I was confused, I felt like I was a failure in my life

You can't change, it's innate.

However, there are a few things to be aware of.

There are no absolutes, good and bad are mixed, such a character has advantages and disadvantages, people who are smooth are not necessarily good, many people hate such people, including myself.

Don't look at them knowing how to behave in the world, but they don't necessarily feel comfortable psychologically, and pretending is the most tiring thing, you know.

In fact, everyone should know the method, and the most famous must be Confucius-I am three times a day!

It is easy for a person to understand the flaws in his personality, but it is almost impossible to correct them. But you can pay attention and learn from each other's strengths.

Easier said than done. I'm also a very straight person. However, I know my shortcomings, and I can't change them, but I can suppress the frequency of my shortcomings.

For example, I don't know how to behave in the world, I don't know how to pat on the back, and I don't know how to touch the hair. Then I simply don't speak, or talk less, anyway, if you talk less, others won't think you don't know how to be polite, hehe, but some people will think that you are wise and introverted.

I don't know what to do, I definitely don't pretend I understand, because everyone is an adult, do you understand it or not, others will know it at a glance, when others talk and brag, I listen, let him blow, I can't get used to listening to the song with headphones. Wouldn't you do stupid things to poke people's hearts with a pink?

People can see through you at a glance because your performance is too obvious, as long as you are deeply exposed to society, you can basically judge what kind of person this is from the performance that everyone usually projectes.

You know that if you want to cover it, all people have countless times of self-deception every day, but why can others behave so well in the world, because the natural level of self-deception of others is not the same level as ours, and we can't learn it.

In summary, how do honest people survive in this materialistic world? Talk less, do more, take it easy before you speak, don't blurt it out, it's best to have half a sentence in your mouth, even if you say it slowly, it's fine. It's better than saying the wrong thing and offending someone.

Hello, how old are you?

If you have already run 3 and 4, it is recommended that you don't care what others say, just be yourself. There is no need to change yourself. Poor communicative skills can avoid doing jobs that require too much communication.

Sometimes disadvantages are advantages, and there are many places where people like you are needed. For example, the leader is more relieved to have subordinates like you. If you're not good at communicating with people, you'll study technology.

I believe that you are the right person to do technology.

If you are still young, you can consider a change, the most important thing is to talk less and listen more, listen to what other communication masters have to say, and see how they do it, since there are so many good role models around. Just study hard. When you have more experience in society, you will naturally get better.

Talk less, do more; Usually pay more attention, observe more, learn from other people's methods, and if you don't know what you don't understand, you can go online, read books, or ask people you think are reliable, I wish you progress.

In fact, it is not necessarily a good thing for you to be like this, no matter what job, what boss, he needs people with various personalities, for example: people who make small reports, I think any boss needs them. Talking about customer masters, the company's business will also be reused.

In the company, work silently, the boss is also very optimistic, everyone has different advantages, play their own advantages (rectum) let the boss find your advantages, work more, talk less, in today's society, more is better than less, can avoid it. I want to tell you that the important point is that you must see the people around you clearly, some people are very good at playing smart, maybe they still have some thoughts, but others can see at a glance, such a person will never be a smart person, don't get very close to her, and it will not be good for yourself. There is another kind of person, he cares about everyone, but his concern is taken as a habit, so maybe no one cares, so people who are good to you should know how to be grateful.

When you pay attention to these little details, you know how to do it. We must recognize the people around us, and we must also recognize the current society. Sometimes, when you have to do something, if you don't feel like you're hurting others, just try!

I wish you a good mood every day.

It is said that the nobles are late in speaking, think clearly and understand, and work steadily.

When you feel like your life is in the doldrums, here are a few things you can try:

1.Find the root cause: Think back to what the cause of your life is down, diagnose yourself, and see if it's work, relationships, health, money, or something else. Finding the root cause of the problem is conducive to adjusting one's mindset and emotions.

2.Build a positive mindset: Focus your attention on the positive and make yourself feel more optimistic and confident. You can help yourself build a positive mindset by practicing gratitude, mindfulness meditation, self-affirmation, and more.

3.Find help: Talk to friends and family to find their advice on how to look for them. You can also seek help from professionals such as psychologists, counselors, etc.

4.Set goals and act: Think about what you want, make feasible plans and goals, achieve them gradually, and get out of the trough one step at a time.

5.Maintain a healthy lifestyle: Maintaining proper exercise, good sleep, a healthy diet, and reducing stress are all effective in improving mood and mindset.

Remember, the trough is a common experience in life, don't give up, persevere, believe in yourself, and you will definitely be able to come out.

The confusion of life is in many ways, and this is difficult to judge.

A lot of the confusion in life is because you can't do what you love. The solution to this kind of problem is to focus and make money, and money can be all confused.

Life is like a glass of boiled water, with honey and salt, it is sweet.

Mindset determines life!

No matter how stressful life is or what the conditions are, keep the best in your heart and let your heart be beautiful first! You're the best!

Everyone has a lot of confusion about life, and I personally feel that the confusion in life, no matter how difficult it is, we should cheer up, slowly resolve in the confusion, and face the new life again, don't think too much.

As the saying goes, "every family has a scripture that is difficult to read", everyone will have unsatisfactory places in work and life, regardless of whether you are rich or not. When you are confused, it is sometimes difficult for others to persuade you because the circumstances are different. You need to sort it out by yourself, especially to look down on some things, and think more about what you have that others may not have.

In addition, cultivating your hobbies, keeping yourself busy, and transferring your mind can also be effective.

I'm just very lost and confused right now, I don't know what I should do every day, where to start, and I want to keep myself busy.

People will have a time when they are confused.

It means that you have not yet found a direction that suits your long-term development, and you must remember.

Don't be impatient, impatience will make you do whatever you want.

Not a bit ambitious.

Think calmly, the best job for you and the best place for you to work in an industry for many years.

First, you have to love the industry.

Second, the industry does not conflict with your personality.

For example, you are a particularly active person.

But choose a lone worker.

For example, in this position, you only need to complete it silently by yourself for a long time, and you will be lonely and feel depressed.

Be sure to find a job that suits your personality.

Even in the early stage, you can't earn much compensation.

As long as you persevere, you will have a small world of your own in this field, and when the time comes, your career will improve.

Your mood will also become more and more comfortable, and how much money you make is secondary.

People should have a stable job that they enjoy.

This is the happiest thing in life.

Plan for your life for a long-term job.

Don't envy others after you've found a job that suits you.

It's when others envy you!

1. During the confusion period, you must first calm yourself down, you can go to Mount Tai to find the feeling of being in the sky and holding your head high; You can also go to see the sea and find the momentum of the sea and rivers. Prepare yourself for accumulating positive energy.

2. Think calmly about what your interests are? What kind of person did you ever want to be? What kind of knowledge do you feel good about and can be further developed?

If you don't know your interests, you can go to the career assessment section of the First Workplace Forum to take a free career aptitude assessment and have a general understanding of your interests.

3. What is suitable for analyzing your personality? Different jobs are suitable for people with different personalities to do. Recognizing your personality is a very important step. You can also go to the first workplace forum to do a personality assessment to understand your personality traits before making a decision.

4. What are your strengths and strengths? What are some of the skills that can be used? How should you make up for your lack of ability?

5. Have a comprehensive understanding of what weaknesses exist in your personality itself that need to be overcome? Don't let weaknesses get in the way of your growth.

You are in a period of confusion, four or five years after graduating from college, you have a certain amount of experience, but you don't know what you want in the future, and the pairs of friends around you also increase your anxiety. This is normal. The solution is to set a goal for yourself and then work hard to recharge your batteries and live a more fulfilling life.

Failure is the mother of success, you have just entered the society, this society, everyone in this world will encounter setbacks, will encounter unpleasant things, if you can do both jobs then choose one you are good at, don't be entangled, time waits for no one, boldly walk forward, don't think about anything so carefully, then nothing can be done, and don't give up on yourself at any time.

Have confidence in yourself, confident girls are the most beautiful, you have no confidence in yourself, disappointed, what else can others say, don't underestimate your self-confidence, the front is always bright, come on, you can!

After the Spring Festival, look for a job, find a partner, study hard, work hard, and live well.

It's best to keep you busy and full so you don't feel lost.

You're not a failure, you're trying, but you're not yet successful.

Never deny yourself, have faith in life, have faith in yourself, life is getting better and better.

You just have to think about it, all the detours we should take are indispensable, and the south wall that we should hit has to be hit. Is life hard? Answer: It's simpler than you see, and the real simplicity is where you can't see it. Come on, you'll be able to do it.

Normal! That's how life is!

It's harder now, it's better later.

There will be good times in life, there will be adversity, as long as the heart is full of hope, there will be no life.