Qin Lan is facing people who are urging marriage and giving birth and have a low sense of self worth

For many people, they always feel that their sense of existence is very low in life, and they always find that they are not as worthy as others and have a very low sense of worth, but for this situation, we should have a correct understanding of ourselves and not care too much about the evaluation of othersYou should encourage yourself from the heart, in fact, you are very valuable, and you must recognize your strengths, and amplify your own charm. <>

I don't know when people nowadays pay more and more attention to other people's opinions, and always live as others want. Many people feel that their sense of self-existence and value is very low, but this is caused by their low sense of self-worth and self-awareness, and they always care about the feelings of others and give up. A concept of self-awareness.

So, if we want to change this kind of thinking, we have to know ourselves from the roots. Ignoring the evaluations and feelings of others, let yourself be in a very free and free state, correctly understand yourself, be good at discovering your strengths and advantages, andAmplify these advantages and strengths infinitely, cover our shortcomings, so that you can have certain achievements in a field, or climb to a certain height, then you will feel that your sense of value is bursting. <>

Don't care too much about other people's feelings in life, we should put ourselves in a very free and easy and self-aware state. First of all, self-confidence is very important, and many people feel that their sense of self-worth is low because they are not confident enough in themselves, or they are not strong enough in their hearts, and they always care about what others thinkTherefore, at this time, we must block out the outside world's perception of us, make ourselves strong inside, and actively integrate into the society's extensive communicationIn this way, you will find that your sense of worth is still relatively high. <>

If we want to change the idea of low self-worth, we need to make ourselves strong and confident.

People with a low sense of self-worth must maintain a good attitude, don't put too much pressure on themselves, and believe that they must be the best, only in this way can they save themselves.

You should have some confidence in yourself and feel good about yourself. In this way, you can better save yourself.

I think I must keep telling myself in my heart that I am a valuable person and that I am in charge of my own life.

You should encourage yourself more, build up your confidence, work hard to learn new things, and make yourself stronger.

Reading more in life, increasing self-confidence, and paying attention to the improvement of self-cultivation can give others a different understanding.

I think if a person's self-worth is relatively low, it is most likely because they are not confident, so at this time, you must try to become confident.

If you want to save yourself, you must improve your self-worth, not be at the mercy of others, and live your own life, so that you can have the opportunity to save yourself.

That is to enhance our sense of self-worth, so that we can become a person who is valuable to society and others, and at the same time to create our own value.

41-year-old Qin Lan is domineering in the face of marriage urging, and I personally don't think it will collapse, and the reason why I don't think it will collapse is mainly because Qin Lan's statement is the voice of most women. Especially nowadays, women have a new understanding of marriage, and do not think that the value of women must be reflected in marriage and family. How many women do not feel happy even if they are married, but are trapped by their children and families, and can only persevere, wronged.

It can be said that Qin Lan strongly replied to the marriage urgers this time, not only women with the same point of view will support Qin Lan, but some women who feel unhappy in their marriages will also support Qin Lan, in addition. Some career-oriented women will also support Qin Lan, Qin Lan has so many people to support, how can her personality collapse? It can be said that Qin Lan can be regarded as retiring from the entertainment industry, but she didn't expect Qin Lan to be passively pushed to the hot search this time.

The domineering 41-year-old Qin Lan replied domineeringly in the face of urging marriage: My uterus is not used, what does it matter to you? When faced with the matter of being urged to marry and give birth, the seemingly gentle Qin Lan replied domineeringly with such words to her face, which was simply saying the voice of most women.

A woman does not live only to get married and have children. Some people say that if you don't want to get married, you don't want to be responsible, but getting married for the sake of getting married is really responsible? In fact, if a person only marries for the sake of getting married, and gives birth to a child for the sake of having children, it is the biggest irresponsibility for a marriage.

Netizens hotly discussed Qin Lan's domineering reply this time, and it seemed that the tone was very impolite, but Qin Lan did not suffer from the bad comments of netizens, which was unprecedented and unexpected. The main reason for this situation is that women have awakened and no longer feel that marriage must be the only thing that affirms their existence, but pay more attention to their own development, and pay more attention to their hobbies and careers. In terms of love, it is better to lack than to indiscriminate, and it doesn't matter if you don't meet a lover and don't marry in your life.

The 41-year-old Qin Lan is facing a domineering reply in the face of marriage urging, and her personality has not collapsed, maybe Qin Lan doesn't care if she is a person or not!

Of course not, there are very few people who dare to say this in the entertainment industry now, so not only will she not collapse, but many people will be attracted by her words.

It shouldn't be, she was originally a very domineering person, soft on the outside and rigid on the inside, I like her character very much.

Of course not. I think this kind of Qin Lan is very real, and very free, and this kind of behavior will make me like her more.

In the entertainment industry, there are many older female stars who are still not married. As the saying goes: "The emperor is not in a hurry, and the eunuchs are in a hurry", the female stars themselves are not in a hurry, but there are a group of netizens who are "anxious" for them.

For such a domineering reply, I personally feel very relieved, and I also think that Qin Lan's approach is very correct. We should give these open-mouthed people a profound lesson and let them restrain their words and deeds.

I personally have the following opinions on this matter:

1. Qin Lan's approach is very correct, and he said: "People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden." In the process of getting along with people; Many times, the more we tolerate, the more others think we are easy to bully, and they always want to bully us.

I think if Qin Lan continues to tolerate such unfriendly marriage urging remarks, maybe there will be more outrageous remarks in the future.

Now that Qin Lan has replied to this netizen in a timely manner, I think it will not only make the netizen feel ashamed; For other netizens who like to "worry", there is also a deterrent effect, so that they dare not talk nonsense.

Second, the words and deeds of netizens are inappropriate, whether it is celebrities or ordinary people around us. Everyone has their own living habits, as well as their own ideas and rules of conduct.

We can't use our own standards to demand from everyone; It is also impossible to base one's own happiness on the pain of others.

Therefore, this netizen's inappropriate remarks were rebuked by Qin Lan's domineering. It can be said that this whole process is a pit dug for yourself.

After being scolded, there is no way to fight back, and you can only silently bear the bitter fruits you have planted.

Based on the above narrative, it seems that Qin Lan directly replied to netizens with domineering words when facing the marriage urging. I think this approach is very relieving, and it can also play a role in "killing a hundred people".

In the face of the constant urging to marry and give birth, Qin Lan replied domineeringly: "What does it matter to you whether my uterus is used or not?" "I think what he said is very right, everyone has the right to choose their own life, whether it is marriage or having children, it is up to her to decide, and others have no right to interfere.

She responded that women are not reproductive machines and that they have plenty of options. I think she's right, women shouldn't be kidnapped by gender.

She said that her uterus couldn't help, which was indeed a bit direct, but made clear one of her attitudes.

In fact, she is saying that her uterus is in charge of herself, and she doesn't care about the opinions of the outside world, and people live for themselves.

Qin Lan is over forty years old but still hasn't stepped into marriage, and in the face of the pressure of urging marriage from the outside world, she responded diligently and domineeringly, "If my uterus is not used, what does it matter to you", I have two opinions on this.

1. Marriage is ultimately their own business, and everyone has the right to choose freely. Qin Lan has debuted for many years, although the resources are good, but it has been tepid in the early days, and this time she became popular through the role of Queen Fucha in "Yanxi Raiders". Qin Lan is relatively independent, and she also has plans and ideas for her career and her own feelings, marriage is still her own business after all, and it is currently a hard-working ** period, because it is on the rise, everyone has the right to choose freely for marriage.

Assuming that Qin Lan chooses not to get married, she still shouldn't be talked about by the public, celebrities are indeed public figures, but they don't need to confess everything to the outside world. As long as the star has a good role, then he can choose to keep his private life secret, and in the face of the outside world's urging to get married, Qin Lan's reply is very powerful, and I personally support Qin Lan.

2. Marriage is not a necessity of life. I have always felt that marriage is an additional issue, everyone has the right to choose or not to choose, if we don't choose, then it won't have much impact on us. With the development and progress of the times, people are becoming more and more independent, but there are still people who have traditional ideas, thinking that women are doing nothing in their lives without marriage or children, in fact, success should not be built on marriage.

Therefore, I think Qin Lan doesn't need to step into marriage, she must have her own choices in her heart, so she only needs to follow her heart, it is not easy for Qin Lan to achieve today's achievements, and she also knows that it is not easy to get such opportunities and honors as an actor. Marriage can be moved backwards, or it will not affect her if she does not choose marriage, after all, the cost of marriage is too great, and it is okay to follow her heart.

How to look at the pressure of urging marriage to give birth, Qin Lan responded and said My uterus is not used, what does it matter to you

Stand your ground. Because urging marriage has become the norm of life, it will be much happier to stick to your position than to be in the future.

Qin Lan is the benchmark for women in the new era, women should not be regarded as props for having children, women also have the right to choose whether to have children, and the future is also in their own hands, and others have no right to interfere too much.

In the end, if you don't want to be urged by all kinds of things, you can only work your own, and solving the ultimate problem is the best strategy, such as finding the right partner and getting married. As for the rest, it just comes naturally. Qin Lan's urging to marry is not an exception in the entertainment industry, and almost all single stars have been urged.

But most of them are trying to be the best version of themselves and find the right other half for themselves. I hope that Qin Lan can also have such a day, successfully find her true love, and truly bid farewell to the history of being urged.

Qin Lan is a relatively straightforward person, and her response is in line with the psychology of many contemporary women, because now we pay attention to the freedom of love, and no one stipulates that women must get married and have children when they reach a certain age.

I think her response is very legitimate, because every woman has her own thoughts, and whether to have children or not is her own business.

This response looks like there is no problem, but for a star, saying such things feels a bit lacking in quality, not elegant at all, and detrimental to her noble and elegant temperament.

Urging marriage is indeed the most headache for modern people, and as soon as they go home, they will be urged by their parents, aunts and aunts and others.

Everyone has their own choices, having children and getting married have their own reasons, if you are urged to marry by others, you will definitely be very irritable, and this will also make you very anxious, so that you are very bored with this kind of thing.

Qin Lan's response is on fire, and it also reflects the most headache for young people in modern society! Social pressure and economic pressure make it impossible for young people to lift their heads, let alone fall in love, and they can't find what they like to live their lives, which is also irresponsible for marriage.

I think it may be true for most people, maybe there is no partner to arrange a blind date, and after there is a partner, they start to urge marriage, and then give birth.

It should be, many people are urged to marry by their parents as soon as they go home, which is a headache for them.

That's right, giving birth to marriage is really the biggest headache for contemporary people, for the following reasons.

1. Being urged to marry during the New Year's holidaysSecond, the disadvantages of the Internet era

Nowadays, many things can be solved without leaving home, if you don't want to cook, you can order takeout, and you can buy things onlineWe are increasingly losing the ability to communicate face-to-face with people, and in addition to going to work, we are staying at home, and we have the opportunity to meet the opposite sex, which directly leads to the difficulty of modern people to find their other halfSo there is online dating, but online dating often sees the light die, and it is not easy to run. And this generation of young people is not a generation that is willing to compromise, and this way of finding a partner on a blind date no longer works. I can't find my boyfriend and girlfriend, and it's really a headache to be urged to get married.

3. I don't have money to fall in love, get married, and have childrenHis income is barely enough to spend on his own, and he has no spare money to fall in loveAfter getting married, the pressure is even greater, and you have to provide for a car and a house, if you have a child, milk powder money, diaper money, and various expenses add up, which is not a small amount of expenses, as well as the child's future education funds, etc., it is a headache to think about, which also leads to the low reproductive desire of modern peopleI am at ease and live freely by myself, why do I need to enter marriage and let family trivialities bind me? And now there are so many ways to entertain and pastime, what is more fun than falling in love is that I don't have the heart to get married and have a baby, and I am urged to marry by my elders every once in a while, and I am forced to do what I don't want to do, which is really a headache.