The first batch of post 90s is 30, and the marriage certificate doesn t need money, why are you stil

The development of modern society is very rapid, and people's thinking is also very advanced. In the minds of young people, it is not felt that a woman must marry once she reaches the age of marriage. Nowadays, there are many people who will feel that it is not necessary to get married so early, and there are also some young people who do not want to get married, and these people are collectively called unmarried.

Nowadays, China's population is growing rapidly, and the economic pressure is relatively large, so at the age of thirty, young people should work hard, and do not fall in love with the advanced, but devote all their energy to their careers.

Nowadays, the economy is developing very rapidly, and people's economic pressure is also increasing. Some people are reluctant to support themselves at the age of thirty, let alone start a family, so in the eyes of many people, they can push their marriage back, so that they can devote all their energy to their careers and have some achievements.

Many people have struggled for many years and can't even afford a down payment on a house, so the pressure on their young people is still very high, and there are more Chinese. The road to career is also very difficult, many young people are very good at school, but there is no corresponding job, because China is not short of talents. In addition, many domestic enterprises are more welcoming to some people like this, they will devote all their energy to their work, and it will also bring a lot of value to the state-owned enterprise industry.

All in all, with the development of society, although the economic situation is very developed, it also increases the employment pressure and economic pressure of young people. Therefore, many young people will choose to marry later or not to get married, and the contemporary trend does not encourage young people to marry early. In fact, getting married late is also a good plan, after all, the contemporary economic pressure is relatively large, and choosing not to get married can also reduce some of the marriage pressure on yourself.

The marriage certificate does not cost money, but the marriage costs money, the most important thing is that the house price is too high now, the bride price, patchwork can also be taken out, the house is not only a down payment, but also a monthly payment.

Newlyweds basically don't have much money in their hands, and if they don't have money, there will be more contradictions, and they won't be able to live well for a long time.

Simply. It will not be finished.

Whether the marriage certificate is or not is not the decisive factor for people to get married, after all, the marriage certificate only costs so many tens of dollars. And choosing a suitable person is a lifelong thing, so they will be very careful and careful to find it, and if they can't find it, they will look for it slowly, and they will not be in a hurry to get married.

Although the marriage certificate does not cost money, it costs a lot of money to get married. Nowadays, people will put on a lot of pomp when they get married, after all, once in a lifetime, they must earn enough face for themselves, which will bring a lot of pressure to both families.

Because marriage requires a house and a bride price, if you don't have a house, you basically can't get married, and you will be hurt emotionally in the end, so because of these pressures, or because you have seen through the pressure of life in the 80s, you are reluctant to get married.

Because the post-90s generation is still relatively independent, no matter what happens, there will be a detailed view, and today's young people prefer a stronger career, so they are reluctant to get married.

If I can live a good life, I don't think it's necessary to get married, but it will lower my standard of living.

Among the post-90s and post-00s, there are indeed many people who choose not to marry and have children. However, this does not mean that this will become mainstream. ......The reason why I say this is because marriage and childbirth are always the mainstream choices of young people, late marriage and late childbearing do not mean that there is no marriage and infertility, and real life will prompt young people to make the choice of marriage and children.

1. The concept of getting married and having children has always been the mainstream view in the minds of young people.

Although there are many young people who choose not to marry and have children, this does not mean that this is the mainstream choice of the post-95s and post-00s. ......In fact, among the post-95s and post-00s young people, the vast majority still choose to get married and have children, which is their mainstream choice. ......It's just that the behavior of those young people who choose not to marry and have children is too conspicuous, so it will give people the illusion that most young people choose not to marry and have children.

2. The young people born in the 95s and 00s choose to marry and have children later, which does not mean that they will not marry and have children.

For the post-95s and post-00s, most of them did choose to marry later and have ......children laterThis makes it true that there are not many young people born in the post-95s and post-00s who get married and have children. ......But we have to be clear that late marriage and late childbearing are by no means the same as not marrying and having children. Those post-95s and post-00s who choose to marry later and have children will eventually get married and have children, which is the mainstream choice of most people.

Those who really choose not to marry and have children are always in the minority.

3. Real life will prompt the post-95s and post-00s to make the choice of getting married and having children.

Among the post-95s and post-00s, there are indeed some people who have the idea of not marrying and having children at the beginning. ......But with the gradual enrichment of life experience, the minds of these people will change. ......Under the influence of their families, relatives and friends, and those around them, these post-95s and post-00s will gradually realize the necessity of getting married and having children, as well as the many benefits they bring to themselves, so that they will eventually change their minds and want to get married and have children.

It is precisely because of this reason that unmarried and infertile will never be the idea of post-95 and post-00 young people, and the vast majority of them will still choose to get married and have children.

According to the statistics of the civil affairs department, among the 100 million post-90s, only about 10 million couples choose to get married, and in addition, among these post-90s who are already married, the divorce rate is as high as 35%.

As we all know, the oldest post-90s generation has run for three, and the youngest post-90s generation is also 22 years old. In other words, the post-90s group has collectively reached the marriageable age, and according to normal logic, there should be 70 million to 80 million post-90 generations getting married.

Post-90s. Sociologists divide every 10 years after the Second World War into a phase, and the post-90s generation refers to the generation of Chinese citizens born between January 1, 1990 and December 31, 1999, and sometimes refers to all Chinese citizens born between 1990 and 2000.

When the post-90s generation was born, the reform and opening up had already shown obvious results, and it was also an era of rapid development of China's information. Therefore, the post-90s generation can be said to be the priority experiencers of the information age.

In the 90s, China implemented a strict family planning policy, and the post-90s generation was generally an only child. Due to the development and changes of the times, the ideas and concepts of the post-90s generation are very different from those of the older generation of Chinese.

It's not so much that they don't want to get married, but that they are escaping a sense of responsibility, because now many post-90s generations have slowly figured out that after getting married, they have their own family, which may mean that the pressure on them is even greater than now, because now their economic ability may not reach the kind of living standard they want, so they don't want to get married too much, and another is that this is mainly a psychological evasion of responsibility.

This situation also makes everyone gradually understand that they are just an evasion of responsibility in their hearts, and they are unwilling to let themselves be so tired.

Because these post-90s generations want to get married, they must buy a house, buy a car and earn a lot of money, because they are not rich in their wallets now, so they are unwilling to get married.

Many people choose not to get married, and that's because marriage is now a prison of feelings. Some people can't afford to tie the knot, and some people don't want to tie the knot. After all, there is no harm and no pain in a person.

Because the pressure of marriage is too great, now you have to pay a lot of bride price money for marriage. There is also the fact that today's housing prices are too high for the average young person to afford. Therefore, these people prefer not to get married.

As a result, it means responsibility, but also pressure, and life has become unfree, not that the post-90s generation has no sense of responsibility, but they live a more self-conscious life relatively speaking.

Because the pressure on people nowadays is too great, consumption is relatively high, and wages are relatively low, so many people can't afford it and would rather be single than get married.

The post-90s generation is also troubled by the times if they don't get married, it's too good, no one dares to match you. It's too bad to look down on you. Dilemma, I want to be better, but I can't, I don't want to, I'm so noble.

Because they feel that they will bring a lot of burden to themselves after getting married, it is better to live a little more comfortable on their own.