I ve got into trouble with my husband to this point, what should I do?

It seems that your husband and parents have more problems.

The old are greedy for vanity, disgusted with the poor and love the rich.

But your husband still looks more precious to you.

I suggest you have a good talk with your husband, you move out to live, except for the New Year's holidays, reduce the interaction with the elderly. You can give a little money every month to the elderly, in other words, to buy a quiet place.

Also, in your case, you must protect your own property, you can give money, but you can't ask for fixed assets. It is impossible to change such an old man. You don't have parents, so you can only take care of yourself more.

Orphan, I sympathize with you for not having the love of your parents since you were a child.

Do your parents-in-law hate you? I don't think so. I like to be alone and ask for time.

It's all done on TV! You can learn about it. Women, be gentle!

Haha, I'm not teaching you a lesson! I think you should separate yourself and live with your husband.

Maybe it's better, but the premise is to make your in-laws inseparable from you.

They'll have a crush on you.

Let's change the city, leave his relatives, I also look down on such parents.

As for your husband, since you said he loves you, don't give up easily.

Husbands and wives will inevitably quarrel, and there are root causes, find out the root cause to solve the problem, don't talk about feelings.

If you're so tired of living, let's leave. But think about how you want to live your life in the future.

Life is less than a hundred years, don't let anger become the focus of life

It's really complicated, it's hard for a clean official to cut off family affairs, but to be honest, your in-laws are simply unbearable, they are really bullied to the home, they don't look like old people at all, relying on the old and selling the old! I'm sorry.,Maybe it's a bit heavy.,But that's my first feeling after reading your article.。。。

If you don't have children, leave!

If you have children, you should think carefully, after all, divorce is not about your personal happiness, marriage is not child's play!

I'm done. I don't know how to say, after so many years, there is still such an impetuous mentality, I also came out alone, my father died early, and the sense of self-improvement and independence is very heavy. A bit selfish at times.

But you should think about everything more, is it because you have those two suites that your mood has become so bad?

If it's because of this, it's not worth it.

I think your husband is actually very good to cherish.

You've got two houses, get a divorce.

I agree that you will divorce and have no children now, even if there are other things in the future, if your husband loves you, he will not let his parents treat you like that, you think about it, your unrest will not stop.

Every time your husband quarrels with you and tells you to get out, this kind of man is uneducated. The lack of upbringing is related to his family of origin. Maybe the quarrel between his parents is all you and he rolls.

Everyone's family of origin is different, the family is educated differently, and the behaviors they show are also different. You can communicate with him and tell him that it hurts to say "".

Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June. Whether you're angry or bickering, you have to keep your emotions in check. They are all adults, and what to say and what not to say must be weighed in their hearts.

Then again? Men love to lose their temper and say cruel words, which are all manifestations of incompetence, and they want to show their own strength, but in fact, their strong appearance hides their inferiority complex.

If there is still a little love between you, the child is also seven years old and already in school. When you're not arguing, communicate your feelings with each other. Not a matter of principle, the original cool each other.

It is said that it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, there are firewood, rice, oil and salt to get along, there are endless housework, there are troubles at work, and there are parents in life. All need to communicate, understand, be cool, and let go.

I feel that life has entered a dead end, don't be so pessimistic, there is no despair in life, only you can't figure it out, you can't see through it. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. Life still has to go on, and if you read the scriptures smoothly, life will be comfortable.

If you don't want to give up this marriage, then try to make changes, "it's okay when it's usually good", then try to keep this "good time", find the "flammable point" that triggers his emotional out-of-control, avoid stepping on the minefield, communicate feelings when the mood is good, express needs, and pay attention to his thoughts and needs, set a bottom line, if you are still not respected, self-esteem is trampled, then you have to respond, show your attitude, Even if you make the decision to divorce, if your love is still there, he will definitely care about your feelings, and make adjustments and changes in enough reflection and awareness of yourself, and he still hasn't made corresponding corrections to his behavior, so it is also a wise choice to stop losses in time.

Marriage is yours, only you can decide where to go, your own feelings are the most important, unconsciously have said so much, but it is still not enough, and finally, in the case of your relationship has not been dealt with and improved, do not think about solving the problem by having a child, thinking that everything will be fine when you have a child, because doing so will only make the situation more complicated, and the pain will also affect the innocent child ......If you are still feeling lost, please seek help from counselling, the counsellor will be willing to listen to you tell you a true and complete story, and you will definitely take responsibility for your life and make the best decisions.

Then you can show him that you leave him and go back to his mother's house, and if he comes to you, then you can reconcile with him again, so that he will not say that in the future.