There is occasionally a problem in social communication

Everyone is unique and has their own strengths and weaknesses. If you can appreciate your own strengths, you will be confident and not blindly compare with others; If you know how to accept the shortcomings of your own people, you will consciously improve yourself, neither blindly confident nor blindly inferior. Understand yourself comprehensively and objectively, and formulate a way of living and getting along with others that suits you according to your own personal reality!

This kind of character is nothing, but you will lose a lot of opportunities, all types of people have their advantages, if you can choose one type of person to socialize, you will develop some very bad habits for yourself, and you will let yourself have a lot of prejudices.

Hehehe. Be kind! ~~

It's hard for you to succeed like this, and the more capable people are, the farther away they will be from people like you.

It's good for you

Work hard to change it, if you don't change it, you can't do it!

Now that you know your shortcomings, why don't you change them? Hard? No matter how hard it is, you have to do it!!

Actually, everyone is pretty much the same. There's no need to push yourself.

But you don't look down on people who have few friends. Having fewer friends doesn't mean being less humane.

Some people who have few friends will stick a knife in both sides once they make friends.

Just let everything go with the flow, and dashing people naturally have friends.

Really, I want to rub nima....

You look down on loners like J8, aren't you better than you? You're a. Look at you, you don't even have an opinion, and you eat behind those twitterers?

You tama's.

Life is like a movie.

How you want to act depends on yourself. What about the good guys and the bad guys. Don't care what others think of you. It's good to be happy. There's no need to feel inferior or anything. It's enough to make memories worth remembering and being worthy of yourself, isn't it?

Learn to say no and help others appropriately, but not just give. Sometimes you should also think about yourself, real friends don't blindly need your help, friends are mutual.

Dear Lou Lou, I can guarantee that it is the people around you who have a problem. I have a similar personality as you, I don't reject people, and I have a lot of friends, but what I do to them, they do to me, and this doesn't happen. Why don't you reflect on yourself first, are you too submissive to others?

Lose your temper once in a while, but not often, or others will think you're out of temper. Anyway, I'm also a temperamental person...By the way, you must also have principles, whoever violates your bottom line will turn your face with whom, don't show mercy. Actually, I still think it's a problem with the people around you, and the above ones are also a suggestion, so I hope to adopt them

Society is often like this, around everyone, real friends will not be more than 5 people, you can do an experimental test (provided that you are psychologically prepared), pick a time to tell your friends, you encounter something short of money, borrow a 5k or so, at this time will lend you often your friends worthy of deep friendship! Contrarily... You should be able to understand!

See if there are some public welfare (volunteer) activities in your city, and you can be a volunteer, at least it means that the quality will not be bad to **, participate more, and know more people.

To put it another way, what do you think if your friends have dinner with you and they don't care about you by themselves, or A pours wine for B, but only doesn't pour you wine. Now that you are with everyone, everyone's default etiquette must be followed, people will think that you think of others, if you are on that occasion, only pour for yourself, they will think that you are selfish... I don't know etiquette...

Either don't go out with everyone, since you want to go out, you have to obey everyone's etiquette... It's nothing. No matter how good a friend is, there are some etiquettes that still have to be observed...

That's not good, why don't you listen to others? If you say that you have always been like this, it can only mean that you are a very subjective person, and someone may have reminded you before you developed this habit, but you didn't listen. That's why we are in the situation now.

Your classmates might be joking with you, too, so you don't have to worry too much.

If it's an old classmate, it's another matter if you're already working, people will change when they grow up, and the mentality of the person who questioned you may not be the classmate of the year.

He can tell you that it's rude'Educate you'It's been made clear that he treats you as a friend'I don't want you to make a fool of yourself in front of outsiders.

Friends sometimes want to say thank you, and you have to say a lot of things, otherwise how will others know what you think?

Don't live in the painful memories of the past, meet new friends, because over the years your way of life, in fact, has made you miss many opportunities, whether it is work and study, or even love, you yourself have brought spiritual shackles, you are wasting your life, this is more terrible than suicide, love is not the whole meaning of life, assuming that 7 years ago you got "love" as you wished, now your life is not a big stall of housework and children's daily trivial things, how can you be at ease now, Enjoying being young and free, you are actually living in happiness, and if you have a child like you are now, what would you want him or her to do?

Seeing your problem, I first felt sympathy, really, very sorry for you!

However, people always have to face life, and you can't be in such a state of escape forever! You can try to make friends with the people around you, and over time, you will integrate into this society! It's best to be alive, at least you have the capital!

Maybe I won't understand your feelings before, I've experienced so many things over the years, I've grown up, I can only say about you, : your best friend "including boyfriend and girlfriend" may betray you and cheat you, but your parents may treat you badly, maybe they have hurt you, sorry for you, but they won't hurt you, which parent in the world is not hoping that their son will become a dragon, and their daughter will become a phoenix, no parent will say: you must not study well, ask your children to harm others, If you have to separate your own affairs from your family's affairs, there may be bad friends, if you have one or two friends, they may not be good, and they have thoughts about you, but if you have ten, twenty, hundred, two hundred friends, there will always be a few people in it who will think about you and care about you.

Don't always close yourself off, learn to step out of your shadow. Closing yourself off does not solve the problem, dare to face yourself, dare to face your family, dare to face your friends, 、、、

1: She regards herself as a queen, so she is more arrogant, and she shows disdain for the opposite sex. 2：

Hypocrisy, most of them are used to at home, and everything comes from temperament, which is very bad. 3: This is a sign of immaturity, it is useless for the same sex, and it may be a little useful for different sails and biqing sex (some boys think that girls who love to be coquettish are cute and will stimulate their desire to protect).

Your handwriting is very interesting.

First of all, I'm also a student. After all, I've experienced this kind of thing, and I've probably been experiencing it recently. It's useless to say more, it's better for you to adjust it yourself.

I was also framed behind my back, and I was almost beaten by someone who mistakenly thought it was real. But the girls, that is, out of jealousy, contempt, or something, it's their own opinion, don't hurt yourself because of these things.