How can I make myself hard hearted?

If you really want to be hard-hearted, you can try the following methods.

1: When someone asks you, you don't agree no matter what happens to the other person. It doesn't matter if the other party wants to die or whatever, he won't agree.

2: When you see someone injured or you don't see anything, you walk away coldly.

3: Do not participate in any charity activities.

4: Don't change your opinion, even if your loved ones beg for it.

5: You won't shed tears when you watch any tragedy movie, telling yourself that it's all a lie.

6: To doubt all the people in this world. People who don't believe in any!

If you can do that, you should be fine.

Hello. I understand your situation very well, personality is difficult to change, it is not a good thing to be hard-hearted, but I already understand the idea that you want to develop in this direction, if you can endure it, if others do more than you can bear, it will be a touch, to let others know what to do and what not to do, if you want others to respect you, first of all, you must respect others, although I don't understand what you reflect above caused you to be like this, but it is definitely not caused by this emotion, Be clear about your weaknesses and strengths.

The important thing is to be confident, don't complain, is your existence to let you live a rotten life? No, you can control your every move, you must have the determination to be broken rather than complete, you must have the horizontal heart of iron and sharpening into a needle, believe that your body is controlled by your own mind, and believe that you are different. You won't find anyone like you in the world.

Because you are special.

Even if there is nothing, no money, no love, etc., you still have the morning sunshine and your own heart. A mind that can keep growing and make up for its shortcomings.

Read more psychological books, such as parchment rolls, etc., and you can enjoy pleasure and why not experience pain

Although I can only give you a meager help in words, the only one who can really help you is myself.

Touching a hard-hearted person may require the following efforts and precautions:

1.Understand and respect: Understand their difficulties and feelings, respect their choices and decisions, and do not deliberately interfere or change them.

2.Build trust: Establish a good communication and trust relationship with them, gradually gain their trust and dependence, and make them willing to share their true thoughts or voices with you.

3.Give care and support: Give genuine care and support when they need help or support so they feel cared for and understood.

4.Be patient and persistent: Hard-hearted people may develop an attitude of indifference or rejection towards you, but stick to your efforts, be patient and wait, and gradually influence them.

5.Express sincerity and kindness: Treat them with sincerity and kindness, without any hypocrisy or pretense, and let them feel your sincerity and kindness.

6.Take practical actions: not only express your care and support with words, but also prove your sincerity and sincerity with practical actions, so that they can feel your dedication and efforts.

In short, touching a hard-hearted person requires long-term efforts and persistence, and you need to treat them with sincerity and kindness, get close to their hearts with understanding and respect, and prove your sincerity and sincerity with practical actions.

I would like to say. There is no such thing as a hard-hearted person in the world who gives you a hard-hearted feeling.

It must have been his previous experiences that made him dread to give and show others what he was thinking about, and he wanted to move such people.

You have to understand what it was like to be an experience that made him realize what the past was. In other words, to eliminate the struggle in his heart, I hope that Your Excellency can do this for good.

Reference: Silly Ziwen's life experience.

Hard-hearted people hate people who lie about it, and a nonsense word is enough to overturn the good impression you have built up about him; 2.Loyalty: Hard-hearted people hate the feeling of being betrayed and betrayed the most, and must not say one thing and do another in front of these people; 3.

Fact: Hard-hearted people are absolutely rational one-way creatures, and will only be moved by relevant people, things, and things when they are reasonable, don't say some specious theories to this kind of people, and don't miss the topic, which will make him feel that you are wasting his time and energy; 4.Time:

Hard-hearted people will not be touched by your kind words, half a good thing, this kind of people are accustomed to long-term observation of whether the opponent (party) is really consistent with words and deeds, implement throughout, and be cautious when he affirms your value, he will open his heart. Note: Hard-hearted people are more tolerant of things and things, but they are very wary of people, and if a thing involves people, they will adhere to a set of concepts of self-forgiveness.

So, is it hard to get a hard-hearted orange or a person? Not necessarily, the trick is to be complex and simplistic. In fact, the hard-hearted man seems to be very complicated and difficult to understand on the surface, but when he takes off his armor-like defensive clothing, he is the most simple-minded person.

Bad opinion, I don't know if you can feel the same way? ^

You can first use an o ordinary person to hear a good feel o both in advance to move the fruit of the individual and then speak out of the matter!

It's hard to love someone, and it's even harder to give up your beloved.

Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love.

Loneliness is not something you are born with, but it starts the moment you fall in love with someone.

I love you and I'm willing to give up everything – including you – for your happiness.

Love can corrupt another otherwise noble person, or it can ennoble a fallen person.

A man who knows that you love him will not open his mouth to say that he loves you because he has the upper hand. Men will only say "I love you" to women when they are not confident enough

Love, sometimes, is a sinking thing, and the so-called reason and determination are nothing but ridiculous words of self-consolation.

When you love someone, even torture is a kind of happiness, and the initial love is the best, and then it becomes bad. Don't squander love, love will run out.

Between men and women, it is often either a reward or a punishment. You thank God for letting you meet this person, and at the same time, you suspect that God sent this person to punish you. Why is only He the only one who can make you happy and give you pain, why are you willful and willing to change for him?

Why are you, who are not afraid of the sky and the earth, but afraid of him?

The only thing that can forcibly usurp a man's memories is to live better.

If you want to keep a man around, you have to let him know that you can leave him at any time.

A woman will worry about the future until she finds a husband, and a man will never worry about the future until she finds a wife.

.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.

If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.

Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Go for it! It's hard to live because the society is very unfair, and it's very helpless to live Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it's not boring, because life is like this, no one's life is smooth sailing, and when you encounter anything, you have to be optimistic and keep a normal heart. Just keep in mind:

Don't give up this second, there is a miracle in the next second, life will inevitably fall and wait, look up bravely, the sun is always after the wind and rain, and finally wish you a happy life!

Actually, I think it's not a thing worth pursuing, it's hard for people with a heart of stone to get simple happiness, I don't know if you've been hit by anything, but, being strong is the result of a person cherishing himself and having confidence in himself, if you want to be strong, you must first establish your own self-confidence, you have to believe in yourself, you have to find that you can live a good life by yourself, you don't rely on anyone, your happiness is based on your own attitude, this is the attitude to fundamentally change, at the same time, You have to cherish yourself, cherish your time, and actively look for things that interest you, and people can build a unique temperament in what they like to do. Don't care what other people think, let other people's ideas enslave you, and you don't live for them. You must know that those who live for themselves, those who live wonderfully, your confidant in the dark will slowly draw closer to you.

Isn't that a beautiful thing?

It's easier said than done. I wish you happiness and happiness. ,

Only when you have experienced a lot of things can you see the truth of this society, and then be hit by one thing after another, in order to survive in society, you can only continue to exercise yourself and sharpen yourself, so it will be easy to become hard-hearted. Not everyone is born a hard-hearted person, but they are forced by society and life to have no way out, so they will use iron-hearted hearts to protect themselves and protect the people they care about. As long as you have a trace of compassion, it is not easy to become a hard-hearted person, so if you want to become hard-hearted, you must first put away your compassion.

As the saying goes, "those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black", so you must contact that kind of person first, which is a way to learn hard-hearted people faster and easier. Hard-hearted people are generally more ruthless characters, no matter what they do, they will not show mercy to them, and they always show no mercy in what they do, so it is difficult for hard-hearted people to find their bosom friends, because most of them are hard-hearted people, and they will not show mercy to anyone. If you want to become hard-hearted, you can also watch some TV series or some books to experience for yourself how to become hard-hearted.

The best effect of becoming hard-hearted is to experience some by yourself, only the environment around you becomes unacceptable to yourself, then in order to survive, you will become a hard-hearted person, and the surrounding environment can change a person to a great extent, so if you want to become hard-hearted, it is better to change your surroundings first.

The so-called hard-hearted heart is ruthless, unrighteous, heartless, and heartless. If you want to be ruthless and unrighteous, first of all, you can't have a very good memory, why, because if you want to be ruthless, you must first forget your feelings, that is, you can't remember the good things that others have for you, your feelings, and even forget all the good things before, so that slowly you will think that you are not good to you, and subconsciously you don't want to be good to others, and gradually you will become a hard-hearted person who is not good to anyone and does not give any feelings. The same is true of unrighteousness, which may need to reach a level of complete self-centeredness, doing everything only for oneself and not thinking of other people, which is also hard-hearted.

Of course, I think you should go through a painful experience, this kind of experience is enough to make you forget any feelings, make you feel that you will not love again in this life, let you think back to the present and still have a pain in your heart, recall the powerlessness that you can't sleep every night, all because of that heart-rending experience, now that the matter has passed, you also want to open, so when you have the idea of completely letting go, you may become a hard-hearted person. The following is my personal opinion, I think it is impossible to become a real hard-hearted person, because people are hot-blooded animals, it is impossible to completely let go of feelings, everyone must have a few things in their hearts that can touch their heartstrings, if you really encounter something really uncomfortable, so that you have this kind of thought, I think you can go to a close friend to chat, feel the beautiful feelings between people again, maybe there will be no such thoughts.