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Talk to your father and talk to him as an adult.

Since he wants you to be a talent and does not treat you as a child, then he should respect you and listen to your ideas calmly, even if the ideas are not mature.

You are all adults, your father should not be young, you can tell him that people have many identities in their lives, in front of their mothers they are sons, in front of their wives they are husbands, they are fathers in front of their children, and they are leaders, subordinates or colleagues at the same level in front of their colleagues in the unit. For so many years, your father neglected his family, not because he got any sense of accomplishment from helping others outside, but because he neglected a lot of his own responsibilities. He can not give you a job, you are confident that you can do better, but he ignores the feelings of his wife and children.

People have many positions, only this position in the family can not be absent, today he does not help his friends, people can also find others to help, including the unit, he left the post immediately someone on top, and you family he can not be absent, he should think about his responsibilities as a man.

As a junior, you have to find a position to do your work:

One is the father: to persuade him to care more about the family, home is everyone, especially men's harbor, a successful man will be the head of the career and family, not only to rush to the front to kill, but also to run the rear well.

You should be less involved in your parents' affairs.

As for yourself, if you want him to help, just tell him directly, and if you don't think you need to, just work on your own.

As a member of the family, of course, you have to persuade your parents well. The ancients said well, home and everything is prosperous!

For Dad's side, you have to reveal your concern from time to time in your daily chat. Let him not work so hard, let him go home more often and spend time with his mother. Tell your dad that usually you study outside, and if your dad doesn't come home, mom will be bored at home alone.

Besides, in life, money is a thing in the body, and no matter how much money there is, we ordinary people can't earn it all, so we still have to take care of the family, after all, husband and wife have to support each other for a lifetime.

For your mother's side, you also have to persuade well. You have to tell Mom that Dad is working hard outside for our family. Don't always complain in front of your dad, be considerate of dad.

When Dad comes back, he has to cook more of Dad's favorite dishes, as the saying goes, grabbing a man's stomach is also grabbing a man's heart. Therefore, as the hostess of the house, you should be more generous, and you can't always complain, which will make the family unharmonious and unhappy.

Of course, as a child, there is also something to do, and I usually go home more often to spend time with my family. When the children come back, no matter how busy the parents are, they will come home to get together for dinner. Isn't this an opportunity to cultivate affection?

Sometimes the child is really the pistachio of the family, a family, the atmosphere of the home will immediately become cheerful when the child comes back, and if there is any discord between the parents, when they see this happy scene, they will disappear.

Therefore, some small conflicts in the family can still be solved, as a child, you must actively play your own unique identity role!

In fact, it is inevitable that there will be some dissatisfaction and contradictions between husband and wife, but this is also normal, and life still has to pass.

Like my mother will often complain to me about my father's badness, in fact, I think if it is the kind of small things in life, then you can choose to listen to your mother's complaints and comfort her, in fact, sometimes she is just too tired and feels wronged, so she wants to talk to her children, as children, we just need to listen to my mother's talk silently, after all, no one is easy. You can also choose to talk to your mother more about your father's goodness, if you always complain, you will become more and more dissatisfied with your husband, and it is not conducive to your parents' marriage. You can also talk to your father, thinking that the family cannot rely on only one woman, the father is always not at home, the burden is on the mother alone, and the pressure on the mother is very high, and I hope he can fulfill his responsibilities.

All in all, I think that sometimes doing things can also help children "meddle" in things between parents and help ease their relationship.

You should talk to your father more and persuade your father to let him accompany your mother.

I think you can comfort your aunt, and you can also communicate with your uncle, hoping that he can go home to accompany you often.

Mom complaining to you is actually a kind of catharsis, not necessarily what she wants you to do, of course, if you can persuade your father to take care of Mom's emotions more, it may be better.

You can have a good chat with your dad, tell your dad that you want him to come home often, tell your dad that mom misses him a lot. Because you have to comfort your mother and tell her that you are still with her.