I am so confused about the road ahead, I happened to see what you know, and I want to ask you questi

Henan Agricultural University is okay, you haven't gone to college yet, so it may be a little early to consider whether to take the postgraduate entrance examination.

However, opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, and it is better to plan ahead.

The first question: the graduate school entrance examination is actually not very influential with your school, I think that university education is more dependent on individual efforts. Since I plan to go to graduate school, I must learn math and English well in my freshman and sophomore years.

As we all know, these two courses have little to do with which university you graduated from. Many ordinary universities come out of English, and companies are equally welcome, no matter which school, it completely depends on your level. Then there is the professional course, the professional course of the mechanical industry is not too difficult, the two tools of mathematics and English are learned, and it is easy to overcome some problems of the machine.

The rest is a summary of some experiences, which is not difficult. Of course, you must learn computer classes well, not learn to surf the Internet, type data, 、、、

The second question: if you solve the first problem, you take a graduate exam, there should be no problem, you are so self-motivated, it is estimated that it is not a big problem to take a good school for graduate school, graduate school, it will definitely be helpful for the future, and some units have recruitment conditions as long as graduate students, so from the perspective of employment, the higher the academic qualifications, the better, but to combine their own situation, male students, after the postgraduate entrance examination, they are older, and there may be more problems to consider. From a career perspective, graduate students may have access to more opportunities than undergraduate students.

If you have the conditions, it is best to choose to go to graduate school.

What kind of person you can become in the future depends entirely on your own choices and efforts.

It is precisely because of the ignorance of the future that it is more worthy of our exploration, pursuit and anticipation, isn't it?

Confused, boy, I'm also very confused.

Regain your self-confidence and never say anything frustrating about your weakness or anything! There is a famous saying in Tsinghua University, that is, never say that I have done my best, in fact, you say this sentence is still strong. Don't be too pessimistic, you look like you want to learn well, but you are pessimistic, you don't have the spirit of a manly man, don't be confused now, confusion shouldn't be an excuse, I hope you cheer up.

I am in my forties and have worked in no less than 5 industries. From metal materials to chemical raw materials, power tools, computer sales, computer repair and maintenance, product inspection and so on.

Expertise isn't necessarily the most important thing, it's what you want to do that matters! Do the job you want to do, even if the salary is a little less, and the mood is happy.

It is impossible for a person not to take detours. Life goals also change as you get older. The current situation is just a small episode in life, so don't be discouraged.

You have knowledge of liberal arts and an understanding of science, which is where you are more capable than others, it is your advantage, and you have enough capital to start from scratch.

Self-confidence comes from self-improvement.

You can ask it, and it is also a kind of self-improvement.

Major, education, work ......You are confused by low wages.

When you work, learning is no longer a task. We should not be limited to studying, but should be more inclined to "exercise": vision, rationality, and open-mindedness......Including accepting the ups and downs, learning to endure, and experiencing hardships (I didn't say the above).

Just know how to live well. When life and work can't be coordinated or self-satisfied, then try your best to do it, what if you are tired and bitter!

I was a liberal arts student, and then I worked in engineering-related things, and the first few years were quite painful because I didn't know anything, but after a few years, I suddenly realized that it was not difficult to at least cope with the work. I don't recommend changing majors, the key is what can you change? Of course, you are right to be in pain now, if you really want to change, you must change it quickly, and it will be too late to change it at the age of 30.

Encourage you to decide before you go further.

We must readjust our mentality and never give up on ourselves. But do what you love!!

It is recommended that you first solve your own employment problems based on the current industry. Low educational background and no basic theoretical knowledge are not a problem. The question is whether you are interested in this industry, whether you have the motivation to continue to learn, that is, whether you have the perseverance and perseverance to continue learning.

If so, take action immediately and devote yourself to learning professional knowledge, you are still young, and you will live to learn all the time. If you don't want to work in this industry, you can't do it, choose a career you like to do and start all over again. It's still the same sentence, live to learn.

But the above premise is that you have to solve the problem of food and clothing by yourself.

I have just graduated for more than a year, but I can feel that your current conditions are still relatively good, as long as you pick up the theoretical knowledge in the later stage, practice is the most important, the key is to see if you are still interested? I advise you to stick with it.

First of all, we must readjust our mentality, and we must not give up on ourselves. In fact, for young people who have been working for two or three years, it is normal to meet you in this situation, and every young person has their own dreams and pursuits. All the knowledge you learn in school is less applied when you work, but more of that is the process of education.

A college degree only represents the learning ability and state of high school, and the ability to make money and enjoy a high-quality life cannot be explained by academic qualifications! As a senior, the best advice for you is to correct your mentality, choose the direction of job hunting, and prepare carefully for the interview. Another important point is that the stability of the job is valued by your future boss, so you need to find a company, do not dare to scale it, first settle down, at least work for more than 1-2 years, so that you can learn something, and that is when you can really make money.

Since you don't like computer majors, you should change majors at the beginning of your sophomore or freshman year, and I'm afraid it's boring to change again in your junior year, and it's not outrageous to want to be a nutritionist or dance teacher, why is it outrageous? It's a sophomore.,Since you have chosen, you should go on without hesitation and learn it well.,Because unless you have a very hard backing in society.,Otherwise, you have to live realistically.,You must have a talent.,Sophomore.,It's not the time to play a little character.,It's time to learn it well as soon as possible.,Don't regret it until the end.。 Come on...

Take the path you want to take and don't regret it.

The young are nurtured by the elders, and the two don't cry endlessly.

For this, it is difficult to stay in the middle intestines!

Since I was a child, I have been worried.

Reiztomon is merciful.

You need to see a psychiatrist, at present, you are anxious + depressed, and some autism, you need to find a psychologist to guide you, if it really doesn't work, subconsciously implant, otherwise you will be ruined, you can't go on like this.

What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

When you first start looking for a job, you just need to avoid being too picky. What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up.

To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

I was also confused, and suddenly I felt that I didn't even have a place to stay.

When I reached my junior year, I kept thinking, what to do after graduation, do you still take the graduate school entrance examination, and plan to work in **. The more I thought about it, the more confused I became. I thought I should ask my parents for their opinions, and my mother analyzed the current situation of employment and said that she supported me to go to graduate school.

I asked about the working environment of graduate school and non-graduate school, and finally I decided that I wanted to go to graduate school, and even though it was difficult, I would go back to the mentality I had in high school and strive for a goal.

I failed the college entrance examination, I have been hesitating whether to take the test again, I am full of confusion about the future, my mother bought me a train ticket to go out for a walk, I thought a lot on the way, and decided to do it again and not let myself regret it.

After working for a year, I still can't find the direction of life, I am very confused, I took a few days off and went to the suburbs to relax, and when I came back, I decided to regain my dream, and I will not be confused at all if I strive for my dream.

I don't know what my future holds, I often think like this when I am at the lowest point in my life, I am afraid that I will get depression if I continue to think like this, my university teacher is a person I respect very much, so I went to find him, told him my troubles, he pointed me out in a few words, I was determined to do the unfinished business in college, I felt that life was full of hope.

I don't know what kind of work I will do when I go home, and I have been working in the kitchen for 4 or 5 years, but now I am tired of it, but I don't know what else to do.

Do the work I don't like, I don't know what will happen to me, in my life is particularly confused during the time, directly resigned to a tour, in that travel realized a lot of things, I really don't like constraints, after coming back to open a small shop at home to be their own boss, now life is quite leisurely.

My mentor is a very good person, and when I feel lost about the future, I always talk to her, and she shows me the way every time.

After graduating from college, I really didn't know what I was going to do in the future, so I went to my older brother to ask for experience, and he gave me a lot of advice, and slowly I felt that I had found my way.

My cousin is a successful person, I was not happy at work, I was very confused when I went to him, he shared his life experience with me, analyzed my strengths and weaknesses, helped me find my own path, I am very grateful to him.

There is a temple in the city where I live with a lot of incense, and every time I feel lost, I go to the temple to knock on the wooden fish and listen to the bells, and my heart is calm and naturally open.

After the college entrance examination, I was confused about the future and didn't know what to do in the future, so I found the head teacher, who helped me analyze the situation and help me choose my current university and major, I am very grateful to him.

During the period when I didn't know whether I was going to go to graduate school or work, I listened to the Heart Sutra for a week, calmed down my impetuous heart, and then I was thinking about my own path very easily, and the final result was still to go to graduate school.

Without saying anything, I'll show you a story: [1.]Wallach Effect] Otto Wallach is a Nobel laureate in chemistry.

When he was in secondary school, his parents chose a literary path for him, but at the end of the semester, the teacher wrote this comment for him: "Wallach worked hard. However, it is difficult to create literary materials if they are too rigid.

After that, his parents asked him to change to oil painting, but he was neither good at composition nor polishing, and his grades were the lowest in the class. Most of the teachers thought that he had no hope of success, and only the chemistry teacher thought that he was meticulous and had the quality to do a good job in chemistry experiments, and suggested that he study chemistry.

Teach according to aptitude Nine sons of the dragon The nine sons of the dragon have their own good Born with my talent, I will be useful ......

Everyone has their own favorite things, have their own expertise, you must believe in this, even if you can't do what you like, you have to start little by little, work the things you like, progress will be very fast, will be faster than you imagine, come on!

In the future, the certificate is the most important, and if you work hard to take a certificate that the society recognizes that others can't pass it, you will be a cow, and the future will be bright.