An elderly rural mother can t let go of her crops, how should she be persuaded as a child?

More and more rural people are getting older, and many are no longer able to grow crops in the fields.

Naturally, if there is no problem with the mother's health and there are not many crops in the field, please ask the old man to go. It's not an easy place to let go, but it's a busy place, a place where they work hard all their lives. The fear of poverty and hunger deepens the mind, not wanting to be idle, not wanting to be stupid, not burdening the children, and thinking that the children can still do it regardless of their level of wealth.

Kids share as much as they can.

If a family's land is less than one acre, it will follow the meaning of the elderly, exercise is a leisurely sport, and those who work in the countryside know that they can't grow old, but they can't do it every day. It's too busy, but it's good for the body. When working hard, there is no sudden movement.

Just like a high-speed machine, this may cause *** to your body.

They are not very old and will not be bored, after all, an old man is too idle, and having nothing to do is a very scary thing for them. If there is a lot of land in the family, the mother still insists on cultivating it. If you are older, enforcement measures should be taken.

After all, the age is older, but the mother is strong and doesn't say it, but the body doesn't deceive people. Years of hard work have not only left a face, but also a scared and bruised body after years of hard work.

Even if agricultural production was modernized, it was not necessary to plow and harvest food, but spraying, fertilizing, and watering were done by individuals, especially spraying.

For example, simply and unequivocally tell your mother that the family's current household income is enough to live without subsidies. You don't have to worry about no farming. Why is she still cultivating the land?

Aren't you afraid that your child's life will be bad? When you grow up, you should not worry about the elderly and make them comfortable.

As children, we should let the elderly not worry about themselves and let the elderly live a good life.

Just let him do it, but let him pay attention to his body, and then don't get too tired and buy her something.

I think that if you are a child, you should persuade him to enjoy the blessings, and then tell him that he has enough money and does not need to take care of the crops anymore.

Let's just say that now that life has changed for the better, just grow some food, and don't have to work too hard.

I think I can give this land to someone else to farm, and then it will be solved.

The children should tell him that when he is older, he should stop doing these little things. Retire with peace of mind.

As a child, I think you can let him plant crops, but not too much.

I think if he really can't let go, don't persuade him, because then he's happier.

I think that for such a matter, it is still necessary to make a reasonable solution according to the actual situation of the parties.

I think it's better to use your own body energy, and if your body collapses, it's worse than if the crops go bad.

I think I still have to take my mother to enjoy Qingfu, or I still have to bring my mother to live together.

I think most of the middle-aged women and mothers over 30 years old in rural areas. They can also play to their strengths, because there are a lot of domestic service industries in the city now. There is a shortage of people. They have a certain amount of training and are well adapted to these jobs in the future.

How moms over 30 have no earning power.

In the cough of the contagion, anyway don't go out today to make money.

It's better to enjoy yourself at home.

It should be that the idle mother nagged you, and you were annoyed by the idle mother, right? When you become a mother, you will know, if you don't raise children, you don't know the kindness of your parents, the meaning of this sentence, and when you give birth to a child, you will feel that it is not easy for your mother

The following answer is something irrelevant shit, if you want to say that I am so old and still fight, ignore her, don't go home once, look at her, your mother is really not human, she actually scolded her daughter bitch, then your mother didn't scold herself in disguise, it's really sad to have this kind of mother, I feel sorry for you.

Understand, you can understand You at least have a father who is good to you, my mother will not be as angry as your mother, my mother is muttering in her heart, imposing what she thinks is good on me, and I have to endure it if I don't like it.

The more I grow up, the more I feel that I don't know my mother since I was a child, in fact, she doesn't seek to be motivated, boasts, bullies the weak, looks down on all kinds of people who are stronger than her, and is really not good at character, and I am stingy and reluctant to spend money, and I value money more than anything else. I've often been angry with her since I was a child, and my only wish when I grew up was to stay away from her, but she pretended to be pitiful, and she lost her temper all day long, and finally she couldn't let go of it and came back to accompany her, but she was killed to death, and the whole person was wasted.

Her subtext is to remind you that it's time to leave home and live on your own. Everyone has their own path, and walking separately should not affect others.

I also hate it, my mother is observing me all the time to observe my ** can scold, usually I hate to talk to her, because she can't say anything other than education and scolding.

Like your feelings, more and more disgusted with her, the word mother is indeed great, but some people are biological mothers, but also because of reproduction or the worldly tiredness to become mothers, in the heart of the heart but not grow into a mother, treat young children do whatever they want, selfish and self-willful, to old age with the word filial piety to moral kidnapping is still straightforward, I really don't know the heart is empty, I don't know where the confidence comes from. This is what many parents look like, but as children in this kind of society that emphasizes feeding, they can only forbear, as if pointing out how rebellious their parents' inappropriateness is, hey, moral kidnapping is too serious, you can only learn to love yourself, and then love them appropriately.

The body is skinned, and it is received by the parents. No matter what, it's also a parent who raised himself from childhood to adulthood.

The older you are, the more you must understand what love is, what filial piety is, and what responsibility is.

It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs, what do others say!

Sometimes it's so sad to talk! Alas.

My experience with yours is too similar, too similar.

Menopause, his mother let him order.

Come and beat me, humiliate me, come to violence and hate me.

The 67-year-old pregnant woman is from Zaozhuang, Shandong, after the opening of the two-child policy, the two elderly people conceived naturally and gave birth to the youngest daughter at the age of 67, named Tianci. Symbolizing the gift of God, they already had a daughter and a son before they became pregnant, and their granddaughter was already in high school. After knowing that her parents were pregnant at an advanced age, the eldest daughter had threatened to sever the father-daughter relationship, and after the child was born, because of the maternal relationship, the eldest daughter now loves her young sister very much, and often posts her sister's daily life on major platforms.

Why did the eldest daughter break off the father-daughter relationship after knowing that her mother was pregnant at an advanced age?

It is extremely dangerous for a woman to have a child, and no matter how good the measures are, the danger to women cannot be reduced. When I learned that my mother was pregnant again at the age of 67, I thought that the first thing I worried about as a daughter was the health of my parents. Older mothers are prone to various complications after pregnancy, which is a great test for both mothers and fathers.

So the daughter's first thought was not to let her parents take any more risks to give birth to this sister who is dozens of years old.

The incident of parents suing their daughter and asking for support for their two-year-old brother who was hotly searched not long ago also made people feel very uncomfortable. The 22-year-old girl was just beginning to take responsibility for her life when she received a court summons, and the plaintiff was her parents. The reason is that after giving birth at an advanced age, she cannot afford to raise her young son, so she asks her 22-year-old sister to take on the obligation to support her.

To put it bluntly, the parents directly ruined the girl's life, the younger brother was two years old, the elder sister relied on part-time work to make a living, and the parents were unable to raise it. In other words, the 22-year-old sister has to raise her younger brother until adulthood, nearly 16 years. How can an unmarried girl who has no stable economy pay for her younger brother's food, drink, Lazar and schooling.

Even if the elder sister grits her teeth and persists, when the younger brother becomes an adult, the elder sister is 38 years old, who will be responsible for her life.

There are lessons ahead, so this eldest daughter is very opposed to her parents giving birth to a younger sister at an advanced age. Fortunately, both of them have a stable financial **, and raising their youngest daughter is basically not a problem. And the two children in front of him are married, and the children can leave people, so the pressure is not too great.

How can a mother communicate with her child if she wants a second child?

First of all, we must communicate with Dabao and build Dabao's psychology completely. Many people think that I will give birth to children, and this truth is not wrong. But no matter how unwilling Dabao is, if you give birth to Erbao, you will find that many unexpected things will happen at home.

Even in serious cases, it will harm Dabao's physical and mental health.

Secondly, considering your own economic situation, the cost of having and raising children is much higher than before. Instead of winning in quantity, it is better to improve efficiency in quality. It is better not to give birth without raising, or if you do not raise it well, it is better not to give birth, otherwise it will become a burden to others and society.

The last is your own physical condition, on the premise of already having children, don't force the two or three treasures, don't exchange the arrival of one life for the death of another, so that the arrival of the child is not joy, but fright.

I want to make my point of view - even if you succeed in persuading your parents not to divorce, or if they don't divorce for you, do you want them to continue this cold war? What did they divorce for? They want to make life better again, for you, for themselves.

If you can use your good ideas to help them regain their relationship, calm down the family, and slowly design some good situations to warm up the relationship, they will forget about the divorce. I will continue to be busy for this family. We don't want our parents to quarrel, cold war, divorce and even more reluctant.

They don't want to, either.

Why didn't they say they wanted to divorce for so long in the Cold War, that is, they all felt that it could be saved, and this family should not be separated. Your dad can't let go of it, and your mom goes back to her hometown to hide from your aunt's scolding, but she still doesn't want to completely turn her face, and there is no way out, so she can only divorce. (I think your aunt is adding fuel to the fire, the husband and wife's affairs, outsiders should not participate, let alone persuade and not persuade to leave, why should your aunt scold your mother, she has no position to do this, this kind of person is more than a failure.)

You love your parents, and your parents love you, so why don't we do our best to help them ease the relationship and reunite? With your care and love, help our parents find their love and make this home warm. Mom and Dad need you to build a bridge now, and you have to do your best to rescue them.

They are also trying to find a way, the Cold War is actually about the other party, and they don't want the relationship to decline further, and they are trying to find ways to remedy it while maintaining this difficult state. You have to make them think of each other's goodness, when eating, when watching TV together, when they are alone with their parents, let them think of the scene of harmony at home in the past. (For example, at the time of eating, just say – will Mom and Dad make this dish?)

It's so dull today, huh? --At this time, they should be reminded of the taste of this dish in the past, and when they look back at the present, they will feel emotional. On other occasions, try to awaken their previous feelings.

You have to think with your heart and try your best to design surprises – to make the other person think that the relationship is still there. During the Chinese New Year, when you go shopping alone with your parents, pick up something for your parents, by the way, "Dad (Mom), buy a gift for Mom (Dad), it's the New Year", if they hesitate to buy it, it's better, and they still have each other in their hearts; If you don't buy it, you buy it, and when you get home, give it to your father or mother, and say, "Dad (mother) bought it for you by the way, it's the New Year, there's a new thing." You can think of other ways to adapt to the situation, if we can do it.

Divorce is the last powerless way. No one wants to get to that point, you have to believe it! I wish your parents good luck and a happy family!

A year and a half in the Cold War? If the feelings are really gone, yes, for sure.

Divorced (but it is very likely that it is because of you, so the cold war does not divorce) You have to test your parents first, to see if they are not divorced because of you If not, I think they still have a greater hope If so, then you should let your parents divorce After all, the relationship cannot be forced It is possible to divorce your parents and your parents will be liberated.

If you have been in the Cold War for half of the year, you should have left a long time ago, and your relationship has long been gone, and it is estimated that it is because of the child.

If you really don't have feelings and are not suitable for living together, maybe divorce is a good choice.

Everyone has a life that suits them, and even as a child, parents cannot be allowed to live in pain for themselves.

Marriage without feelings is immoral – that's not what I'm saying. Parents need help from all sides – including you – for their relationship to get back together. Be sober and analyze the possibilities.

If your parents really can't reunite and let them all live better, is that okay? Be strong, kid.

An emotionless marriage is painful, and you will have your own life when you grow up. Life is very short, don't let your parents be wronged because of yourself!