As a man, how can you really love a girl?

Maintaining a long-term relationship does not mean that loving her is enough. Unless she has too few options. Otherwise, as long as there is a person who is better than you, has a temperament, and understands her, your status will not be guaranteed.

The feelings are mutual, and the more you treat her, the less she cherishes it. Now I'm going to give you a preliminary idea of how to maintain a long-term relationship. How to maintain attraction and mystery in a long-term relationship, and how to maintain attraction in a long-term relationship, first of all, play each other to maintain a sense of mystery.

First of all, you have to have your own story, your own space and privacy, don't open up your world, this sense of mystery is not fixed, its content is constantly being discovered by the other party, becoming something that is not mysterious, and on the other hand, it is constantly enriched and replaced by new content. For example, suddenly change your dressing style, you used to be a good child, suddenly one day you swear, you have always been a gentle and temperamental person, in some situation, such as when she is in trouble, you behave very manly and domineering. There is a saying that the sign of a man who truly loves you is that he has shed tears for you and he has shed tears for you, and he has shed tears for you who has been bleeding for you.

This is the application of anti-skimming in the long term. However, maintaining a sense of mystery is by no means a matter of concealing and deceiving each other. Otherwise, it will be self-defeating, and the sense of surprise in a long-term relationship has to learn to create a sense of surprise.

Many people have the habit of giving gifts on special days or holidays for a long time.

Care and recognition, material support and mutual assistance, spiritual understanding and communication, life can take care of each other, maintain constant attention and care, try to recognize and support each other's positions and choices, mutual understanding, love is long-lasting tolerance and patience.

Give her a sense of security, enhance her charm to make herself a better boyfriend, don't talk about other girls, and keep this heart that wants to love her.

Every girl's needs are also different, some people like sweet words, some people like you to give her gifts, some people like to go around to play and eat delicious food, some people like you can take care of her, and some people like two people to stick together and greasy. You have to see what your girlfriend needs, what she likes, and give her what she wants.

My boyfriend is very cute, I feel very happy, we are a standard sister and brother relationship, I am three years older than him, I think it is necessary to have a sense of ceremony, the girl itself is more concerned about these vain things, you want to be happy, I think it is necessary to cater to her preferences, at that time the relationship has not been determined, he used to coax me to buy happy, in fact, we don't have to buy flowers on a date or something on any holiday, because he is younger than me, I don't always ask him for gifts. The office often receives the small flowers he buys, which are very cheap, but he always thinks that it is a blessing to be remembered!

Everyone wants something different, it's me, I want my boyfriend to be there when I need it, in other words, I can't always get tired of being together, and when there is always no sense of distance between people, it's easy to have contradictions and boredom.