People are sometimes so confused around them, including their loved ones, all affect their emotions

When you are confused, think about the reason for being confused, and think more empathetically so that you will not be so confused. Everyone has this experience. There is no hurdle that cannot be passed

yes, you have to learn to deal with it. As long as you are right, you must make your own decision, even your parents can't listen.

Well, the vast majority of people in the world go through such a process!

All we need to do is make ourselves stronger! Don't be bothered by others!

I feel the same way as you, I'm seeing a psychiatrist. I realized that I was "cold-blooded" or "uncomfortable". With the help of the doctor, I felt that I had opened the hard shell and found life beautiful and interesting.

Start by learning to express your emotions. Specifically, you need to have the help of a professional doctor. May you get out of this predicament soon.

There is no emotion because you have not lost it.

Why do you think you are an emotionless person?

Feelings can be cultivated, such as how you deal with them.

Sure enough, there was no emotion, and at this time it was the bottom of the class that I cared about.

The realm of Buddhism is that the six roots are quiet, and there are no distracting thoughts in the heart. Your heart hurts and you are afraid of being hurt because you want something in return. If you can let go of everything and be selfless, you will be fearless.

If you are good to others and have no return, you should accumulate yin virtue, and there is no need to worry about suffering. To pay is to give, as for when to get, it depends on fate and creation. I still hope that you will use your birth heart to do things to enter the world, and help others a lot, and the peace of mind is true.

Why do you think this way, let's keep it simple.

Ah, you don't have to leave home, you can pack your bags and go to a place far away from home to start a new life, the past hurt will fade with time, is it because of the past to give up a new life in the future? It's not a good deal. Cheer up, change your hairstyle, change your image, don't leave me here, I have my own place to go.

You are wrong, a person's family environment will affect all aspects of themselves, although you have learned to be strong, but you have not yet faced it truthfully, facing anything and the harm that your sister brought you, the blood and relationship of your relatives can never be separated. No matter what she has done, she is your dearest person. To learn to understand and continue to warm your love to her, and your sister may still be young, under your care she has grown up, there are many she may not understand.

One day she'll understand. Why bother when you lock yourself up, because life is beautiful, the world is full of love, and what you want is not something you can't learn, but remember that is not to be obsessed, just to do a self-regulation role. You don't have to do the problem of becoming a monk, because you still have the world to do, so even if you do it, you won't feel good in the future, because you still have the closest people to take care of, to help, to live.

You have to live a good life, don't close yourself off and don't want to face it, face it calmly, because I believe in you, and you will do well. You will also find someone to protect you. Try to relax yourself.

There are many beautiful things that are maintained and modified by the heart, so only when the beauty in your heart is revealed, you will be victorious. Live well, take good care of yourself, take good care of your lover, your sister... Bless you...

Why can't you think about it? I personally feel that in the current social environment, even if you become a monk, you still can't escape the confinement of your heart, and it will never be possible to erase the traces of your life history, unless you really see through everything in the world, but that's not something ordinary people can do, because you are not a god, you know that it will cost a lot... Many people feel that there is no meaning in living in the world as soon as they encounter the lowest point in life, and they have lost their yearning for life, and then they will choose to become a monk or commit suicide more extremely, but whether it is a monk or a suicide, no one will say that their choice is right, and no one will say that they will really escape the pain of being a monk, and more pain is waiting for you to face and bear it yourself...

Someone once said that "a kindness to others is a kind of cruelty to oneself", I think sometimes it is more useful, because in this social environment, any feelings, including family, friendship and love, become nothing in front of money and interests, so you will feel that this society is unfair to you, and the world is too cruel to you. Although society is cruel and ruthless, but dear friends, please do not give up the freedom to choose to live, because becoming a monk is not a way out, no one in the monk says that he is happy, and becoming a monk is actually a punishment to avoid, a kind of shackles imposed on oneself, a kind of self-torture behavior, which brings more suffering... So please don't give up your desire to pursue life, because one day you will love the world ...

Only by exchanging sincerity for sincerity can you get sincerity, and you can get acquaintances after staying true for a long time.

Wait, time will give you the answer, and you will understand when you look back in a few years.

Find something to do for yourself.

You can pick up girls and pick up boys or anything, of course, there must be a little difficulty.

Be kind to yourself, no matter how stormy the world is!

It looks like you're in a lost period of life right now.

In fact, everyone will feel more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of your situation, it is recommended that you set an actionable and achievable goal for yourself according to your own ability and the needs of the market. Don't set that kind of lofty goal, you can't achieve it in a year and a half.

Otherwise, you'll be like this, and you'll start to become less confident and unmotivated about your goals. It's best to set a milestone, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

The goal should be both achievable and achievable, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to gain happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

Give it a try. Instead of feeling lost, it is better to try something that is beneficial to your future and family.

There's nothing wrong with not going, you have to apologize, and your family will be considerate of you.

Then treat your family well, I'm walking the path you walked at the time, it's not that I don't trust my family, but I don't want them to know that I'm poor now.

Relatives won't care about you. Make up for it, spend more time with your family, and turn guilt into love.

My family will understand you, you have had the same experience as me, but I haven't recovered yet.

Be cheerful, people must always learn to be themselves.

I have to face everything.

Everyone has difficulties, don't be intimidated by difficulties, be optimistic about the difficulties in front of you, and maintain a spiritual --- that is always optimistic

Be confident, nothing will be difficult for you.

Can you tell us about any specific problems you encountered? It's hard to explain this kind of generality.

If you really can't tell, learn to smile and say hello to them!

Every time I bump into it, I smile and say "Morning", "Hello! "Thank you", "I'm back", "I'm going first", "I'm going to work", "You're back!" Slow down! And so on politely.

Take your time, I'm sure you'll feel the power of love and smiles!

Be lenient with others and strict with yourself.

When you want to lose your temper with your family and friends, think about how you can be so good to strangers, how can you be inferior to strangers to those close to you? And when you feel that your family and friends are doing something wrong, think about how your family and friends comfort you when you do something wrong...

Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and be sincere and righteous. Bow to the thick and thin to others.

We can all lose our feelings, but family affection is absolutely impossible, you must cherish your family.

People who have no feelings, sometimes they can protect themselves, but they are afraid that they will invest in their feelings and have no return!!

That's because you're more introverted.

You're just not good at expressing yourself.

Eh: Is there any reason?