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Anonymous users2024-02-10Some young students often suffer from their lack of communication and introversion. Some of them are personalities that have been cultivated over many years. Can you change this personality and develop the ability to be sociable?
As the saying goes: "The country is easy to change, but the temperament is difficult to change." That's not entirely true.
"Difficult to move" does not mean that it cannot be moved. With the reform and opening up of society, the frequency of personal communication and the increase of social practice, and the broadening of knowledge, there will be great changes in personal concepts, consciousness and character. As long as you consciously pay attention to changing your personality, you will get good results.
In addition, it is necessary to establish confidence, put yourself in the right position, find yourself, evaluate yourself correctly, and do not be domineering, nor arrogant, without self-esteem, nor overwhelmed by inferiority. We should live among people with modesty and prudence, without humility or arrogance. The way to change the introverted personality and learn to communicate is also to expand the amount of information you have, read more books, read more newspapers, care about world and national events, expand your knowledge and broaden your horizons, and pay attention to enriching your spare time, such as playing ball, calligraphy, playing chess, etc., you can increase your contacts in these activities and subtly change your personality.
When it comes to character building, you can do the following: First, make yourself likable and want to be a good friend to others. (1) When you encounter troubles, you may want to assume that you are in a state of happiness and leisure, and over time, you can naturally develop a happy personality.
2) Try to use your free time to do what you like and participate in different activities, so as to expand your social circle and increase your knowledge. (3) Writing down your daily feelings, wishes, and dreams in a "secret diary" will not only help you get rid of your worries, but also help you learn how to express your inner feelings. (4) Don't expect perfection from yourself.
Also pay attention to your own sense of humor. Second, before you start building friendships with others, think about whether you are genuinely interested in them and whether they will make you happy. (1) Be friendly.
2) Accept the personality and opinions of others, and do not force others to change. (3) Pay attention to personal style, do not blindly make dedication to friends, friends should be friends to help each other as the principle. (4) Tell your friends about your feelings and thoughts, but pay attention to the depth of your fellowship to avoid awkward situations.
5) Understand that true friends have the following characteristics: they will not belittle you to exalt themselves; will keep your secrets; I won't slander you, I won't mind how you are dressed; Diplomatic relations will not be severed outright. (6) We must have a mentality that is willing to change, always be ready for change and change, be flexible and creative, have a democratic and equal character and the spirit of abiding by the law and keeping promises; It is necessary to make people constantly improve their personal skills and be good at dealing with themselves.
Modern people should realize that a person's future and life depend on their own skills. This is a characteristic of today's times. In addition, while using language in social communication, there is another factor that cannot be ignored, that is, non-verbal factors.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09First of all, humility does not mean hypocrisy! Anthracene, don't shoot randomly, look at people and shoot, there are current people who like to listen to flattery, but some people like to be real! Anthracene to be comprehended in life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Communicative skills are greater than sycophants This should be exercised in daily communication.
Many people say that they are not good at communication, but they are not, but you have not learned a good communication skill.
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