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It turns out that I have been working hard to manage the family relationship, and it has always been very good, because I always pay for free and do not ask for anything in return. In the eyes of outsiders, the family is harmonious, married for seventeen or eighteen years, honors the elderly, and does filial piety instead of her husband, and also gets the title of a good daughter-in-law in the village. Two years ago, the second daughter was born, and a little bit changed.

Ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law, this sentence I originally did not agree, I feel that taking care of the elderly is the responsibility of the daughter-in-law, with this mentality, when pregnant, confinement did not get a little return, I tolerate and understand, forgive again and again, the child is more than two weeks, but I found that your understanding again and again is not more understanding, but want to should, at this time let me understand, there is no heart for heart, let me understand what the old man is used to, so I take respect and stay away, slowly my reputation has changed, inside and outside is not a personI used to feel guilty about all this, but now I want to say, don't spoil others and wronged yourself. For a family, loving yourself is the first priority!

In my opinion, family relationship is the most complex and intimate relationship, complex is the relationship between in-laws, intimate blood relations, blood relations are easy to handle, blood relations are thicker than water, in-laws are different due to no blood relationship, living habits and other aspects are different, living together requires mutual understanding and tolerance, everyone learns to empathize. In this way, there will be a harmonious and beautiful family atmosphere. When encountering things, prioritize them and deal with them calmly.

This thing also depends on the person, first of all, you should be calm, don't just think about yourself, you should look at some problems from the perspective of other people, communicate more with your family members appropriately, and compare your heart to your heart.

Reflect on each other, take a step back, empathize with each other, take the initiative to admit mistakes, and establish family harmony as the center, so that the sea and the sky will be broad, am I right?

The "trivialities" in life are: husband and wife quarrel because of a sentence; The child cries because of a piece of candy; Blamed for accidentally saying the wrong thing; Parents and children are at odds because they disagree on the division of the room, etc. Anyway, it means something small that is not worth mentioning.

Housework is relatively trivial, and the main reason for not handling it well is nothing more than a lack of communication, as long as you discuss more with your family and understand more, there will be no hurdles that you can't get over!

I think that as a family, we can connect with each other, trust each other, understand and tolerate, not be strong, not selfish, have a discussion for everything, etc.! That's pretty much it!

The biggest headache for me in our family is that my mother-in-law and sister-in-law stir up the feelings of our husband and wife together, neither of them can see that their husbands are good to me, and they eat my jealousy and dizziness. The most annoying thing is that the sister-in-law has already married, and she refuses to leave in our family, and there are such people in the world, which is really wonderful.

Discontinuous occurrence, from time to time around you or in your mind, I call him trivial, trivial patchwork is the footprints of life, life is composed of step by step trivial.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. In family life, there will inevitably be many unsatisfactory points, and there may be many troubles and sorrows.

1. The four sons of Lao Zhang, the head of the village, and the eldest son's family settled in Suzhou, and it is said that they are living well, with small villas and high wages. The second son teaches in the middle school in the town and lives next door to the old couple, the third son works in the city and the conditions are slightly worse, and the fourth son is in Wuxi, although the conditions are not as good as the eldest son, but it is also reasonable.

The old couple themselves also avoided suspicion, and tried to level out a bowl of water for everything. The eldest son's family rarely went home once, the old couple ate and drank well, for fear of treating the baby grandson badly, and stuffed the trunk before leaving, the eldest son also wanted to give some money to the old couple every time, but they were all refused, because the pension of about 3,005 yuan for the old couple could cope with it in the countryside.

2. Lao Zhao's two sons and a daughter, the eldest son is farming, and the couple guard one acre and three points of land at home, and go out to do odd jobs when they are not working. The second son and his wife are in the hospital, although they can't be rich and expensive, but after all, they don't need to be like the eldest son, who is exposed to wind and rain, eats public meals, and guarantees income in drought and flood. The daughter and the couple are in the Yangzhou State Taxation Bureau, and the conditions are the best.

He has his own little Jiujiu in his heart, the second son and the daughter are in good condition, and he wants to help the boss, so as soon as the daughter leaves, he will subsidize the eldest son and grandson when he turns around. The second and third children asked the old couple to live with them, he resolutely refused to move the nest, he was worried that the eldest son would come back from work and come back to the cold pot and cold stove, he was worried that his grandson would not be picked up from school, he was worried that the eldest daughter-in-law was not in good health and overworked, in short, he refused to leave home.

For example, if the poor lack money, it will be a problem for children to go to school. The family is wealthy, but the children are not angry, or the health is not good, etc., but a family has its unsatisfactory place, so there is a difficult scripture to read. The so-called you have your difficulties, I have my difficulties.

That's what it means.

Every person who comes to the home environment is not.

Source the same as every parent.

It's different, every child is different, everyone is different, under the influence of different environments, people will become different, there will be different ideas, different roads, on different roads, there will be different conflicts with family members, everyone encounters different things, everyone's ideas are different, their own ideas may be different from their parents' ideas, everyone has different personalities, will make different decisions, will encounter different problems. There will be a difficult scripture to read.

The affairs of the family are not solved by a single factor such as reason alone, emotion, etc., and there are many factors mixed in everything that are difficult to straighten out and distinguish between right and wrong. Therefore, it is often said that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

It means that every family has some difficult things that outsiders don't know about.

It can also be extended to say.

Everyone's got their hands dirty.

It's a natural thing to do. You talk about it.

Who doesn't have a hard time?

But. Sometimes, it can also be understood as a comforting word.

When people say, how is our home?

We are the same in our family.

Ah. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

This sentence brought the two together. It smells of being connected with fate.

It will comforting a friend. The mood is relaxed.