For the feelings of Mom and Dad against Tangled 10

In the past few days, I have also encountered a similar situation, the person I like is good-looking, but immature, and I don't go to work when I am in a bad mood, while the blind date is a very good person, has a good personality, and is capable, and I chose bread. Very realistic. Life is so realistic, and we have to face it.

At the beginning, I can't forget it, but I must forget that in a woman's life, marriage is wrong, and it is all wrong. When you choose your boyfriend, the first thing to see is whether he has a sense of responsibility and whether he will change his mind in the future, after all, this is an unknown, parents have never had power, they are all compared by those two people. I hated them as soon as I opened it, and later, I understood, if you want to be happy, you have to think about yourself, who can give you happiness.

Actually, it's only been a long time since the incident, I just chose bread, and the person I like is back, I really don't know if there is any change, anyway, my mother doesn't like him, no way, the road is forward, treat the person who went on a blind date with me.

It's a lot, and I've read it roughly. Well, it's the same as me and my wife, but we don't have as much of a diploma as you. I can deeply relate to the feelings of both of you.

To tell the truth, I was worried about alopecia areata because of this at the time, but now it's okay, my wife's father didn't contact my wife because of this matter, and our family has been in a relationship for six years, and a lot of what I experienced in the middle will soon be made into a movie. Well, there's a lot of nonsense, and I'm going to tell you both that persistence is persistence. Well, that's all there is to it.

These words also made me and my wife get married on May Day this year. As a woman, have faith and patience. Persistence must be persistent.

At the same time, don't be too aggressive, parents for your good, pity the hearts of parents all over the world. There are still very few ruthless parents in the world, and most of the reasons why they oppose you do you know why? It's that they don't know how much you love each other, and all you have to do is prove to everyone that you are water and fish!

Don't do too drastic, or ugly, sad words, use your brain, you two discuss everything, you will succeed. Okay, it's time to get off work, bless you.

I think you should listen to your parents, and I think your parents are quite right that love has nothing to do with marriage. It's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to get along! In the future, if you are really together, there are disputes, quarrels, unpleasantness between you, or if this man changes his mind, how can you be embarrassed to explain to your parents?

Surely they will say, is this what you have chosen? Now it's time to deserve it and so on.

Long pain is better than short pain, just break up early, don't waste each other's time. Besides, the person who loves you the most is not necessarily the most suitable person for you, marriage is not a flower like love, marriage needs two people and two families to create together, sometimes the beauty of letting go is eternal!

Parents are for you, and it's not easy.

You are the boyfriend who loves you again and will never leave you.

Well, I just want to know if your boyfriend has any potential to grow.

In this way, you are determined to be with him, and it will hurt your parents for the time being.

But if you get married and your life gets better, that's the greatest comfort to your parents.

What an old man decides doesn't necessarily depend entirely on how you understand your man.

They just want you to have a good life, you have a good life, and it doesn't matter who you marry them.

It's all about what kind of person you are in your career.

You are a sensual and filial person, so you have to be with him only to temporarily hurt the feelings of your parents.

But there are still many opportunities to make amends, and when life is good, they laugh.

Love and bread? It's a really hard choice.

But in the case you said, it hasn't appeared yet, it's just your parents' imagination that you can find a better one, but when you find a richer one, do you guarantee that he really loves? Is it guaranteed that you will be able to grow old forever? Can you guarantee that in the end you will actually be able to laugh and not cry in the BMW?

How many college students are millionaires who have just graduated? Do you think all the fathers are Li Gang?

You think about it carefully, if you think that you and your current boyfriend can live happily, then be firm with yourself, if you don't feel clear, or can't, then simply divide up, and neither party should drag it down.

I don't have a house, I don't have a car, which means I'm stressed.

In fact, in the end, as long as you insist, your parents will not have any way, if you are really forced to put forward conditions to your parents, such as the person introduced must really always love you alone, if something goes wrong, then you have to hold your parents responsible, and the average parents do not dare to do this, after all, people's hearts are difficult to see in a short period of time!

See if your boyfriend is a potential stock, if you really love, then you should let him continue to improve his grade for you. If he doesn't want to, then do you feel the need to be with such a man? A person who is unwilling to work hard to love his own people is not worth cherishing.

Whether your parents are good for you, your own business is still up to you, and you can do what you want in your heart.

If the basic conditions are still there, then you can fight for being together, after all, you love each other.

Hi, hello, I am a graduating undergraduate, in junior high school, my parents told me not to fall in love, affect learning, but I still talked about it, because of my excellence, but I was not admitted to the best middle school in the city, I went to a private middle school run by Beijing, but high school with the track of adolescence, I have no intention of studying all day, did not learn the lessons of junior high school, or nourished it, abandoned my studies. Our vows used to be so vulnerable, really, the so-called forever, really only on TV can be eternal, or something that is dead. I'm not saying I've had many times, but I want you to understand; "What do you really want?

What can you do about it? Have you planned your future? Can you guarantee that she will always love you, or that you will always love him?

The answer is a lot of yes – it can't be, just like there is no one who doesn't make mistakes, so there is no such thing as something too absolute. And I want to tell you something: Men always have to take responsibility for themselves, and then give what you have responsibility for, because you have capital. Don't say how she is, everything cut is an excuse.

Can you do it with him that you are not making your family, relatives, friends seem right? Will they be the envy of you for being together?

So think about what you want to do now, don't let your family worry about you, and if you identify the other person, prove it to the people around you -- you're right, because you're doing great, because you've grown up, and you've learned to be considerate, tolerant, and give to each other. Of course, in this big world, there will be all kinds of girls who like you around you, choose the one that suits you, because girlfriend and wife are two completely different concepts. Really do yourself well and improve yourself.

Cao Cao said well, "I'd rather bear the people of the world than let the people of the world bear me," Cao Cao said

There is an old saying that "a marriage without the blessing of parents and elders will not achieve long-term happiness"! Although I dare not say that it is a wise saying, after all, it is the experience of many people over the years. Of course, academic qualifications are not enough to be the main reason for two people who fall in love, but it will definitely become one of the hurdles in marriage, after all, marriage requires mutual understanding and mutual support, and the gap in academic qualifications will inevitably affect the communication between you.

We are not living in an era of war, where modern society is materialistic, and the views on things that are understood and accepted by different cultural levels and different living environments are certainly different. Unless you have a rich economic foundation as a backing, when the conflict strikes, the gap between each other on some issues will directly become the fuse of your disputes, and your most critical family support has already closed the door to you at the beginning.

The second is that the personality problem you are talking about is also a big potential problem, and it seems that every couple of lovers who break up will say a common reason: personality incompatibility! In love, couples often tolerate both sides can temporarily overcome the discomfort caused by each other's sharp edges and corners, but love can be spent before the moon and marriage needs to have salt and rice, in the marriage relationship, both parties will gradually from the original mutual tolerance to the reciprocal cooperative relationship, if your two personalities belong to the type of collision and strength, not to mention reconciliation when encountering disputes, I am afraid that if you want to give in to a step, it is likely to hurt each other, just like when the weight on both sides of the scale is equal, it is impossible to let the other side lower.

It's about the personalities of the two of you. Or are you willing to give in first, but how many times can you afford to do so? After all, every time you bear your psychology, it will hurt once, and over time you will be very bored, and every now because of the gap in education, it is difficult for you to effectively communicate with the other party, and the family is too lazy to care about you because of opposition, OK questions go back to the previous one...

Anyway, if you really have a lover or bless you to eventually become married, it's just that the reality is cruel, otherwise there wouldn't be a day when someone in this world would want to invent a regret medicine...

1. Figure out the reasons for your parents' objections. But most of them oppose it for only one reason, and that is that they are worried that you will not be happy in the future. (i.e. worrying that the other party will treat you badly in the future).

2. Try to prove that you can be happy with each other. This will take time to prove. Whether it's work or life, tell your parents that you have grown up and can be independent, and you can solve some small problems by yourself.

Work hard to manage your life, let yourself and your lover eat well and dress warmly, the little couple quarrels but the relationship is also very stable, talk about his advantages in front of his parents, and slowly reassure his parents.

3. Many parents oppose it, and it is true that children also listen to the breakup, in fact, the ultimate reason is not because of the opposition of parents, but because they have no confidence in themselves and their lovers in the future. So as long as the two of you have enough faith, no one can break you apart. If a couple walks for a lifetime, there are many things and many difficulties to experience together, and if a small opposition cannot be faced, then this relationship will not stand the test of time.

Hope it will be useful to you, hope, thank you.

Why didn't you say yes??? Do you really love him??? Do you live at home??? I'm going to a wedding the day after tomorrow, and my childhood friend He's in a very similar situation to you, but I'm very happy for him! I sincerely bless her and bless you!

Ground floor! If you regret not listening to your parents today, then if you listened to them at the time. What are the chances of saying today that you regret listening to their experience? This is not a question of buying a house, investing in a house, nor eating Chinese and Western food, there are real feelings in it!

Here today, gone tomorrow; There are already so many things that we can't control and control, at least at least we can't make our own decisions about who we want to spend our lives with.

I always believe that even if you regret it! It's better to regret your choice than to regret not to choose!

It's a sad story!! So many years have passed! I've grown up, and I've only realized that the unblessed relationship is really miserable!!

The classmate mentioned above is divorced. After all, his mother is everything to him, he is everything to his mother. Pity that girl.

Thankfully, there are no children!

Love is a matter of two people, everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, you can't give up this relationship because the people around you don't agree or don't approve, you have to believe in your own feelings.

What about low education?! Now this society is very realistic, understand, but you can't choose to give up because of the other party's family background, I'll give you two choices for you to see.

1. Suppose you have a girlfriend with a high degree of education in the future, and your parents agree that you will be together, but will you be truly happy at that time?

2. Suppose, your current girlfriend has a low education, but she is very good to you, you are very happy and happy with him, but your family thinks that he has a low education, so they oppose it, are you worthy of the girl who is persistent? Just for the sake of academic qualifications, there are many, many people with high academic qualifications now, can you guarantee that each and every one of them is very happy and happy?

Don't let you give up for the things in front of you, don't feel very tired, you should talk to your family more and communicate your own opinions, don't affect your decisions because of other people's opinions, you should move forward bravely if you think it is right.

When two people are together, it is necessary to trust each other and understand each other.

In the question, your family is fiercely opposed?

I suggest that you communicate more with your family, why you oppose it, and then talk about what kind of person she is, and slowly move them, I believe that if you continue to be persistent, I believe that one day your family will accept it.

No matter how it ends, be sure to follow your heart and don't do anything you regret.