see that this person's family education, conduct, and beauties are almost the same, but there are very few filial, well-behaved and considerate women!!

If you love her and really want to marry her, then marry her, you are the one who wants to marry and live with her, and it is not anyone in your family or a neighbor of your family, oh You can eat and drink enough to look at a beautiful woman???Aren't you still going to buy her cosmetics, designer clothes, and serve like a grandson before and after?!

Love will confuse a person's eyes, first of all, you have to further understand, whether your family is just because her appearance is not very outstanding and snub her, if it is only because of this, then you can boldly go their way, ignore them, because you are going to live with her for the rest of your life, she is for you.

The main thing is whether you feel good about her.

As for your family, it's also for your good.

There are a lot of things like this now.

If you really love each other, then it doesn't matter what other people think.

When you get married, your parents will slowly accept her.

Whose parents don't want their children to find a good one?

I'm sticking with you. Make your own choices.

To see yourself and like yourself is to love at all costs.

Just believe in your own vision.

Category: Annoyances >> love.

Problem description: I have been a good girl since I was a child, and I am a sensible child in the eyes of everyone around me. I never thought that I would let my parents worry so much because of the marriage event, I was especially afraid that they would ask me what I thought when I was with my parents, because I knew their reaction, I also reached the age of talking about marriage, he was older than me, I didn't know if my persistence would be successful, so I told him that we couldn't.

Analysis: Consider your own and your parents' opinions, after all, your parents are also thinking about you, if you don't approve, there may be places that they think are not suitable for you, so are you surrounded by love now, and you haven't seen these clearly.

So communicate more with your parents to see what they really don't like about him, whether these things are important to you, and what you think.

I once loved a person whose parents did not agree with us being together, and finally listened to his parents' advice and gave up on him, at the time I was very incomprehensible and depressed, but after a few years, I now feel that my parents are right.

But everyone's specific situation is different, so you still have to think carefully and in the end, I wish you happiness!

When our parents are dissatisfied with their object, it is also a very normal situation, because the main reason is still not enough understanding, so we must change the parents' mind.

1. Meet in person

When our parents are not satisfied with our object, we can ask our parents to contact our other half in person to see what kind of person he is, maybe in such a process, our parents will change their minds, and even be very satisfied with their object. But the premise is that we also have to explain to our other half some things that our parents care about, as well as some behaviors that we care about, so that our other half can perform better.

2. Show your attitude

When our parents are not satisfied with their object, we must state our position and our own attitude, because for the current children's marriage, the vast majority of people's feelings are decided by their own children, and parents can only give advice for reference, so in such a situation, we must let our parents realize that they love their other half very much, so as to dispel the idea that parents want to end such a relationship.

The above points are some of my personal suggestions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that when you encounter such a situation, you must communicate with your parents attentively, and try to change some of your parents' ideas, because for the vast majority of parents, in fact, they hope that their children can find a good family, so we should also understand the intentions of parents, I hope that everyone can pay attention to it, and adopt such a concept, and then go to the specific implementation to see what the effect is. Then let's all adjust accordingly.

What the ancestors left behind is still reasonable, and it is rare to see a marriage that is not blessed by your parents and ends happily You can insist, however, if your parents really disagree, what choice will you make Anyway, I bless you, I hope you can grow old, I hope your persistence will finally win the consent of the old man.

1. Don't get married because you're older.

2. Don't marry someone you don't love.

3. Don't marry someone who doesn't love you.

Married life is bland, very bland, even more bland than you think. I suggest that you find true love before you talk about marriage, otherwise, a marriage without love will make you miserable.

If you want to live a better life in the future, you can choose to marry your current boyfriend, if you think you will be unhappy if you marry him, then you can do something happy, you don't have to go to love, you can also do something you like to do, I think modern girls should not only belong to marriage, think about yourself, be happy.

Some things are just things that come when you open your eyes and close your eyes on the past! ~

Forget it, don't do neither, go out for a walk by yourself, and then decide. Neither is the best destination for marriage.

Give up and find someone who loves you again!

A person who loves himself, a person who loves himself.

Love can't be forced

If you're really with someone you don't love

Then you won't be happy in this life

But if you are with the person you love, but the other person's heart is not in you, then will you really be happy and grow old happily after marriage?

If LZ doesn't mind, wait another year or two years old is not an old woman, marriage is a lifelong thing, think about it

I'm thirty years old, and I'm not in a hurry, so don't let yourself feel for yourself, and no one will take care of you.

Marriage is a major personal event, don't be paralyzed for a while, or you will regret it, you will still live with your wife in the future, or live with your parents, choose what you love, love you.

Choose the one who loves you, love can be love at first sight or long-term love. Love is not just talking, two people have been together for a long time, they are naturally inseparable, you don't like the introduction of the family, because you don't know him much, and your family also supports you to choose him, and the hesitant man Although you love him, but he can't give anything, once you are together, it may be a different look.

It's a lot of trouble, so just flip a coin and decide.