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When others make suggestions that are different from their own, should they listen to their opinions or stick to their own self-absorption? <>
I think the first thing you need to do is to discern whether the advice given by others is kind enough to help you, and then you need to see if the advice is appropriate for you.
The ancients said that if you listen to both, it will be bright, and if you listen to it, it will be dark. There is a similar interpretation that says that the opinions of others need to be listened to benefactorily and the bad ones should be discarded. Regardless of the opinion, it is necessary to distinguish between the good and the bad before making a decision.
How to tell? Everyone will have selfish intentions, because in the situation of being in the play, it is difficult to be fair to distinguish between good and bad. The best way is to think about your current situation first, and then look at the suggestions that are beneficial to you and suitable for the current situation.
If we are faced with too many people with opinions, and it is impossible for each opinion to be thought and thought about, we will not be willing to distinguish whether so many opinions are appropriate. At this time, we need to see whether the opinions of our seniors who are more experienced than ourselves are suitable for us. <>
Because most of the opinions that most people talk about, most of us can think of when we calm down ourselves. Since I could have figured it out myself, I don't think I need to waste time listening to others say something similar.
Only people who are better than themselves can calm down and listen to the opinions of the other party sincerely when I have many opinions in front of them. Only when someone more experienced than myself gives me an opinion, can I really have the patience to discern it.
Only when I appreciate and even worship people who are better than me, can I listen to their advice as carefully as I do with teachers. It is only when I look at people who are more experienced than myself that I feel that the opinions put forward by the other party can get to the point. <>
Some people feel that they are very good at the pride and praise the opinions they can think of. So, I've met someone who proudly tells his opinion and stubbornly hopes that I can do it. But not so long ago, I had already thought about it, and I dismissed it because it didn't suit my situation at the time.
Therefore, when I heard the other party's opinion, I rejected him directly. But he thought I was stubborn, and he turned around and accused me of being too conceited, and I was afraid that I would fall on my head. While saying that my current ideas are not advisable, I have to act according to his opinions, and I am sure that I can succeed if I only need his opinions.
In the face of such a person, I tell the truth, he does not listen, and I feel that people are greedy for the opinions he puts forward in name. In the face of such a person, I can only prevaricate perfunctorily, do not say or persuade, and forget about it. This kind of arrogant person, what they say is usually bells and whistles, flashy, and it is not advisable to argue about right and wrong or to persuade him with the truth, and only to filter their information is the best way.
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You should still listen to the opinions of others, but in the end, you have to make decisions on your own.
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I think it is necessary to listen to the opinions of others, because after all, the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear, and by listening to the opinions of others, we can correct ourselves.
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I think you should listen to the opinions of others, only by knowing how to listen to the opinions of others, you can make progress, you can hear different voices, so that you can have a more correct understanding of yourself, and you can be more thoughtful when dealing with people.
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In real life, there are indeed people who are complacent, self-righteous, impetuous, arrogant, and unwilling to listen to other people's opinions to correct their mistakes, but not all people, there are many people who are modest and low-key.
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There are those who know their mistakes and correct them, and there are those who admit their mistakes when they know them, but there are just fewer of them, and you can't kill a boatload of people with a stick at any time.
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Scholars' strengths and weaknesses are complemented. Talent and continuous progress.
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If your opinion is correct, there must be, but certainly not everyone will change it if they have an opinion, and you don't need to care so much.
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It's normal that no one thinks they're wrong.
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No, it is not enough to teach the snake.
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So to speak. Not enough training[pinyin] [bù zú wéi xùn].
[Paraphrasing] cannot be taken as a model or a rule. Discipline: Guidelines.
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From a development perspective, a setback is not a bad thing. As long as it doesn't cost too much. The process of growth is a process of continuous successes and setbacks.
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I feel like I can, a little bit blindly confident. This kind of person is a bit selfish and arrogant, thinking about things and doing things with himself as the center. Think that others are not good enough, and you are right.
Even if you are sometimes frustrated, you will still think that the key to your fault is not yourself ... Don't make big mistakes, and don't reflect on yourself easily.
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Conceited. Self. Stubborn. But it's also good, dare to act, easy to fail and easy to succeed. If you choose the right industry, you will definitely succeed.
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When the time is ripe to listen to your core ideas, there may be changes.
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The character is a little strong, but the heart should be more fragile.
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To be strong, but such a person can become a certain climate!
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You're okay, but I'm pretending to be forced to fail.
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Yasaki, I don't know what you're watching this talent show?
Look at the face?Do you want to sell cute?Do you watch the crying and crying storytelling performance?I want to see a young lady with skills, talent, and level.
When did we start to dislike "real skills"?In fact, when the girl group dances, Yasaki is holding on to her strength, otherwise with the strength, amplitude, rhythm, and rhythm of her movements, who else can compare with the audience?You can go to station b to search, this little girl's usual practice and street performances, compared with most people on the stage of "Youth with You", people are professional, hardworking, full of talent and desire to perform.
Some people blame her for being "ambitious" and "too confident", and I am surprised, people have the ability and level, why can't they be ambitious?Why can't you hold your head high?Do you have to learn some crying and crying, talking about growth, talking about giving, and selling bitter love dramas that rely on one face?
I like Anqi's style of speaking, qnmd, people are here to sing and dance, what kind of pea princess is pretending?
An Qi is not a traditional beauty, but she is not ugly, she is just a little shorter, and she sings and dances, very much like Jolin Tsai.
Yasaki's ranking has fallen again and again, it's not that she can't do it, it's that she really doesn't have many fans, many people watch entertainment shows, not to see talents, they all swarm to see their YY's "girlfriend" and "daughter", playing character development games. An Qi, a girl who doesn't hype, doesn't tell stories, and doesn't show her pitiful side, can't attract most of the support. So, do you want to see the Korean meat girl group replicated in China?
Who is good-looking, who has more stories, who has a lot of traffic, who is awesome?
I have always hoped that Chinese women, female stars, and female artists will "attack" a little bit, be stronger, don't pretend to be a cowardly little fairy all day long, show their own skills, and chase their dreams with confidence;I hope everyone chases stars, but also those stars who have real skills, don't just chase a face, the face will be bad, and art will be immortal.
China's pop culture and entertainment industry has been sick for too long, and we need something strong and down-to-earth.
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People who usually compare themselves have the advantage of being assertive and less at the mercy of others, and the disadvantage is that they are self-righteous and cannot listen to the good advice of others. I don't think it's good or bad, but it still depends on the actual situation, if you only do everything according to your own ideas, it is easy for people to think that you are too arrogant and not easy to get along with people. It is recommended that when you encounter someone who gives you an opinion, you should think rationally about whether the other person's words are reasonable, and if so, you should still listen.
After all, the people who are willing to say you are the ones who care about you.
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It's not good, it has a certain impact on your social circle, change it, listen to the opinions of others appropriately, and there is a difference between being arbitrary and assertive.
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You can listen to other people's opinions and suggestions, but you must learn to make correct judgments, after all, it is you who make the decision.
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Believing in yourself is good, while believing in yourself, you must also learn to analyze, but also try to listen to the opinions of others, listen to the correct opinions, learn from each other's strengths, don't blame yourself too much, believe in yourself!
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Ego is not a disadvantage. Sticking to one's own point is not a disadvantage. But you don't listen to other people's opinions is a disadvantage. We should listen to other people's opinions, and we should listen to a lot of opinions, especially now that the Internet is developed, all kinds of opinions can be found, and then decide whether to stick to our own opinions.
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It's a matter of character, and that's okay, people with this kind of personality always need to break through and learn lessons on their own to be successful.
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It's not good, and you still have to listen to other people's good advice. After all, people are not saints and sages, and they will always learn something by listening.
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The big guys are like you, taking a different path from others. The key is to reflect on whether what you are doing is right, and in the unforeseeable future, you can analyze the opinions of others and make your own choices!
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It can't be said to be bad, so look at where it is used, follow your own ideas and not be influenced by others, this is assertive, but most of the time this is also a disadvantage, it's good to listen to other people's opinions and suggestions, and the final decision is not still in your own hands, which will also help you in all aspects of your interpersonal relationships.
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Bad or not bad depends on whether your ideas are correct or not, I am a very opinionated person, but at the same time I like to listen to people's advice, and finally make up my mind which method is better.
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If it's emotionally like this, it's a big problem.
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I'm similar to you, this is a bad habit, I have to change, communicate with relatives and friends more before doing things, and I suffered a big loss because of my own character.
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Not necessarily, it depends on your understanding of things.
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Yes, it's good to listen to other people's advice.
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It's okay, it's not right to listen to other people's opinions more either.
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In fact, self-introduction is mainly to test the candidate's language expression ability and logical organization ability, and you need to make corresponding preparations before the interview, so as to express yourself fluently during the interview and gain the appreciation of the examiner. In terms of content, the personality strengths of the individual, learning, communication, collaboration skills, and a positive attitude towards life and work are almost the same, and the key is to organize the language well.
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Why not be your own boss? You won't be nervous when you're your boss.
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The main thing is to calm down, don't be nervous, and treat it with a normal heart.
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Just say what you said in your first interview.
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There's no skill in saying anything, and it's important to speak clearly during the interview.
The logical order should be reasonable.
A good mom for a show? Cecilia Cheung has a lot of lies in any show. What supper the more you eat, the more **; 20 to 24 hours of work for three consecutive months; What hangs Weiya for more than ten hours; What sleeps for 16 days and doesn't wake up, what never eats meat but is very good at stir-frying meat, cooks two different dishes for his son every day, and is asked what his son likes to eat, Zhang's mother can't lie, one loves white rice, one loves hamburger......In short, all kinds of characters that Zhang's mother needs, the acting is too hot, and the characters collapse, so there are still Zhang Shuicha who desperately helps her lie for money, but Cecilia Cheung's IQEQ is not **, and she can only wash it more and more dirty.
It's not completely collapsed, today I talked to my roommate about him and Li Yutong, my roommate almost quarreled with me, in the fan psychology, no matter what happens to the idol, they all support the idol, and they will feel that there is a hidden secret.
Lu Han has never set up any character for himself, it is all imposed by others, Lu Han works hard in the direction he wants, but he does not follow the fantasies of some glass-hearted fans, and then some fans turn black and even step back, so that people feel that Lu Han's character has collapsed, but if you think about it, his character has never changed, and he lives openly and thoroughly.
Speaking of Yu Qian, it can be said that everyone knows it in the cross talk world, and the reason why Yu Qian is the most difficult star to collapse is because he has three hobbies in his life, smoking, drinking, and burning his head, and he doesn't have any emotional lace to talk about, so naturally no one has to talk about the collapse. And he's just a joke, unless his cross talk skills are fake, so how can his character collapse? >>>More
Because the force is too strong. People who work hard are respectable, but if they always hype up their efforts, they are a bit too hard, because who doesn't work hard in the entertainment industry.