Two people who have been separated for three years, can they continue?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think it's okay, there's nothing impossible, as long as you really want to do it.

    Aren't people always saying that "there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts", what happens if you are separated for three years, even if you are separated for a long time, if you still want to be able to continue to be together, then there will be no one to stop you, after all, this is a matter for the two of you. However, what I'm afraid of is that I don't want to continue so much, and I'm afraid that you don't like each other so much.

    Some people say that time is a magical thing that will make the injured person no longer feel pain, and even the wound in the heart can be healed. But there are also people who say that time is a cruel thing, and sometimes it separates two people who were originally together, and also makes the people who originally liked each other no longer like each other. Time always seems to dilute people's feelings, but in fact, there are many times when people's feelings become deeper and deeper.

    is like He Yichen and Zhao Mosheng in "He Yisheng Xiaomo", they used to like each other very much, but they separated for some reasons. But even after seven years of separation, even though they were in two different countries for several years, they did not forget each other because of the passage of time. When they met again, their hearts were still beating for each other.

    So, in the end, even after such a long time, they continued to come together, and then got married and had children, and were happy.

    Don't say it's because in TV dramas, in fact, not only in TV dramas, but also in real life, there are many such things, and I myself am a living example. When I was in junior high school, I had a "puppy love", and I didn't understand a lot of things at that time, but I knew that we were very happy and happy together. But at that time, we didn't have the ability to take responsibility for our own feelings, and we couldn't even talk about the future in the future.

    In the end, we couldn't avoid a breakup. For a long time since then, the two of us have barely been in touch. I've been a college student since I was in junior high school, and it's been a few years.

    That is, we only talked for a few days before the summer vacation this year, and we made an appointment to go out to play together when we got home from the holidays.

    When we met again, there was a very strange feeling at that time, obviously it was someone we hadn't seen for several years, but when we met again, we didn't feel strange or embarrassed. It feels more like we haven't been apart for a long time, and it's still a familiar feeling. I just played together a few times, and what I didn't expect was that he is now my boyfriend again, which means that even after all these years, we continue to be together again.

    It's impossible to go back to the beginning, so what's the matter with that, it's nice to be just as happy.

    So, there's nothing that can't be enough, three years is not a problem at all. The real question is, do your hearts still beat for each other? If you still like each other, the time spent three years apart cannot be a reason not to continue, but liking is a reason to continue.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you still have feelings for each other, even if you are separated for ten years, then you can still be together. But you still don't have too much hope, after all, three years is enough to forget a lot of people, and I suggest you can test the other party first.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Separation does not necessarily mean breaking up", this lyric sang the hearts of many people back then, if they were separated because of unavoidable reasons, and they were still worried about each other in their hearts, then they could continue, after all, the hearts of two people have never been separated.

    The soldier's brother has been gone for four years, and his girlfriend who was together in high school, the kind he doesn't marry, has been waiting for him to come back in his hometown, because the army that his brother went to is completely closed, so in the past four years, they have simply passed a few times, let alone met, but the two did not give up, the girl's family urged her to go on a blind date and get married more than once, but she refused, she said that her brother was only alone in her heart, and she would always wait for him to come back. Lovers will be happy after all, after my brother came back from the army, they finally achieved positive results, four years of separation, and did not defeat them, it was their persistence in exchange for a lifetime of happiness.

    However, in life, it is more of one of them who abandons the person in front of him because of the freshness, and after the waves are enough, he turns around and finds that she is still good as she used to be, so he begs to get back together, and the other party has not met the right one, so he will be shaken. When you encounter this situation, you have to think about it, since they abandoned you for the first time, then after two or three years, who can guarantee that the same thing will not happen a second or third time? What's more, three years, what kind of sadness and sadness you have experienced in these three years, he doesn't know anything, why do you want to repeat the same mistakes.

    People who have been separated for two or three years have their own reasons for separation, if it is because of a wrong decision, and the right person is lost, then never continue, because it is enough to hurt a person once, the heart is such a fragile thing, it will be broken when touched, and it can't withstand the toss of feelings back and forth, everyone is okay, don't come to break the contact and stage the farce again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, as long as your relationship has not deteriorated and you are still loving each other, you can continue.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If the two of you can still connect, and there is still a relationship, you can continue.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think as long as two people like each other. Nothing was a problem, my cousin and her boyfriend got back together after a few years of separation, and later got married.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe you just feel that you don't need so much money, so it's not easy to put it all in your place, you can communicate with each other, communicate, and tolerate each other for two months, understand each other, and trust each other. 4.Life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless.

    If everything is fate, life will be easier. The heart has everything, the heart is empty, and everything is empty; The heart is obsessed with everything, and the heart understands everything; The heart is evil and all evil, and the heart is righteous and everything is right; The heart is in turmoil, everything is in chaos, and the heart is at peace; Everything is made by the mind, and there is no mind to liberate itself.

    5.If there is fate, if you miss it, you will come back; If you don't have a chance, you will leave if you meet. There are reasons to get together, there are excuses to leave, there are no ifs in life, only consequences and results.

    6.If everything can be predicted to be good or bad, how can there be accidents and surprises in life? Some things are not insisted on because they see hope, but because they persevere, they will see hope!

    7.A person's maturity is not manifested in how many achievements he has achieved, but in the face of those people and things that he dislikes, he does not cater to them or resist them, and only smiles indifferently at them.

    8.There are two realms in life, pain without words, laughter without words.

    9.How far a man can go depends on who he has with him; How good a person is depends on who he has to guide him; How successful a person is depends on who he has with him.

    10.Life is like a book, the fool turns it to the sage, and the sage reads it carefully.

    11.The widest in the world is the heart, the heart is leisurely, the heart is wide, the heart is right, the things are few, the life is open-minded, the life is free, the life is wide, is the housework of life, the life of the trade-off, is the true wisdom of life. Troubles are not springs, fingers are flicking, thank those who don't remember, live the frankness in their hearts.

    This is the only Cihang ...... in life

    12.In this world, there are too many whys without answers, and too many answers without whys. This road can only be walked alone, no matter what kind of posture.

    13.The road I have traveled has been long, I have met more people, and I have experienced a lot of things. I inadvertently found that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart, the wisdom and sobriety of the mind.

    14.Life can't be as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think it is. Human beings are more fragile and strong than they can imagine. Sometimes, you may be so fragile that you burst into tears at a single word, and sometimes, you can also find yourself gritting your teeth and walking a long way.

    15.Life is just a journey, you pass by me, I pass by you, and then each moves forward, each practicing separately. Trekking through the years, everyone has their own story, and the mood will be beautiful when you look down, and the mood will be bright when you look at it.

    Play your part well and do what you have to do.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, I'm your one more counselor, thank you for meeting you in this space, dear, seeing your description, you have some confusion about the impact on another person, why is it that you have been separated for a long time, and it will still exist is that two people together will have a lot of memories or the formation of consciousness that will have an impact on you, not the person itself, but the person and you get along, the memories formed in your mind, some memories in history, some memories, although they have not been recorded, But he already exists in the subconscious, or has formed a memory button that touches when some event happens. At this time, the door of our memory will be opened, which will affect our actions, pure thinking, and even emotions.

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