Please help me with my feelings

Now he wants to be with you too. But some things need to be taken one step at a time. Retreat is the best way, don't push him, don't put pressure on him. But that doesn't mean just let it go.

He also has to find a way to end his current relationship, in fact, breaking up is not as simple as he thought, and the past between them is not everything you know, and you don't need to know too much, just let it be.

It's almost the holidays, buy some thoughtful gifts for his parents. Of course, you can just give it to him, let him give it to him, and say that he bought it.

Tell him that you will wait for him, let him settle their affairs calmly, and try to get along as well as possible, but you don't get involved.

I suggest you examine him a little more.

Now that I already have a girlfriend, I have to find another one, which is a betrayal. Since you don't like that girlfriend, why don't you break up decisively, delay others and yourself? The boy is really not very good, it is typical to pedal 2 boats.

He's now hoping for both. Natural selection is painful.

I think if he doesn't give you an answer during the New Year and can't break up with his ex-girlfriend, I think you can forget it. It's not a good thing that you're marrying far away.

When you get married, you'll both find each other's shortcomings. You'd better think about it.

If he is really worthy of your reliance, then you don't have to do anything to grasp his heart, do whatever you have to do, don't force him.

You can even take a retreat as an advance. You just said that I was also very painful to see you make such a painful choice, so you should choose your current girlfriend... Then see how he reacts.

If he loves you, he will feel that you really think about him, and if he doesn't really love you, he will really choose his current girlfriend.

Since you are not married, anyone can fight for it.

That's not how people are.

You had known each other for too little time.

You should be talking about spending some time with him.

If you've been together for two years, it's still a question of whether you'll be able to move forward.

Let it go! Although you may not like to hear it, but I still have to say, from our men's point of view, a person with a girlfriend denies his girlfriend only once to a strange girl, is it a bit too careful, unless you are sure that he will not leave you after you get along, friend, please forgive me if you say something wrong, I hope you are happy!

In fact, there is no need to worry too much about this emotional matter! I can see that he is very annoying, you have a certain place in his heart, you just need to continue to be by his side, just be as happy as before, he may choose you. Don't put too much pressure on him!

Spending a happy time with him is the most memorable thing for you, so you should cherish it! Huh,"Men are not bad, women are not loved"You should take this as a positive word.

Take it off, it's very simple, the compartment yarn. What more can a man ask for from a woman. The rest is a man's business.

First of all, let me summarize:

A he: He is a very mature kind of man, who knows how to think long-term, and is very open-minded, and will tell you what he feels from the bottom of his heart, and he does not hide it.

b You: I like him very much, gentle and considerate of the man you love, very persistent in love, and deeply hope to spend a good moon, which is your advantage.

The problem is that he is hesitant to step on two boats. To be honest, standing in a neutral place and analyzing calmly, I am really worried about you: since he already has a girlfriend, but he is with you, it shows that he is uncertain, and he really doesn't dare to compliment him.

Morally, he was wrong; Emotionally speaking, it is excusable, because the human heart is flesh and can be chosen. So I thought, if he and you end up together and start a family, then you have to be especially careful about him, what if he meets a more beautiful girl? You have to think about it.

You said you loved him a lot and wanted to be with him, and now it's that he's conflicted. The situation is no longer out of your control.

Your strengths: It is your appearance and caring understanding of him, which is the root of his love for you. And that girl is inferior to you in that regard.

Your disadvantage is that you are not in the same place, and the other girl is his girlfriend and he will not ignore the previous relationship.

What he is faced with is the one who loves you more than he does. Because his girlfriend's personality isn't the type he likes, or you're better at it. The reason why you can't control it is because of your triangular relationship.

I thought: he'll choose you eventually.

1 Regardless of the fact that there is not much difference between you and her appearance, men will choose a milder character. After all, a woman's beauty is a factor, but it will disappear over time, but the personality formed by a person at the age of 14-22 is unlikely to change significantly in his life [under normal circumstances].

As long as you don't put too much pressure on him and give him time [up to a year], eventually your expectations will come true.

I'm also going to have the same thing as you, I'm out of town, the boy is local, I've been with him for a few months, and he has a friend who has been local for 3 years. That was my first love Later, I returned to my own city, and it was a painful time, and I gave up the opportunity to go to a good university for him, and we were separated. Now that I'm with my husband, I know what love is.

Later I learned that he was still with his former girlfriend.

Seriously, if you have already thought about it, made a decision, and supported you, everyone has the right to grasp happiness. If he still can't make a decision, you will change your heart a little, it will be a little sad at first, but there will be real happiness waiting for you. But if you want such a three-cornered relationship, one party must quit, don't force her, but give proper pressure, stepping on two boats is not a good thing after all.

I don't know if he loves you or not, but I know you love him, but you have to think about yourself Friend, you will take away her love in 2 months How long can you love If you want him to get married immediately, will he agree If he doesn't love his girlfriend, how can he be together for 2 years Women have to leave a way for themselves I didn't say that you can't be together But aren't you afraid that there will be a girl like you in the future? You don't ask him if he will say that he will not There is no such cute or something as you will There will be Women are most afraid of choosing the wrong person If you don't believe it, you will see the end of the New Year Cherish it Finally, I still hope that you can find your true love.

Since you love him so much, he loves you too. I'm sure you'll be able to do it in a certain way.

Your emotional stability is emotional stability, and discord is discord. This person who believes that there is no lovelorn under the sky.

If you believe it, you will have it, if you don't believe it, you will not have it, and you will have a Buddha.