How can a man be called a success? What does it take for a man to be successful?

A good career, a happy family, a successful child's education, and fraternity from the bottom of our hearts are all considered successful.

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As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

How can a man be considered successful?

There is no fixed answer to what makes a man successful and what is a successful man, because everyone's success is different, you may be successful in one aspect, but you may be a failed man in other aspects. Want to know what it takes for a man to be successful?

1. Calm Don't show your emotions casually; Don't tell people about your difficulties and experiences; Don't nag your grievances at every opportunity; Don't be flustered when you speak, and walk too. Think for yourself before asking for someone else's opinion, but don't talk about it first. Important decisions should be discussed with others as much as possible, and it is best to release them every other day.

Confidence is good, but don't ignore anyone's thoughts. There are no high or low people, don't look like a drag, don't be polite to people and things. Learning to admit defeat is to bite the dog even if you are bitten by a dog; is that after being bitten by a mosquito, he does not go to the mosquito court to seek justice; In our life, we can make very few friends, so we must be our most loyal friends, be able to recognize ourselves, not deceive ourselves, and be our own love life.

2. Be careful to explore the root crux of the problems that are not in place; Cultivate the habit of being methodical and orderly in everything you do. I have to fill in the gaps anytime and anywhere. Always think about the cause and effect of what is happening around you.

For the accustomed way of doing things, there should be suggestions for improvement or optimization. I often go to find a few faults or drawbacks that others can't see. In life, the biggest regret is that you can't stand far away to look at yourself, and the biggest difficulty is that you can't overcome yourself.

Achievement tends to favor those who are humble and can constantly examine themselves. What can make you gradually stronger is not persistence, but letting go; What can make you slowly indifferent is not to gain, but to lose; What can make you ascend is not the shoulders of others, but the knowledge of your heart;

3. Try to discover the truth, goodness and beauty in life When a man reaches his twenties, he must learn how to face life. What is "true" is more and more difficult for men nowadays, and that is because men nowadays are very impetuous, and they don't understand what it means to live "sincerely". "True" means seeking truth from yourself, don't lie to yourself, and don't lie to others; "True" means to be honest, to do things honestly, and honest men are the loveliest.

"Goodness" naturally means kindness. To be kind to others is to be kind to your own life. "Kindness" is actually around each of us, don't embarrass others, don't sarcasm others, don't insult others, it's a kind act.

Sometimes a little kindness from you can bear a good fruit and make your life happy. Don't always worry about your own misfortune, which will only make your life more unfortunate. You feel "unlucky" because you can't face life optimistically, life is always full of hope.

As long as you keep looking up and looking at the sun, you can feel the warmth. If you are optimistic about a better life in warmth, you will naturally be able to find beauty.

1. Pay attention to promises, successful men will never go back on their word, he attaches great importance to each of his promises, and carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled before making a wish. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trusted. The man who runs the train with his mouth, fires empty cannons indiscriminately, and can't take action for a long time, has nothing to do with maturity.

Second, do not exaggerate. A successful man never talks casually, he will grasp the appropriate silence, and speak clearly but not babblingly. Just drink a little wine and tell a little story about your own little experience all over the table, and half a room can hear it without a loudspeaker, this kind of man, at most, will make the audience laugh, and no one will put your various so-called "road of struggle" in their hearts.

3. Knowledgeable and subtle and introverted. They read books, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their connotations. But they are unassuming, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they are never deliberately showy in order to satisfy their vanity.

They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the more you taste it. Fourth, broad-minded. Successful men don't care, they don't covet small gains, they don't care about small losses, and they don't chatter about this and that.

Their vision is never stumped by trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family. Success 5. Not self-centered. Men respect themselves and know how to respect others even more.

They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men who are "how I am", the typical little emperor's temper, have not grown up yet. 6. Have the courage to admit mistakes.

Successful men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at good advice. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their own inappropriate decisions, and never make excuses to prevaricate. 7. Be strong-willed.

Successful men have the psychological quality of not messing around, once they determine the goal they are striving for, they work towards it, and when they encounter setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and correct the direction in time, but they never give up easily. They will be tired, but after resting, they will set out with confidence. 8. Clean and tidy.

Successful men respect their appearance. They have a hairstyle that suits them best, a clean chin without stubble, a face that is not greasy, and no long nails. The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they are neat and generous, and they won't be crumpled like a courier.

They will never wear black leather shoes and white socks and wear suits to travel. 9. Successful men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility, and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give up his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the affected areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood ...... voluntarilyThey don't necessarily do all of these things, but they don't do nothing.

10. Have hobbies. They are not robots who only know how to work, they know how to use their hobbies to regulate their tense nerves, and they can work and relax at the same time, which makes them interesting. No wonder the women say:

Men with hobbies are not easy to get bad.

The views of the older generation and the young people today are different, talk about the general views of the older generation, according to most of the reactions now, in their eyes, they have a house in the county, a private car, have married and have children, have a high status in some state-owned enterprises or private enterprises, receive tens of thousands or even tens of thousands of wages, or their own companies, factories, private wealth lies between 1 million and 3 million.

Although this situation cannot be said to be common in this society now, there are many people.

This view lies in the general older generation, which is called a successful person.

For many young people, there are many people who think differently from the older generation, for one of them, as long as the wealth reaches tens of millions or billions of units is called success, thinking of having their own companies and enterprises, dreaming of reaching the height of some people, such as: Ma Yun, Wang Jianlin and other well-known successful people.

But how can the reality be like this, the real society is very cruel, and it has undoubtedly frustrated the dreams of many young people.

In fact, the measurement of the word success depends on the individual, different people have different opinions, there is a kind of people who think that having money is success.

Only with wealth can he have everything, and with money he can achieve what he wants.

The other view is that success is not to be rich, to have a happy family, to live in harmony with each other, and to have a good job and wealth is not a state of poverty.

It should be approached in several ways. It is divided into financial quotient, emotional quotient IQ 1, financial freedom in terms of financial resources, and there are multiple income channels. 2. Have a happy love with relatives, friends, colleagues, get along with each other, and make great contributions to society.

The meaning of success is different in everyone's heart:

1. Worldly success is to have money, a career, a house, and a family.

2. Achieving good results in a certain aspect and doing what you like is also a kind of success.

3.Living an ordinary life, a happy family, healthy children, good health of the elderly, and love for lovers is also a kind of success.

4.Be happy every day, not lazy, know how to be filial to your parents, and be loving. In fact, it is also a kind of success.

Success is actually a feeling, it can be said to be a positive feeling, it is a state of self-confidence and a feeling of satisfaction after everyone reaches their ideals! In short, each of us has a different definition of success! And there is only one way to achieve success, that is, you must first learn to give what ordinary people can't give!

Success is about achieving the goals you set.

Success, for many people, is a long way away! There is no secret to success, but I think you must first have a passionate heart to achieve success.

If there is no enthusiasm, he will not succeed if he is interested; It is also necessary to have a cool head, and impulsiveness or rush is often the factor that prevents success.

Einstein had a formula: a=x+y+z, where a stands for success, x stands for hard work, y stands for correct method, and z stands for less nonsense. It can be seen that success requires hard work

There are many good brothers of the opposite sex who have money, power, and the opposite sex that will follow you for life, and they are successful people.

Everyone's goals are different, so the definition of success is different.

Some people may be successful as long as they can find a good wife and have a good family. In fact, the subjective social understanding is generally like this, power, a certain social status, wealth, can be affirmed and respected by many people. That's a success.

In fact, I think that as long as a man can be respected by many ordinary people, he is sure, then he has succeeded, and he does not need some external power, money, etc.

Brother Chun, how can a man be considered successful; This can't be like what is said upstairs, how can it be considered successful; There is an understanding of every success for every class of people, and I hope you understand

Those who don't have money are considered successful when they have money;

Rich people are considered successful when they own the property of the state

Rich people wait until they get as much wealth as they can in the world.

So what I want to say is the definition of success for each class of people.

It's different! But the most benchmark of success.

Do you know what it is?

That is, it can make the family happy; Lover's happiness;

Maybe this is the greatest success! ·#

There are rich, powerful, women, careers, some people respect, there are old people, there are young people, and there are people in the middle who share happiness. No matter how rich you are, no one will share happiness with you, just because of your money, it won't make you happy!

Man, tired! For the sake of the family, for the sake of the children, successful men should draw conclusions through comparison, or the positioning of life, through positioning to target their own success

Successful men are easy to do. But it's hard for a standard man to do. To have a woman. Money. Undertaking. Right. Wait a minute.

There are thousands of paths to success, and the criteria for success are different! Some people aim to make money, and they are considered successful when they earn money; Some people aim to study their own specialty, and the research results are considered successful; Some people have a family purpose, and the safety and happiness of their wives and children are considered successful...In fact, as long as a man loves his job and is conscientious and conscientious in your career or in the work you are engaged in, he does not have to care too much about the result, no matter what the result is, the important thing is the process, "At least I have tried...""On the other hand, what a man needs is responsibility, and a man without a sense of responsibility is not a successful man! Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion.

A big husband can bend and stretch, not jealous of other people's achievements, not ridicule other people's downfall, and do his best, this is a successful man!