Let s analyze a story about marriage

If you don't give red envelopes, you can find an excuse for not knowing that there is such a custom. Forgivable. But when chatting in public, talk about the rights and wrongs of A.

It seems that there is something wrong with B's character (or rather, the quality is a little low).At the same time, it can also reflect A's personality, and from the events described above, it can be seen that A is a well-bred person.

Side speculation: It can be inferred that A and B are not very good in their relationship. It is estimated that they are ordinary acquaintances, slightly better than ordinary friends.

Otherwise, I wouldn't have asked B to be a bridesmaid).But it's a little bit worse than that kind of bosom friend, because if the relationship is really iron, B won't say A's right or wrong in public. Even if you don't say nice things, it's always okay to keep your mouth shut, right?

Girls are quiet, it always gives people a very quiet feeling)

B's psychological speculation at the time: It is estimated that B was asked how many red envelopes A gave at that time, and B said that he did not know that there was such a custom, (B should have been very embarrassed at that time, so he was in a hurry.) After that, everyone was quiet, and everyone was quiet because they were surprised.

Because B has no reason to say that she doesn't know, because even if B doesn't know, B's family, friends, and relatives will remind her. That's why everyone never thought that B would be like this. (I guess B was embarrassed because he was asked, so I don't know if it was because he wanted to divert everyone's attention or to find a suitable reason for himself.)

and only then did he say the right and wrong of a. But there is one thing that I can't figure out, and it is very clear in your account: A was present at the time.

No matter how bad a person B is, he wouldn't be stupid enough to say right and wrong in front of A himself, right? (Is it because of the embarrassment and the confusion of the brain, so much so that he forgot that A was there?) Or is it simply that there are no six gods at all, so they are talking nonsense?

I don't understand.

One. Selfishness, typical selfishness. The heart eye is relatively small.

Two. Emotional intelligence is relatively low, and I don't know how to be a person.

Three. Stupid. Trying to hide the fact that he didn't give a red envelope with A doing very poorly.

Let others see their own faces.

Four. Look at the previous article, A and B should be friends. Something like this happens.

Alas.. Sin.

To put it simply: a person who does something wrong and doesn't admit it and bites back.

b There is no humanity, selfishness, villain behavior, low quality, poor character! A is not worth befriending B!

1, three books and six ceremonies, three media and six hires, eight sedan chairs, ten miles of red makeup, phoenix crowns, and Ming media are marrying.

2, Ming Media is marrying, three books and six ceremonies, phoenix xiaxia, ten miles of red makeup. The beautiful scenery of the good day envy the mandarin ducks!

3, phoenix crown and xiaxia, ten miles of red makeup, three books and six ceremonies, Ming media is marrying, good days and auspicious days, and tying the knot.

4, hired as a wife, Ben as a concubine, three books and six ceremonies, Ming media is marrying is love.

5. If I have long hair and waist, ten miles of red makeup, and a phoenix crown, I would like to hold the hand of my son and get along with Qing.

1. Wedding ceremony: Hang a red double happiness background on the wall, prepare a lit candle on the table, and have a wedding, worship heaven and earth, worship parents, husband and wife, and then thank the fathers and villagers, relatives and friends who come to attend the wedding, and have a grand dinner with the guests at the banquet! After the meal, enter the cave room, the beautiful scenery of the good day, the gorgeous layout, the intoxication of the cave room, the night of the cave room candles, the night can not sleep!

All night long, surging mood, drunk in dreams, life wonderland!! Life is unforgettable!

Big brother: You also want to know about other people's marriages, so you won't know if you get married yourself.

I think this reflects a lot of real-life stories, that is, from the beginning of the good to the final divorce, because often the things you like at the beginning will eventually become the fuse between two people, not to mention the trivial things in life, the accumulation of all kinds of things, will gradually become more and more so that it will come to the point of breaking up, but it does not make me disappointed in entering marriage, because sometimes things, after communication, there will be no backlog of trivial matters, and the correct way of handling will not go to the point of divorce.

The plot of "Marriage Story" is very suitable for the true portrayal of modern couples, it is very resonant when I watch it, and I admire the courage of the heroine after watching it, many women in real life can't do her free and easy.

Marriage Story, this movie is still good, reflecting the psychology of young people in contemporary society and their attitudes towards marriage, as well as the difference in the three views of men and women.

"Marriage Story" is a daily drama series broadcast by South Korean Kbs since January 1, 2015. The play is based on the actual couple's covers, and tells a more realistic romance than a certain love story1.

Ning Feng and Zhang Wanting are a pair. One is used to being a "gas bag", whether he is ridiculed by his partner or hurt his self-esteem, he always looks like he wants to explain but has no chance to explain, and the other is to suppress his partner when he has the opportunity, be aggressive, and never speak well. Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng were married in a flash, they knew each other for less than a month Zhang Wanting was pregnant, and the two got married until the child was born, and there were all kinds of contradictions between the two, Zhang Wanting still commented on this relationship in an interview - we are not familiar with each other.

The audience thinks it's very strange, three or two months of marriage can be said to be unfamiliar, and children have been born for so long and still can't be acquainted, how should this kind of marriage be lived? Of course, it was not good, Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng quarreled under the monitoring**, and Zhang Wanting also said in the interview that when the two quarreled, she held the child with one hand and pinched Song Ningfeng's neck with the other hand to quarrel with him. In this marriage, quarrels are full of them, Zhang Wanting feels that Song Ningfeng doesn't love her enough, and keeps asking for love, but what is the love in Zhang Wanting's mouth?

It is the partner who has to notice her emotional changes all the time, the one who saves her face in front of outsiders, the one who can't fight back and scolds her, and the divorced Song Ningfeng who meets Zhang Wanting, who is ten years younger than him, who is willing to give birth to him, has to love her unconditionally. And what did this woman who asked for love from her partner do? Accusing and suppressing the partner, not respecting the partner's right to speak, and removing the partner's envy for the sake ......of his own faceAll in all, the series of operations is very suffocating.

There are several scenes that are most impressive: One is that three "couples" are sitting on the bus talking and chatting, Zhang Wanting's spearhead suddenly pointed at Song Hunger and Ning Feng, saying in front of everyone that Song Ningfeng had a good life and found a good wife like himself, unlike his own hard life, he found a drag oil bottle like Song Ningfeng. If it hurts her partner's self-esteem very much, Zhang Wanting can blurt it out without thinking, indicating that in places we can't see, similar "verbal violence" often happens.

Just look at Song Ningfeng's expression, embarrassed and a little submissive.