How can college students overcome impetuousness?

Impetuousness is not a new topic, it has become a common problem in almost every one of us nowadays. And college students, as a group that accounts for the majority of young people, their impetuousness can be said to be obvious. So how can college students slow down their impetuousness?

The first point is to learn to be cautious. I believe that many of us have lamented that it is rare to have a confidant in life, but we must be clearly aware that whether it is love, friendship, or even the family relationship that is connected to our blood, it cannot become our shelter in the end. We came into this world, and all the joys, sorrows, fears, loves, and evil desires were destined to be borne by one person.

So we are all loners in the end, and we don't want to force someone to be with us. Learn to be cautious, and you will find that you will sink a lot.

The second point is to set goals. The reason for impetuousness is probably that we are overwhelmed by ourselves and feel that we have nowhere to put them. The good thing about having a goal is that you know you're going to be the best way to go, even if it's a tough process.

But there is nothing simple in life. Therefore, the heart has a direction and sets a goal. I believe that this will enhance our sense of steadiness and self-confidence, and impetuousness will naturally decrease.

The third point is to act now. We sometimes get used to telling ourselves "let's go tomorrow" and "wait a minute", and the more we procrastinate, the more things accumulate and the more we don't want to do it. However, "not wanting to do" does not mean that we will not do it, and if we avoid it and procrastinate, things will still be there.

So we were impetuous and impetuous there, but this is the reality, so we have to push ourselves hard and act immediately. I think it's a good idea to learn to imagine the benefits of getting things done right away. Many times when I want to procrastinate something, this is the method that allows me to finish it ahead of schedule.

In life, if you don't push yourself, you really can't know how far you can go.

The fourth point is to empty yourself. The emptiness here is the emptiness of the mind, looking for a quiet place and moment, allowing the branches of the mind to touch the outside world, and then you slowly and slowly try to "communicate" with what you touch, I believe that after some attempts, we will find ourselves growing and gaining, at this time, you no longer know what impetuousness is.

That's right, find someone who shares the same ideals.

I used to go to college like that, I was classmates with two other dorm people, competing to write software, than artificial intelligence, etc.

You're chasing me.

You mainly don't have a clear goal in life, so you can see everything and want to learn everything. Set yourself a goal.

It is enough to have a confidant in life. Find a like-minded person and work together.

I don't agree with "floating", because today's children, especially college students, have their own opinions and opinions, and deep down they will no longer follow the crowd. The flamboyance thus manifested makes outsiders look frivolous, but they don't know the height of the sky. On the contrary, it is precisely because of this spirit of "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers" that they will not be conservative and will be creative.

When I say "manic", I have some acquiescence. Young and vigorous, and just out of school, this is not used to it, and it is not used to it, and it has the meaning of "the world is turbid and I am alone". Society is complex, and people can't be labeled, and they can read and understand society and life, but they can't precipitate.

At that time, the chairman of *** said, "You must first be a student of the masses, and then be a gentleman of the masses", college students can become real elites, "you can't sit on the cold bench for ten years" is what it means.

Of course, we can't generalize about college students, because after all, some people have deliberately come into contact with and understand the society during their studies, and have undergone some exercises or tests, and these people must have matured a lot, and they will be familiar with the society.

When I first entered the university, I was like a wild horse that had escaped the reins, without the shackles of the college entrance examination, and my life was reckless. There are few courses and a lot of time, so you can squander them at will. After a year, I found that I didn't know anything, and I was at risk of failing the exam.

So, where did all the time go? Entertainment headlines, student gossip, big and fierce talks, film and television resources, games, outings, etc. occupy life.

Almost every day, I scroll through Weibo, brush up on headlines, pay attention to celebrity events, and if someone asks me about the entertainment news of the day, I can talk a lot about it. However, I don't know anything about current political news and national hot spots, and I laugh when I see it as if I don't see it. When I first entered college, I was very keen on social activities, and I knew some people from freshman to senior year, and the people in the circle of friends were called one more, and I could chat with people I hadn't seen until the dark, and if someone said who was who, I immediately replied, oh oh, I know this person, how is he...Of course, college students are still strong supporters of Jack Ma, and people who stay at home can't do without **, buy what they lack, and go shopping every day.

When you are bored, you can watch all kinds of **, in order to pass the loneliness, you will watch bloody family ethics dramas. Occasionally I play games. The most is to go out with friends, and some of the friends don't know each other at all, so they can still go out to eat and drink K songs together.

And so it went by.

A year has passed, and looking back, my life is colorful in the eyes of others, how hi! I feel that my life is a mess. What's the use of knowing more entertainment news, and not being a journalist.

Brush ** to buy something, but in the end I found that Qin You was deleted by the merchant many times, and the thing was not used as soon as it was bought, which was a waste of money. No matter how much I watch TV series, I have cried and laughed, and it is not my own life. The game is even more useless.

As for friends, I can only say hehe, most of them are prodigal sons who play on the spot, it's okay to be hi together when you're high, and when you have something, it's definitely a stranger-like existence.

Suddenly, I felt like I was sober, I felt that I couldn't live like this anymore, and I wanted to try to live a different life, so I studied hard for a long time and persevered for a while, but I found that the people around me were still experiencing what you had experienced, and they would pull you in and be bored with them.

I still haven't figured out how to live in college. The days passed in impetuousness.

1. Stay away from mobile phones, stay away from social networks, and strive to return to reality.

2. Learn to be alone, don't have too much communication, slowly think about what you really want, and slowly get used to the slow-paced life in the state.

3. Find a goal to strive for, and it is realistic and feasible.

4. Don't deliberately fall in love, don't be in a hurry to fall in love, and don't envy the couples around you.

5. Constantly enrich yourself and be confident in the future. Thinking that I have to work hard, and I am also working hard, thinking about what a happy thing it is to get what I want through my own efforts! Of course, when you have experienced a lot of things and seen all the things in the world, nature will be quiet.

For some people who have not experienced failure and frustration, or who have not experienced success and being appreciated by others, they will be too impetuous, because they have less motivation to motivate quiet.

Therefore, it cannot be said that college students are too impetuous, some college students with ideals and dreams work hard every day for their future, and they have no time to be impetuous, and they are not in the mood ......to be impetuous

Perhaps, the society also puts too much pressure on college students, that is, they think that college students are high-quality talents, but they do not let this quality show ......Hehe......Contradictory social ......

However, it is not wrong to be impetuous, and if you can calm down and be down-to-earth, it will be better ......

Nowadays, college students are more or less impetuous, which should be related to the lack of stress or motivation!

The main reason is that I don't like to endure hardship, and I have more theory and less practice.

You should do this in college so that you don't feel impetuous. It's the beginning of the school year, and the number of college students is increasing. It's really growing every year compared to before.

The study time in college is relatively easy, compared to high school, and the time to play has also increased a lot, many college students will become particularly impetuous, the following will be sorted out for you, you can take a serious look. <>

Find a good learning environment. There are usually four people, six or eight people in the university dormitory, and it is impossible for all of them to study at the same time, and some of them will definitely be playing, if they see others playing, can they still study? Of course, some people will say that their self-control is not good, and there is no objection here.

If you study, you should have a good learning atmosphere, and other people don't have a good self-control ability when they are studying, so the university dormitory, so it seems that it is not a suitable place to study, and most of the places in the dormitory are very full, and the place on the desk is also very small. After seeing the bed, many people want to lie down. It's not a good way to learn.

And in the university dormitory that roommates often play with mobile phones, the sound is played, for their own learning is also a certain impact, if you want to study seriously, we had better find a library, there are a lot of students to study, there is a good atmosphere, if you see that she is studying, we will feel very embarrassed to play by ourselves, so that we can also achieve a role in urging themselves to study. <>

Then it's about getting involved in learning. Although they are in college, the study time is relatively relaxed, but of course, their main task is to study. Obtaining a variety of certificates used in the work is very helpful for finding a job in the future, and the above are some of the knowledge points that have been sorted out, I hope the eldest brother can take a look at it carefully and carefully, which is very helpful to everyone.

Less comparison, more effort, because most of the impetuousness of college students is affected by the environment, self-disciplined learning, not to compare with other classmates, you can effectively avoid impetuousness.

First of all, stick to writing a planner and make a list of what tasks you have to do every day, and when you have a plan for your life, you will feel that you are living a fulfilling life and will not be very impetuous. Secondly, you can meditate for a certain amount of time every day, 5 minutes, 10 minutes, or 15 minutes, and in the process of meditation, you will learn more about yourself, about your own body, about your own heart, when you really sink your mind to understand yourself. You won't feel impetuous.

Always reflect on your own shortcomings. And keep setting goals for yourself. This way you can make yourself less impetuous.

You can join some clubs engaged in scientific research and innovation, or read more books, and try to find something to do. When you have something to do, you will have a sense of steadiness, and you will naturally not be so impetuous.

Stay away from short-lived entertainment. In other words, if you stay away from your mobile phone, your brain will calm down to read and study after reading too much fragmented information, which will inevitably become impetuous.

Learn to learn and learn, of course, the most important thing is to find things to do for yourself, find serious things to do, when you are doing things anytime and anywhere, and you are clear about your goals every moment, there is naturally no time to be impetuous.

Learn to draw. Painting is a very time-consuming and energy-consuming thing, and when you paint, you can calm down and not be impetuous.

Calm down, don't fool around with classmates who don't mess around, have your own plans, follow small goals step by step, achieve each goal, and don't know how to check and ask more.

In fact, as far as I am concerned, this question is also what I have been thinking about.

In fact, I think that not being impetuous, in fact, can be done quietly.

The heart, only when it is quiet, can it not be impetuous.

So, the first way is to read a book. In fact, many types of books are beneficial, and being able to find a place to sit down and read a book quietly at a specific time every day without thinking about other things and putting your mobile phone aside is actually a good opportunity to communicate with the author and yourself. Sink into it, swim in it alone, and gradually exercise a kind of mental tranquility, which is a kind of non-impetuousness.

The second way is to write an article. It is actually a very useful way to write down what you have seen, heard, and felt every day, to reflect on your gains and losses every day, and to be able to think calmly every day.

Third, choose something you love to do and do it consistently. As the saying goes, interest is the best teacher, and being able to do what you love happily every day is indeed a way to engage people.

At the end of the day, I think the core of these methods is actually a kind of putting your mind into doing something that is truly happy and beneficial. Impetuousness has long been synonymous with many college students, and although many people want to change, they are only going to follow the trend in vain, and they are not completely eager to change.

Therefore, in fact, only the heart, calming down, is the only way to solve impetuousness, there is no one, and this is what our college students urgently need!