About the relationship problems of college students, the relationship problems of college students

It's hard to say that the feelings are hard to say, everyone wants to give in return, but it's hard. The most important thing is to find that self-improvement, big men should not be so childlike, too emotional but not like a generous person, forget what should be forgotten, remember what should be remembered. It's right to set your own goals and fight for them, and don't be entangled in the repetition of a girl.

The future depends on the plan, but the time is only now, knowing that you will not come back after this second, cherish yourself and square your position. Friend, I'm sure you can handle this.

Be silent for a while, and don't contact for half a month to see if you can hold on. Hold on and continue to insist, if you can't hold on, it means that you still care about her. So just chase her, just chase her, don't have such dirty thoughts in your heart.

For example, give her a message at 5:20 every day, just silently to relate to her and understand her. And her friends. When the time is ripe, take it in one fell swoop!

Yes, that's the bigger the choice, the more indecisive! Her circle of friends now must be huge! There are a lot of excellent male classmates, maybe she is still thinking about your relationship!

Don't be in too much of a hurry! If when she tells you that she is in love, then you think about other things, and now when she needs you to care, give her enough personal space, she will feel your feelings!

Alas, I am very touched by your experience, and I am very sympathetic to you. You can see that you like her very much. But judging by what you're talking about now, and in terms of how she's done to you, I feel like she's in the middle of now.

Besides, you rarely have contact with her now, and the situation is not optimistic.

No one can say anything about feelings, I can only say that you are still young now, and you can usually get in touch with each other when you get along with each other, even if she has a partner, it doesn't matterIt's not necessarily going to happen in the future, but now it's better to do a good job in your studies first, and after graduation, you will have your own career, and then you will have the capital to chase her.

Remote? It's a little incomprehensible... If you really like her, she will remember it if she is good to her. As long as she's single, you can chase her. Be positive.,Girls don't particularly like the type.,Won't take the initiative.,It's up to you to fight for it yourself.。。

You don't want to text every time, if you have something, you will call, don't be afraid to disturb her, you send a text message, they may be annoyed, women are auditory animals, try to do something**, text messages are easy to use at the end of a single exchange.

I'm sorry, landlord, she was already with me yesterday ......She doesn't love you for a long time, who told you not to cherish her at the beginning, she only treats you as an ordinary friend now.

The landlord is not good enough, and the other party has too many choices.

Tell her the truth directly, there's nothing to delay, it's not good for each other.

Ten love advice for college students:

1. Be sincere with each other.

If people are sincere, they can communicate with each other; Heart to heart, if you trust, you can know each other. The most beautiful words are not how beautiful they are, but how true they are; The best people are not how perfect they are, but how much they cherish them.

2. Be conscientious and responsible.

Only serious and responsible objects can be relied on and have a better life in the future.

3. Don't cheat.

Deception is a taboo in love, and deception will lose trust in each other and lead to suspicion in love.

Fourth, learn to "admit mistakes".

Proper admitting mistakes will make the relationship go further.

Fifth, empathy.

Empathy and understanding each other can have a sweet love.

Sixth, don't make too fast progress.

In ancient times, carriages and horses were very slow, and we only loved one person in our lives, so we might as well slow down the pace of love.

7. A sense of security.

The sense of security is given to oneself, and when you have enough strength, you are not afraid of the other party's departure.

8. Free and easy. If you don't get along with each other, you must be free and easy, there is not only love in life, but also many interesting things.

9. There is no need to deliberately curry.

Love is mutual, and there is no need to be wronged.

10. There is a bottom line.

Be sure to stick to your bottom line! Love-Engagement-Marriage-Childbirth, step by step!

1.If one day your boyfriend (or girlfriend) breaks up with you, don't be overly sad, don't be very uncomfortable, life has just begun.

2.Regarding daily expenses, I think it is still based on economic strength, don't consume ahead of time, even if you only have wild chrysanthemums, it can still be very romantic.

3.No matter how good the disguise is, there are times when the horse's feet are exposed, honesty is the basis of the relationship between the two parties, and the occasional white lie, will it be sweet after it is opened?

4.Pay attention to personal hygiene, be clean, and appear in front of him (her) neatly.

5.Don't always think about picking up each other's past, the other party's past has already passed, and since you are together, you have to look forward.

6.Be appropriately selfish and don't be too romantic.

7.Be sure to wear a condom, if you get pregnant, it will be troublesome.

8.Be angry, but don't be angry all the time.

9.Don't open your mouth and close your mouth to say that you are breaking up, no matter how good your relationship is, it can't withstand the consumption of one time and another.

10.Don't put your own future on the other side, you're only in your early twenties, and there are still plenty of options.

1. Love is based on the premise of not affecting one's own learning No matter how free and easy the university is compared to the previous stage of studying, you must always remember that the purpose of entering the university is to study, and to learn more knowledge than any other stage. In college love, I think that encouraging each other to make progress together is what a college student's love should look like. There is no need to pursue those short ** relationships on the Internet.

Second, before falling in love, you must find out the character of the other party Now there are really many people in college who have bad character, be careful, resist fish farming, resist PUA, and protect yourself very important, no matter what, you must protect your wallet, mental state, and body.

3. Don't be wishful thinking in your relationship After all, college students are not old and have less experience, and they are often more stubborn when they meet the object they like, and they always think that if they identify a person, they must be that person. You can pursue a two-way run, or you can find someone who loves you, this depends on your personal thoughts.

Fourth, in love, we must learn to give Modern college students have a more shrewd mentality, and they think more about what they can get from each other in their relationships, but rarely think about what they can give each other. This kind of mentality is both shrewd and stupid, because any relationship cannot be long-term and only one party gives to the other.

Trust is the most important thing in love, there are a lot of long-distance relationships in college, two people are in different cities, or in one city but in two different schools, at this time trust is the most important thing to maintain the relationship between the two.

<> trust is not to imprison the other party in their own world, but to let go of his hands and let him do it himself, everyone's college life is rich, we have to contact very right people or things, we can't stop each other from enjoying their college life, so we must give each other enough personal space, and trust each other enough, this is the most important thing that two people should do to go on together.

1: The need to weigh the relationship between love and schoolwork;

2: Keep your eyes open when looking at others;

3: When you encounter a bad person, you should stop the loss in time;

4: Treat lovers seriously and responsibly;

5: In the process of falling in love, we must know how to love ourselves and others;

6: In the process of falling in love, you must know how to be tolerant;

7: Have good and effective communication.