People nowadays will take advantage of you at every opportunity

It is a matter of a person's personality, qualities, morality, etc.

Everyone has a different experience.

Creates a different idea.

If you have been deceived by someone else or have been subjected to something unjust.

Don't feel like you don't want to give people a chance in the future.

Because tolerance is still the most important thing for a person.

It doesn't matter what others are like.

Just be yourself.

No one will criticize you for being inclusive.

And if you tolerate people, you will feel that you are not upset by these things.

How to be a human being.

What kind of mentality, what kind of tolerance and even what kind of character should you have?

It's all up to you.

I hope you can be an inclusive person.

There are many more injustices in the world.

Can you get over the same annoyance?

Learn to be inclusive.

Don't be so stingy and forgive others. You are happy, and others are comfortable. That's right"Take a step back and open the sky".

The best way is to call the traffic police on the spot, or take someone directly to the hospital for examination. It's been exposed many times on TV, such a person is called"Touching porcelain".

I had this experience at the Guangzhou Railway Station, where I was extorted 100 yuan and went to Guangzhou alone to look for a job.

It's still terrifying to think about it now.

I advise all junior brothers and sisters to go together, especially girls, be careful.

Hit 110or call your brothers.

Hehe, I recommend hitting 110

Yes, these people are hateful.

I may choose to stay away from such a person, and I may even choose to live in another city, and if he really does something to me, I will call the police.

If you meet such a person, you should avoid too much communication and contact with him, do not contact him alone, prepare some self-defense tools in your bag, be vigilant, and do not easily agree to any of his requests.

Frankly speaking, this kind of person is very calculating, they are well versed in the way of socializing, they are always able to exploit all kinds of loopholes, and they will use different methods to achieve their goals in the face of different people. Whenever I see those who have suffered losses but are silent, their psychology of pinching soft persimmons immediately begins to move.

The reason why they have been able to succeed again and again is precisely because of their extremely low sense of social morality and rogue mentality. All kinds of struggle experiences have made them tried and tested repeatedly, so the soft persimmon psychology has become their logic and experience, and it has become a kind of communicative inertia.

In their consciousness, there are two common human natures: introspection and order. When there is a problem, they will strike first, using the methods of questioning, doubting and scolding to deter the other party, find the problem from their own side, and let the other party fall into an illusion that they are wrong, and they will not find the reason from him, but feel sorry for him.

The reflex arc of people is relatively long, and by the time they react to what is going on, the matter is often over.

Mis-transfers and emotional garbage**.

Psychologists point out that self-blame and self-imposed pressure are more likely to damage people's emotions than anger. Those who are unreasonable take advantage of precisely this. For example, if something goes wrong, they will put the main blame on you, which is a classic mistransfer.

There is a special defense mechanism in their minds, so that they can't tolerate the feeling that the mistake is self-inflicted, so those who cooperate or collaborate with them become the object of their blame. At the end of the day, it's that they don't want to take responsibility alone, and they always want the people around them to bear the same bad experience as they do.

Of course, none of us are stupid, it's just that sometimes we choose to be silent. But how can we possibly remain calm after suffering a lot of dumb losses? At this time, it is inevitable to be angry, not only angry with those scumbags, but also angry with yourself, and even angry with the whole society.

We are angry, why would we cooperate with such a person? Why would such a scumbag let himself meet? Why are you so stupid, you have been tricked by this kind of person, and you still know it later.

This is what genetics brought to him, and he was born like this.

It's the so-called nature of the bucket shed.

If the person feels bad like this, he can overcome this shortcoming in the future, and he can change himself even if he is empty the day after tomorrow.

Why are there always people around you who like to take advantage of you? Why do some people always get used to it and take advantage of it?

On both fronts, the former is not weak and easy to bully. First of all, you must affirm your value in the hearts of others, and that you are someone who can help and is willing to help others. Because your knowledge, experience, height, and thickness ......It should be commendable to make others useful, at least you are an excellent person.

The basic value of interpersonal communication lies in the unspoken rules of "utilization" or "being used", if you are not a trustworthy person, not a valuable person, how can you have the opportunity to be "used" by others? It is precisely the proof of one's own value in the hearts of others that it is enough for people to use the basis for equivalent exchange or benefit exchange.

The latter may be due to many reasons such as the original family or life, growth environment, etc., which has become a habit of asking and then becomes natural and unknowing. Therefore, the starting point of doing anything is to start with a free request, and I don't know that anyone but me will not always help, but no one can tell you that such a request is wrong. Because it is not necessary for others to come, and secondly, they will not offend you by correcting or teaching you because of your problems.

After feeling it as a bystander, he will only leave the ...... silently

I mentioned the difference between the poor and the rich before, but the poor often talk about the pattern, as long as you have a different opinion and do not follow his opinion, you will immediately say that you have no pattern? I didn't even understand what the pattern was, but instead turned the pattern into a idiomatic term. The pattern of the rich includes knowledge, insight, height, attitude, ability, ......The overall view and opinion of a thing, the height of expression, the tolerance of people, etc.

The same is true of the attitude and pattern of life that take advantage and don't like to take advantage, no matter what you do, you will not start from free in the first place, but start from the interests of the other party.