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After reading what you wrote, my heart was really dull
Remind you to feel sad
I hate those who are afraid of you even more, they make me despise
I don't know why, maybe it's because you give me a cousin who is very similar to his parents divorced very early, but he is not as miserable as you.
At least we have a big family, and he's a good student, he's a hard worker, and he's a sophomore now
You're used to being alone now
Lack of communication with friends
I think you can talk about your experience today
Isn't it a lot of courage?
If you can face it calmly like this in life?
It can't be, right? I think you have to build confidence in yourself first now, only if you have confidence in yourself, people won't look down on you anymore I think no one is scolding you now, right? ~
In fact, sometimes you think that they scold you because they have poor quality, they don't know how to behave, they don't have the most basic politeness, and in their eyes, everyone is not equal at all, and I look down on people like that
If you're fine, go online more, chat more, and often can't talk about what you want to say and what you have experienced Now you're good, and you have your own job
And there is also the material that I have struggled for in my own work
I think you've worked hard
Maybe you're the best
I want to be friends with you
Do you play QQ ?
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Or maybe it's too lacking in parental love.
It's better to find a girlfriend.
Find someone who loves you or someone you love.
Believe in yourself that you are strong.
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I am touched by your strength. You can be in such a difficult environment"Survival"Down, itself is a success, and now you have to move towards a higher success. You are the most beautiful, and no one will really love you unless you can truly love yourself.
There are enough people who scold you every day, and it's so difficult that you still have to scold yourself for not being able to do it, these people have prejudices against you because they don't understand you. You don't have to pay attention to them, you just do your own thing. Contemptible people think that as a hero upstairs said:
1. Learn a little kung fu; 2. Insist on bathing with cold water.
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Your heart will be uncomfortable, which means that you are not stupid :) Maybe you communicate less with others, others naturally don't understand you, you can communicate with yourself in the mirror when you are at home, communicate more with your grandmother and mother, and then you can boldly communicate with your neighbors, share part of the money you earn, buy some beautiful and neat clothes and shoes, go to the barber shop to make your hair look neat and clean, your colleagues' changes in your appearance will directly affect your evaluation, they will start to be curious about you, then you can try to talk to your colleagues ( Things at work begin) slowly, you can talk about some common topics, you can also express your opinions when others talk about it, and then hang out with your better colleagues often, or participate in more activities organized by the unit, build self-confidence, you will make good friends :)
If there is anything else you need help with, please send me a small note.
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You're not stupid at all, you don't have the self-confidence to be like this
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A few suggestions for you!
1. Learn a little kung fu; Boxing, Sanda!
2. Read the newspaper aloud at home for an hour every day!
3. Insist on taking a shower with cold water!
4. Eat an apple every day!
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You lack language communication, you will get better if you communicate with others, you have survived so much suffering, you didn't buy your own mobile phone, TV, computer. Believe you can do it.
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Remember: you are not stupid! People who say you are a fool are snobbish who are flattered and bullied.
In addition, if you want to be respected by others, first of all, you should respect yourself as early as possible.
You yourself should try to change your opinion.
Society needs you to adapt, and society will never stay for one person.
I wish you happiness.
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You're not stupid, on the contrary, you're strong and smart, it's just that you're a little bit of a problem with your social skills. Don't be afraid when you go out to face those people in society, don't blush, dare to face them, communicate with colleagues often, over time, after you slowly adapt to it, there should be no problem, don't be inferior, have self-confidence, believe that you can do it, come on!!
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No one is a fool, so learn to respect others, and if you respect, others will respect you. Here's a look at what it takes to be a respected person:
Be a respectable person.
1. HonestNo matter how high a person's achievements and status are, as long as he is dishonest, then he will not be respected by others. Therefore, in our daily interactions, we must treat everyone with the best sincerity and take sincerity as the first principle of our interpersonal communication.
2. People who are honest and generous and like to talk about others behind their backs usually do not get the respect of others. You may be talking about someone else's grooming today, but tomorrow you may be talking about someone behind their back. Therefore, we must always remember that it is not a good practice to talk about others behind our backs.
3. PolitenessA well-mannered person usually gets the respect of others, but a person who makes a fool of himself often makes others feel uncomfortable. Therefore, being polite is not only a matter of respect for others, but also of yourself.
Fourth, learn to trustThere is another kind of person who is difficult to gain the trust and respect of others, that is, people who just talk but do not do. Therefore, only by doing the things at hand can we prove our personality and quality, let others see our inner ability in getting along day and night, and gain the respect of those around us.
5. Be sincere to peopleIn life, we will meet a lot of people who can talk. They often only need a few words to untie your knot and make you confess everything to him. But after this kind of person gets along for a long time, it brings people a sense of insecurity and hypocrisy.
Over time, they lose people's respect.
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Hello Kiss is happy to answer this question for you. Not stupid" is not a fool, but many things are stupid, some stupid things have been done, ignorant and irrational. However, my feeling is that I am stupider than smart people, smarter than stupid people, sometimes I am stupid in front of smart people, and I am stupid when I look at stupid people in front of stupid people.
But this kind of fool is not the same as a real fool, a real fool is not wise, or very low in wisdom. Stupid or not, it depends on the ability to do things. If you say you're a fool, you're a fool, that's when he shows something to you, you're too smart.
It's not that people themselves are stupid, and some things are deliberately done. It's a blessing to be stupid, don't you know? It's not that everything has to be at the forefront.
Silly has stupid blessings. It's because of stupidity that you can't get happiness. It's not that I have to be very good at it, and let people invite it.
That man has the blessings of a fool. It's silly to know, isn't it? You think you're so good that no one will fight.
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Of course a fool can get married, why can't he get married?
Because the fool's head is empty, he doesn't want to be annoyed by anything, he has nothing to worry about, he lives a day and a day, he knows how to be happy, and it's strange if he is unhappy. The reason why people feel unhappy is because they have a lot of calculations, a lot of worries, a lot of sorrows, a lot of greed, and a lot of desires, so they make their faces sad and miserable, which leads to unhappiness. If people can get rid of these problems, know how to be happy, and stop in moderation, then the happiness index will also rise.
will not be regarded as a fool, but there are a few strong people in every place, and a few people who bully the weak and are afraid of the hard, in the long run, they will be passive or even disturbed by others, if they can find the right way to express themselves, try to say their thoughts, work is not like going to school, not the more obedient the more likeable.
Of course, I don't think that a silent person is a fool, a silent person doesn't mean that he is a fool, a silent person just doesn't want to speak.