Let s talk about the different truths you realized when you grew up?

When I grew up, I realized the hard work of being a parent, and I paid too much for life and children.

Mom's statement that I will receive the red envelope for you first, and then give it to you when I use it is a lie.

I used to think that reading was useless, but now I feel how important it is.

When I was a child, we generally accepted the concept that it is very important to be internal, but when you enter the society, you will find that many people will not have in-depth contact with you, and your appearance will bring him the first impression.

Many times what people say is a summary of their life experience, and when we were young, we scoffed, but when we grew up, we found that what they said was so reasonable, just like parents always advised their daughters, don't marry far away, they are really like never having this daughter, when we were young, we didn't understand why our parents would say such things, but when we married far away, we will understand the deep meaning of this sentence.

Money is really important, you feed the whole family by yourself and don't go hungry, and it's naturally easy to live a leisurely life that regards money as dung. But when you meet your friends and encounter a crisis that cannot be solved by money and you can't help, or when you meet a girl who loves and hates with you and can't make a private lifelong commitment, and her mother wants a house and a car, but you can't even get a down payment, or your beloved girl wants to travel and is willing to AA with you, but you still can't afford to pay, you will regret the beginning.

In elementary, junior high and high school, teachers will tell you not to deviate from the subject. However, when you grow up, your competitiveness is often on the partial subject, and then you often have to be partial to the subject, and at a certain point to be particularly prominent, to achieve the extreme, you will find that there is a sea and sky in front of you. Partial subjectivity, probably the so-called "professionalism".

Therefore, when it is time to be biased, it is often a problem to find that you are not biased, note that this "later" usually refers to the university and beyond, which is often the core competitiveness.

Don't lower your bottom line, don't wander in the gray area. Sometimes you will meet people who pull down their bottom line and gain some benefits. They don't seem to be getting something they shouldn't have gotten at no cost.

It seems that the bad guys have not been punished either. But bad ways of doing things will increase the probability of bad results. Once, twice, three times, maybe no one noticed.

Ten times, eight times, nine times, how is it possible to survive every time? In the same way, it's the same thing with doing good deeds, maybe once, twice, three times you don't get any benefit. Ten times, eight times, nine times, the more you do it, the greater the probability.

You will be more likely to encounter happiness.

When I was a child, whenever a child came to my house to play, I would take out all the treasured candy and snacks to share, and then the children would eat desperately, chewing in their mouths and holding in their hands, and there was no food residue left. I would also take out my favorite toys for them to play with, and a few times they were broken, and I kept holding them until they were gone. There is also a game console, I showed the opening animation of Dragon Ball and Street Fighter to my friends, and after a while, the children shouted angrily:

Isn't that what you love to watch? We haven't played anything yet! How selfish!

I remember the day they saw the Conan comics on my desk and borrowed them and never returned them. I have always felt that people must be generous, generous, know how to share, and have no reservations about others, in order to be sincere. But in fact, it is not.

People are very subtle, and it is difficult for people to remember what others do to them, but remember what others are bad to them. What's even more interesting is that once you get used to giving, then one day you don't give, people will think you're bad. In the adult world, you rush to do a job that is troublesome and unflattering and no one likes to do, and once you make a mistake, everyone will blame you in every possible way.

Once one day you don't want to suffer a loss, even if you just want to be normal, everyone will feel that you have taken advantage.

Being too ugly and too beautiful is not a good thing, and it is easy to get lost by paying too much attention.

In the face of difficulties and contradictions, it is often not the kindest person who solves the problem in the end, but the most calm and rational person who is neither humble nor arrogant; Kindness and reason themselves do not conflict, but when faced with problems, it is often difficult for people who first "use" kindness as a problem solver to remain calm and rational.

It is necessary to endure hardships in order to become a master. In college, it is not uncommon to skip class and not write homework because of poor self-control. Every time I sit at the study desk, I always feel miserable.

If you hold on to reading a book for a while and solve a few questions, you will lose your energy, either to see Zhou Gong, or simply put away the book and run out to play. Of course, many times the test results are very bad, and when I see the high results of the theology masters, I really feel that it is difficult to catch up. Tsinghua University is also demanding on students' athletic performance, with boys running 3,000 meters a year.

Every time I run, I feel extremely difficult, and my grades can barely reach the standard. However, there are indeed organizations of running enthusiasts in the school, such as the running version of the fans on Mizuki BBS back then. At that time, I couldn't imagine how strong willpower those long-distance runners had to be to train a pair of iron legs.

When I grew up, I slowly understood that in fact, many times, learning should be a happy thing. Relying on masochistic hardships can be exchanged for temporary progress, but if you want to maintain it, you still can't anesthetize yourself with "suffering in the bitterness".

In fact, "good character", "reasonableness" and "kindness" are often qualities that only people who are healthy and energetic are qualified to have. Climbing a mountain with someone, someone shouts tired after two steps, not necessarily because he doesn't care about the atmosphere of the trip, it may be that he is weak and easily tired. At this time, someone took his bag and carried it on his shoulder, although this person was generous and helpful, but he was also so strong that he did not think it was a big deal to help someone get a bag.

I used to think that as long as I worked hard, I could be focused, I could be more productive, and I could be gentle with anyone I wanted to be gentle. But when my physical condition was not good, I found that the difficulty of controlling my emotions was closely related to my physical condition, and there were far fewer problems that willpower could solve than I thought.

Since I was a child, my parents taught me to be diligent in doing things, "only when you suffer hardship can you become a superior person", which is what my father often said, and this sentence is also a sentence that I have always regarded as the truth, and I have always done so. But as I grew older, experienced a lot of people, and after a lot of things, I had a new understanding of this sentence, which is only half right, because it lacks the first half of the sentence, and the first half of this sentence I rarely hear people say, is "choose the right direction".

1.If we can't sit down and rest, it's usually a sign that there are some internal issues that need to be addressed.

2.Our daily thoughts can actually change your DNA.

3.There are always two sides to a story. To understand people's art is to evaluate it from the opposite perspective.

4.Learning to be present is important for emotional well-being. Even if that means taking off your shoes, putting down your bag and running in the rain!

5.Pineapple is the most delicious poisonous fruit!

6.Never make a decision when you're emotional. Whether it's arguing or shopping. Will regret it later.

7.Information should never be taken at face value. Check not only the **, but also the sponsors. Sponsors have a lot of influence.

8.Laughter and smiles are contagious. Make the people around you feel more confident to receive you.

9.Craving certain foods doesn't mean you're necessarily hungry. Especially if these cravings are junk food, it's most likely something that harmful bacteria want.

10.The simple action of stopping and admiring the surrounding scenery greatly reduces stress.

11.Always listening to ** or other electronic noises prevents us from learning the basic ability to read body language and grasp subtle social cues. Considering that this is a lifelong lesson, we will be slower to evolve in this area.

12.Pickle juice helps to clear the intestines. No wonder I was so healthy as a child!

14.A good way to stop controlling things is to take a bus, train, or car, drive somewhere, without caring about the place, without a plan.

15.Even if you have the right answer, sometimes it's better to say nothing at all.

16.Life is not always about the emotions of the situation in front of you.

18.I didn't like prunes when I was a kid. As an adult, it hasn't changed.

19.It's best not to show shock when someone says something unexpected.

20.I didn't listen to what I expected....People will notice the difference.

21.Don't be afraid to stand on your point of view, but listen when others are expressing their own.

22.There is a lot of emotional stress without a foundation.

23.The computer was actually invented in the 1800s.

24.The sunflower fields are the most refreshing sight!

25.In fact, being weak or disabled can push you further than being naturally talented. The difference is in the attitude.

26.Finding a pattern of life can often help us understand why something is happening. For example, when we walk around, people feel that people are against us. Usually, it is trained. The thoughts we tell ourselves are what we begin to see.

27.While at work, never think, "There are only 9 or 5 jobs in your life." Instead, he thought, "This is a stepping stone." The attitude behind it is what makes the transition for successful businessmen.

28.If we're willing to face insecurity, people in their 20s and 30s can take off randomly without a plan and head anywhere in the world.

When I grew up, I found that money is very difficult to earn, it is not as easy as I thought when I was a child, even if I work very hard every day, I can only solve my food and clothing.

Reading is really important, and you really have to live to learn, and at the same time, you must be kind to the people around you, and you must understand the importance of time, and you must make the most of it.

I personally understood the truth when I grew up that it is not easy for parents to make money, we must work harder, spend more time with our parents, and don't wait until the child wants to support and die.