Mom and Dad quarrel, whose fault is it? Father? Mom? Or me?

There is no need to study whether this question is right or wrong. Dad's temper is just a little impatient, and he probably won't succeed if he tries to change it for a while. Mom actually doesn't have anything, just a little dissatisfied with Dad's impatience, but she shouldn't quarrel either.

After all, Dad has a bad temper, and it is inevitable that there will be some small frictions in family life, understand Dad, be more tolerant, and don't take Dad's "wrong" to heart.

That's right, just say it, don't pay too much attention to it.

There is no one in the family who does not quarrel with small things. Let's communicate more, and you should also play the role of a lubricant for the two of them.

Your dad's question.

The temper is too bad, it's okay, a little noise promotes feelings, don't take it too seriously.

It's a small contradiction in family life, there's nothing right or wrong, just forget it.

No one is wrong, this problem is actually shared in many families, but I can suggest that you want mom and dad to talk about it.

In my opinion, there are all things wrong, first of all, mom shouldn't be so excited, but at this time, when she's talking about dad, you should tell her that you want to do so much, dad is actually not wrong at first, but mom because of this, maybe your dad is not very happy, so he taught you a lesson, which he was wrong, and then when he was told by his parents, try to be able to endure it, especially for people with a bad temper, this is the best way, it can be seen that your parents must also be the kind of people who are more easily excited In short, get along with your parents in the future, remember to stop when there is a quarrel, and for yourself, you can bear with it, and try not to talk to them too much.

There should be no problem that they have been married for so many years, in fact, it is okay to quarrel, they just use another way to express their inner [i] [i] thoughts, and besides, they will not divorce [i] for you when you are so old, you can rest assured. Hehe.

In my opinion, there are certain problems between your parents, only you can help them solve the psychological barrier, you have to do more housework, talk less nonsense, use your upward emotions and happy voice to connect them and participate with you, if there is a disagreement, you have to explain it from a fair point of view, not partiality.

Hello dear, according to your simple question, explain the reasons why your parents always quarrel as follows: 1. Your parents may have different views on family life and family affairs. Second, both parents are stubborn and do not tolerate each other's stomach and posture, third, the parents lack communication, fourth, there are also very different personalities of both parents, it is recommended that you do a good job of "bridge" for your parents in the future, try your best to resolve their conflicts, and often do a good job of "communication" between parents to mediate, only in this way can you avoid and reduce unnecessary disputes between parents, so that the family is harmonious and happy.

Hello, first of all, parents quarrel, as a child is actually the most headache, both sides are relatives, not the other side, so this is a very tricky problem. Let me tell you my own point of view: 1. If your parents' emotions are more intense, you can persuade the party with more intense emotions, let him or her say a few words, and tell them to be harmonious for you, and if you know which side is wrong, you can reason with him or her, and then adjust them and be an intermediate lubricant, you must not lose your temper, because you are a junior after all, and you can't help one party to say harshly to the other, it's better not to.

In fact, it is normal for parents to quarrel sometimes, everyone has it, so you don't have to worry too much. 2. If they don't do this often, it proves that there should be no problem emotionally, as you are concerned, it is better to remain silent, and after two days, it will be fine. 3. However, if their cold war has not been eliminated, then, as the emotional bond of your parents, you can play an important role at this time, inquire about the reasons for their quarrel from the side, and then make some adjustments from it according to the actual situation.

4. When they quarrel, you say loudly: Don't quarrel, you always quarrel like this, I'm annoyed if you don't bother! Have you ever thought about my feelings, why can't you say calmly, I want a warm and harmonious family, can't you do such a request?

Or just slam the door so they'll understand that you don't like them arguing and that there's you, which is a very effective way to do it, but it's not the best way. 5. In fact, silence is my most recommended method. Because no matter who you speak for, it is adding fuel to the fire, because they all think that they are right, as soon as you speak, the two are evenly matched, because of your joining, the balance will inevitably tilt, and the other party must feel more wronged, and it will be even more endless.

So, you watch from the side, as long as your parents don't do anything, they quarrel with them, and when you're tired, it's fine. 6. You must understand that as a child, you must abide by the boundaries of what a child should do. Parental quarrels are the business of parents, and the affairs of the previous generation are solved by themselves!

Of course, we don't feel good when they quarrel, but there is no way, don't blame yourself for the reason for your parents' quarrels, so you will be burdened with a lifetime of pressure. These things don't belong to us in the first place. Just tell them how we feel.

That's it. If there is another quarrel, you can walk away. 7. (Emphasis) If one parent tells you anything to the other party, you must politely refuse to listen!

Don't stand among your parents and be the judge of the war between your parents, it will be counterproductive. Finally, congratulations on your happiness and family harmony!

Hello, if your parents quarrel in front of you, you should stand in the middle and say to them, Mom and Dad, I am the crystallization of your love, since you gave birth to me, then you love each other, please don't quarrel anymore, you quarrel like this, I am very scared, I don't want you to be so needle-pointed, we are all a family, we must be harmonious when we speak, and there is something that cannot be solved by good communication.

Summary. Mom and Dad are not quarreling because you did something wrong, it's a conflict between Mom and Dad, don't blame yourself.

I didn't do anything wrong, but Mom and Dad were arguing.

Mom and Dad are not quarreling because you did something wrong, it's a conflict between Mom and Dad, don't blame yourself.

It feels like it's almost a fight, it's scary.

I'm still kicked out of the house by my mom.

You can call your neighbors to persuade you to fight.

Oh, my God! It feels like you're so sad right now.

Do you have a place to go? The weather is cold, can you go to a relative's or neighbor's house?

You must not blame yourself, your parents are emotionally unstable and cannot solve the conflict between them in a gentle way, it is not your fault, it is just that the city gate is on fire and affects the fish in the pond.

If you really don't have anywhere to go, you can call 110.

Kick the child out at night, and the police will take care of it.

Summary. A fight between mom and dad must be distressing for you, but remember that no matter how much you quarrel between adults, they love you, everyone has emotions, they may be stressed, and arguing may relieve their stress.

Why does Dad always quarrel with Mom.

A fight between mom and dad must be distressing for you, but remember that no matter how much you quarrel between adults, they love you, everyone has emotions, they may be stressed, and arguing may relieve their stress.

If you don't want them to stop fighting, you can express your feelings to them. It may help your family harmony.

And they don't quarrel because of you, people like self-attribution, parents have emotions, sometimes because of work, sometimes because of stress.