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The main reason you have is that you are not very honest with everyone. When someone is talking, for example, when asking a certain question, you should be confident in him and face him squarely, what is there to be afraid of. Besides, when you do this, people think that you are insincere, and you feel that you are perfunctory.
There is a feeling that I am not being taken very seriously.
I'm like this, if I talk to someone and he doesn't look at me, I feel that he doesn't want to talk to me, so I won't talk to him anymore. And it will be far away from this person in the future.
Be brave and take it one step at a time. You're going to grow. Hee-hee!
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I don't think you're very bold, so you have to train yourself more and participate in more activities. If you get used to it, you will dare. Because I was like that before, but not anymore, because that's how I did it, and you have to do it!
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According to my observations, first of all, you are generally a person who has been online for a long time, and your eyes are more tired, and your eyes are tired when looking at people. Secondly, he is also very introverted, and when he talks to others, he feels very twisted and unnatural. Finally, I am also a person who pays a lot of attention to what others say about you, and often other people's comments can change your mood.
To sum up, if correct! I'll give you another advice, if it's not right, you'll laugh it off!
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I support the statement upstairs. It's okay to be confident, or just look at the other person's eyebrows, get closer to the eyes, and the other party still thinks you're looking at his eyes.
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I didn't dare to look at it, but later, my friend told me that it was rude not to look at other people's eyes when I spoke.
Well, I forced myself to look at it.
At first, I looked at it occasionally when I was talking, but then I got better.
In short, 9 force yourself to watch, and after a few months, you will definitely get used to it.
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Hehe, that's an interesting question, and it's a very special one! When you speak, you have to look at the "center of the eyebrows" of the other person, which is the position between the eyebrows!!
If you look into other people's eyes, you will have a feeling of aggressiveness, and if you don't look at it, it will give people a feeling of timidity and shame
Remember, look at the eyebrows!! It's scientifically backed and I think it's very easy to use!
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You can practice looking at cats and dogs. Then find someone else to practice.
But don't look at girls on the road, be careful of being K
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Actually, I am the same.
Be bold.
I've been trying to convince myself that.
Actually, we're not bad.
Live for yourself.
And why care about other people's feelings.
Look at them bravely.
We. It's just as great!
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Stress yourself out and maybe help yourself!
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That's a sign of not having confidence in yourself. Self-confidence is cultivated on your own.
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Hehe, be confident
Pour yourself more advantages!
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You may have low self-esteem.
Find self-confidence.
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Imagine each other's heads, just a watermelon. A watermelon that makes a sound Watermelon Watermelon Watermelon Watermelon All you see is a watermelon
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In front of you is a blank slate.
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Top it.,And the landlord has the same problem,
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yes, I don't dare to face it.
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The above method is so funny.
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Suspicious people are prone to this kind of mental illness, and there is a lot of pressure The power of this disease is not small, a look can offend a person, the solution:
1 Don't think about it, just be natural (why aren't children afraid?) Because they have no worries)2 Look at the whole face, not just the eyes (the state of ordinary people)3 Divert your attention (think about other things, the psychological pressure will naturally come down)4 Cheer yourself up and increase your confidence (others are not afraid, what are you afraid of?) 5 Clear thinking (only thinking about problems, not caring about the external, the body is controlled by thoughts) 5:
As long as you are not nervous and relaxed, in fact, no matter where you look, whether you look at the other person's eyes, nose, or mouth, you are all a normal person. (The state is how you look at people when you are alone).
6 It is the eyes that look at people, not the eyes (as we usually call eye contact)7 There is a song called "Eyes Are Empty," which means "do not put anything in your eyes."
8 Find a picture to practice (e.g. computer desktop).
9 The most important and important thing is to maintain an optimistic attitude (the demons of the heart will go naturally).
The eyes of each of us are actually a very important emotional window. We may control our mouths to lie, to control our minds not to think about things, but we have a hard time controlling our eyes to transmit our likes, dislikes, and inferiorities to the person standing across from us. So we will subconsciously avoid the eyes of others.
This needs to be overcome, and you need to train your courage from little things to have a lot of courage.
First of all, look at the cause of double vision, if there is a disease in the eye, you need to take medicine, medicine or surgery, if you are myopic or blind, you need glasses, if you don't rest well, take a good rest!
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