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In my life, the four most heart-wrenching words I have ever heard are "don't worry about you", these four words seem simple, but they draw a clear line between you and him, so these four words are like a knife in my heart, which makes me very painful. <>
When you care about someone very much, if he tells you that you don't care, you will feel that your sincerity feeds the white-eyed wolf, and you will also feel that she is not worthy of your sincere efforts, so the relationship between the two of you will become worse and worse, and even part ways. I think when a person says to you that you don't care, you must not be important in his mind, because he doesn't care about your mood or your thoughts, he will only find you annoying. Every word of concern you say is in his eyes the cause of his irritability, so you slowly find that in front of him, you don't dare to speak anymore because you are afraid of making him irritable, because you are afraid that he will leave you.
He said these four words to me when I was with my boyfriend before, and I thought he didn't like me anymore, but I still had expectations for him, because we were very sweet when we were together. I've been using the sweetness of the past to ** the current injury, and later I learned that I didn't like it anymore, because I didn't like it, so I wouldn't care about your emotions, and because I didn't like it, I wouldn't care about your concern. Never surround yourself with someone who doesn't like you, because it's only yourself who will hurt you in the end.
What you say doesn't matter to him, but what he says makes you sad. <>
I think the most we say to our parents is that we don't care about it, maybe I didn't think it was anything when I said this to my parents at the time, but later when others said this to us, we realized that this sentence was so hurtful. Don't care about these four words, don't say it to a person easily, don't hurt a person's sincerity, because there are not many people who really care about you and love you, so you have to protect these people.
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You're too weak. My personality is relatively easy to have low self-esteem, and when I was young, someone said these four words to me, which made me sad for a long time.
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In my life, the four most heart-wrenching words I have ever heard are to break up, how eager and hopeful he should be to break up with me, these four words came out of his mouth more than once, the kind of premeditated words caught me off guard, and the mentality at that time was that I was so bad that you prayed for a breakup!
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It's when I'm with my ex, my ex says "I don't love you", these four words are the four words that make me feel the most heartbroken.
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The 4 most heart-wrenching words I've ever heard are that I don't love you, because it makes me feel very desperate.
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You can't do it, that's what I think is the most heart-wrenching.
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The more I learned about the university, the more I began to understand why this once quiet and intellectually rich ivory tower became more and more strange. The impetuous atmosphere of profit-seeking in business pervades the entire campus, and the connection between academics and business and the deformity of the evaluation of teachers' professional titles make more and more teachers on college campuses not pay attention to teaching and are busy with their own projects and publishing**. Because of the **, with the project, there will be a title and money, a house, a car and a variety of reputations, where does such a teacher have time to teach and solve doubts?
But on college campuses nowadays, there are basically teachers like this. Because the "ideal" teacher is destined to be "eliminated" by reality. I don't know about other schools, but Yi Zhongtian, who is famous in the country, was excluded because of his unique personality and unwillingness to be vulgar when he was at Wuhan University, and left Xiamen University.
Our primary, secondary and even university education is teaching students to constantly take exams and pay attention to test scores, however, can doing so many test papers, taking so many exams, and getting a bachelor's, master's, and doctoral diploma solve the problems of life and happiness? Looking at the current face of college students, how many people are just mixing up a diploma, and still deceive themselves into thinking: this diploma will bring them a good job and money, is it possible?
Why do so many students who have passed the college entrance examination lose the vigor and vitality that young people should have when they enter the university? Why are they addicted to online games and spending their most precious years in boredom? Why do so many people find a job and stay at home and become "gnawing the elderly"?
And after work, many people become "moonshine people"? We all have to go into society in the end, we have to face life and survival independently in the end, we all have to be parents in the end, we have to support our parents in the end, the real issues related to our happiness in life, such as how to strengthen the body, how to plan the direction of life, how to deal with marriage problems, how to educate children, our education to pay attention to or inspire us to think about these issues? Is our education about cultivating a bunch of exam-taking machines in schools, and then coming out to be a working machine?
Is it old to become a dead waste?
Nowadays, many people in our society are blindly pursuing money as the highest goal in life, from the real estate developers we hate to the current hospitals, from teachers to milk powder sellers, many people have forgotten the professional ethics of their own work and blindly worship money. The wealthy, who lack culture and responsibility, bring higher and higher transaction costs and more and more harm to our society. Did we ever know that the wages of cleaners in the United States can reach 50,000 or 60,000 yuan a year, but their houses only need about 300,000 dollars?
However, the common people in our country need to spend two or even three generations of savings to buy a house, just because some people have a conscience to grab high profits, and how many college students will face this serious life event as soon as they graduate, is the house really worth so much money?
。。It seems to be a bit too much.,I've been out of school for 2 years.,I'm currently raising money to buy a house.,University,Reality,Life.,I'm powerless of these.,Down.。。。
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As a person who has come over, I will tell you the truth! Don't be like everyone else, playing games in your dorm every day. How much to learn something, ability is always more convincing than academic qualifications!
Arrange you to a position, you have a bachelor's degree, and you don't have the ability to fart. When the time comes, it's still you who will make the difficulty, so learn something! If you have feelings, you can talk about it.
Otherwise, the four years of college are very lonely, if you think you have found the right person. Then it's all in one piece! If you think your partner is just having fun, don't get too involved!
Save yourself from injury! Most heartfelt advice!
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Actually, I only had three years in college, and I had half a year of internship. Life is free, but it can also be decadent, and it is all in personal cultivation. It would be interesting to organize your life rationally.
Learning, is more water... When I was an intern, I felt that there were very few things I could use in college, and maybe the role of the university was to provide a diploma. . . Feelings, making more friends in college, boyfriend and girlfriend.
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I found that what I learned in college was not very useful, and the most important thing was to have a skill.
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College has just begun, and I don't have much to talk about for the time being, I just feel bored. Any good suggestions?
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First of all, it is necessary to clarify what medical psychology specifically studied, and then we can learn something, apply what we have learned, and clarify what can be transferred and applied in life and emotion.
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It doesn't help much, unless you want to engage in psychology majors, such as psychological counselors, Zhongyu Educational Psychological Counselor Training, 100% passed, nationally recognized.
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